Some women write to me from time to time, frustrated that the Gemini guy they like or have been flirting with still hasn’t asked them out. This sign loves to connect, however, will a Gemini make the first move? The answer will not come to you right away. It’s confusing for sure, and here are some reasons why he may not be moving forward yet…
Gemini man taking things slow is not a rare phenomenon. They have plenty of charm and are not really that picky. They take their time, but they do have certain qualities that they look for to appease their desires.
He has the gift of the gab and can charm the pants off of anyone; this is half of his appeal and what makes a Gemini man so attractive. It is easy to see why Gemini men are so irresistible and why so many women are smitten with this sign. They keep things interesting and are a wonderfully exciting partner to have for any woman.
Are you curious to find out if you should reach out to a Gemini man first, or is it best to wait for him to make the first move? Then this is the article you need to read!
Keep reading to find out more about Gemini men and whether they make the first move.
What Taking Things Slow Mean To A Gemini Man
While this guy is awfully charming, the Gemini man can also at times be very pulled back and likes to take things slow. Remember, he has two sides—one side is playful and easygoing, while the other side is cold, independent, and needs space.
A Gemini man will enjoy life with his woman, but he will also want to spend time alone. It’s not a personal attack on his partner, but this guy has to find personal space or he will feel constricted and want to exit.
This is sometimes translated into not being in a hurry, not rushing things out, contemplating whether to commit or keep looking, and thinking it through, so there are many reasons behind this behavior.
Why Hasn’t A Gemini Man Made A Move Yet? 3 Possible Reasons
He Isn’t Emotionally Available
Why hasn’t a Gemini man made a move yet? If you don’t see a ring, it doesn’t mean that he isn’t already involved. If you don’t know him well but he flirts with you endlessly, he may actually already be in a relationship with someone.
He could even be married. Some Gemini men do not like to wear a wedding band as they don’t want the masses to know he’s married. He’s a bit ego driven and wants every woman to think he’s available.
That doesn’t mean he’s going to cheat though. The thing is, Gemini men are HUGE flirts. They will go to their graves flirting with as many women as they possibly can.
It takes a strong woman who understands this about him to be able to tolerate his behavior. He just cannot seem to help himself. Even when he is out with his lady love, he may still have roving eyes.
He appreciates women in their entire splendor. When I say he’s emotionally unavailable, he’s either married, in a relationship, or he’s been hurt so much that he has a wall up preventing him from moving forward with anyone.
He’s Not Sure
Your Gemini man seems interested but doesn’t make a move? In the case that the Gemini man isn’t sure if he should get to know you more or not, he will seem reserved. He’ll still flirt with you, but he may not yet be ready to ask you out.
If you’ve let it be known that you are interested in him and still he hesitates, it’s possible he’s been very hurt before and isn’t sure if he wants to proceed or not. Give him a little time.
Now that you’ve talked to him and you’ve figured out that it’s not the first thing I mentioned, it simply means that he isn’t sure about you or that he isn’t sure he wants to initiate a relationship that he cannot fully immerse himself in.
Gemini men are notorious for starting things they cannot finish. Relationships can sometimes be the same. However, most Gemini men are very leery about commitment anyway.
Geminis tend to take a long time before they commit to anyone. If he dives in too quickly, he’ll likely end up bailing out because he realizes it was a mistake to hop in too soon.
He Isn’t Into You Like He Thought He Was
Gemini men change their minds often. They also change their mood often. As such, he may really like you one day and then the next, he isn’t into you at all. Gemini men have complicated personalities.
They are dual in nature which means that their two different ways of thinking constantly go back and forth. This makes it hard for him to process the way the other men do.
Sometimes he will seem as though he’s really into it and wants to take things further. Then he becomes cold and you don’t hear from him for a while. You may not even hear back from him at all.
If you’ve gone out with him and you’re sure he’s not in a relationship, not married, and not afraid, then it may just be that he’s not as into you as he originally thought he was.
Sadly the way he changes his mind can cause a whole lot of confusion for the poor woman that thought she was getting somewhere with her gentle Gemini man. However, he’s changed his mind and likely moved on.
Here’s more about Gemini men mood swings and how to handle them <<
Will A Gemini Man Make The First Move (Ever)?
A Gemini man has a curious and outgoing nature. He is social, communicative, and adaptable. Sometimes he is not inclined to make the first move, but he has no problem initiating conversations and small talk.
Gemini men really are more turned on by a woman’s attitude, demeanor, and intellect. When he hears her speak with eloquence, he’s drawn in and wants to know more. “How deep does this woman’s mind go?” is what he wants to know.
He loves someone with a quick wit who is able to laugh a lot. Gemini typically has a good sense of humor and will try to make you laugh as much as he can. He will also appreciate it if you can pull off making him laugh.
Having said that, one can easily conclude that he would like to make a first move; in fact, he wants to, but he just doesn’t know how. He will not make a move unless he senses interest from your end, in a very subtle way. That would be enough to encourage him to make a first move.
Check here what does a Gemini man likes In a woman <<
How To Get A Gemini Man To Initiate Contact With You
The only way you can possibly know if he is emotionally available is to get to know him better over time. Start asking him questions that would force him to reveal to you what his case may be.
Be friends with him. His flirting is typically very harmless but can be heavy. If he doesn’t pursue you once you flirt back and let him know you’re interested, he’s probably not available.
That means if he’s holding back, he may be trying to get a feel for you and see if you’re someone he’d like to try to form something a little more with.
The only real way to get to the heart of the matter here is to ask him what he sees your situation as. Ask him if he’s interested in getting to know each other more or if he’s unsure. He should be able to tell you.
Do Geminis Want You To Make The First Move?
A Gemini man is not shy. He seems quite secure and sure of himself. Have you ever noticed how a Gemini likes mental challenges and will take nothing personally?
So when a Gemini man is attracted to a woman and wants to get close to her, he often really gets into his head about it. If you didn’t know this, Gemini men can be quite neurotic and anxious. Especially when they really care about something.
This anxiety can be so intense for a Gemini man that he will often pick himself apart and get in his own way that he never even ends up getting the girl because he worked himself up so much.
If you’re dealing with a Gemini man, you can expect him to make the first move. But if you like him, then you can drop subtle hints to give him the green light and show him that you are interested.
Here’s how to show a Gemini man that you’re interested (without seeming needy) <<
FAQ On Gemini Man’s First Move
Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Gemini man and how he feels about you? Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship.
Should I Make The First Move With Gemini?
A Gemini man is attracted to confidence and has no problem with you taking the lead and making the first move. This will make him realize that you are interested and will make him determined to reciprocate.
He knows he has to make a first move, but he will give you enough space to do that for him. He will gladly appreciate it!
Do Geminis Like To Chase Or Be Chased?
It depends on the woman and the circumstances. It also depends on what mood he is in at any given moment.
One mood may dictate a good chase from him, and in the opposite mood, a Gemini man may expect you to reach out to him and do the initiating. This is something you have to learn about your Gemini guy.
Do Gemini Men Fall In Love At First Sight?
A Gemini man likes to get to know a person first before giving them his heart. Although a Gemini man likes to flirt and have fun, he is not someone who falls in love at first sight. He is best suited for a partner with whom he can communicate openly.
Learn here what a Gemini man likes and dislikes in a woman <<
A Gemini man is an interesting person and generally well-informed. He has no problem talking about his inner sentiments and often tends to rationalize his feelings.
Read next: Is Your Gemini Man Hiding His Feelings? Here’s What To Do
End Anxiety About Your Gemini Man…
It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Gemini man who won’t commit.
I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Gemini guys.
I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her. She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.
As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that.
But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him. Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.
How could she just give up on that?
But it wasn’t easy. It took a LOT of work.
She had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language <<
And it worked!!
So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Gemini man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…
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