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How Can You Tell if Your Gemini Man Is Done With You?

Are you having some trouble in paradise with your Gemini man and not really sure whether he’s done with you or is just maybe pulling back a little? Here are some signs to look for that can help you figure out which one it may be.

Not Very Subtle About It

The good or bad news however you choose to see it; is that the Gemini man isn’t subtle when it comes to letting you know he doesn’t want to be with you anymore.

He will just go ahead and stop calling you, stop spending time with you, and stop trying to reach out. He’ll stop answering your calls and/or texts. I’m not talking about for a day or even a week. I mean if he stops entirely; you know he’s done.

No amount of texting him or trying to call him will get him to return. He typically knows what he wants and what he doesn’t want. That means if you want to try to get him back; you’ll have to let some time elapse and let wounds heal.

He isn’t likely to hop right back into a relationship with you if he’s broken it off. If you’ve gone a week or more and you haven’t heard from him; that’s his way of breaking it off.

If you live together it’s a bit trickier. He’ll just do everything he can to avoid you until he moves out. He’ll go to a friend’s house or spend time with family. Whatever he can do to not have to be around you is what he’ll do.

Long Term Relationship Woes

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If you two have been together for a long while; chances are; he’ll just out and out tell you if he thinks he wants out or that it’s over. He won’t want to play any childish games. He’ll want to be direct.

He may also do it in a quick like manner. He isn’t into dragging it out any longer than necessary. So if you’ve been with this guy for a while; he’ll probably just go ahead and tell you it’s not working out for him.

There won’t be any guessing. If he’s immature then he may play some head games or make up stuff in order to get out but if he’s mature and been with you for awhile; he’ll tell the truth.

It will depend on how matured he is and the length of time you’ve been together. If you two live together; he’ll either ask you to move out or he’ll go ahead and move out. When he’s done; he’s done.

Again, only time to let things heal over and let him see you differently may change his mind. Otherwise, there may not be a good chance of getting back together. It always depends on the situation; of course.

He May Make Remarks

Sometimes Gemini men can say mean things in order to get you to understand they aren’t into you anymore. Saying something that is hurtful about your intelligence level or something will for sure make you understand.

If you don’t after he says horrible things to you; he’ll continue with picking at your self esteem. He won’t have time for what you need emotionally either. If you need him to hold you after a bad day; he’ll purposefully blow you off.

He may not want to be intimate with you either. He’ll do his own thing and cannot be bothered with anything you want and/or need. He’ll just completely ignore you. This means no talking, no touching, no contact.

It’s easier for him when you don’t live together because then he can basically mute you in every way possible. If you do happen to live together though; he’ll shut you out in ways that he can thus ignoring you.

Rude remarks typically happen if things have been building up and he hadn’t yet told you that he would like to break it off. Immature versions of Gemini men can definitely do this type of thing to hurt you.

Cheating Could Happen

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This is the darker road that a Gemini man may opt to do. He will always be a flirt no matter what the situation. However; if he feels he’s over you; he’ll go ahead and move on without saying anything to you.

This also relies on length of time as well as maturity level. If he is immature; he’ll do what he wants and justify it later on. If he is grown and has learned much about life; he’ll just be honest with you.

He may actually tell you that he’s seeing someone else or is having sex with someone else in order to make it clear to you that he’s not 100% with you anymore if at all.

This is an unfortunate thing that may happen with a Gemini man who feels there is no chemistry with the woman he once loved. If he doesn’t say anything right away; you’ll notice that he doesn’t want to be intimate.

He’ll pull back and make excuses not to be near you or intimate with you. This is a sign that he’s either cheating or he just isn’t “feeling it” anymore with you. It’s a very sad process but a red flag for you to be aware of.

Never a Guarantee

Getting involved with a Gemini man is risky business. There is never a guarantee that it will last with him. Then again, there never is with anyone at all. However; he can be picky as well as flaky at times.

Truly it depends on each individual Gemini man as far as how the will react but all of these signs are sure fire for you to follow in figuring out what he may do or say if he feels it’s over or that he’s even considering it.

Click here to learn more about the elusive Gemini man. Maybe it will help you to figure out better who he is before you become involved with him.

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Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach


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28 thoughts on “How Can You Tell if Your Gemini Man Is Done With You?

  1. My Gemini guy dumped me because of the other chick,now are broke up and he wants me back so bad,he claims to love me, I’m comfused

    1. rose.
      my son is Gemini.
      trust me just tell him u want 2 b friends. and wrk on just that. nothing more. because he chose another woman over you I didn’t work out with you and her now he’s coming back to you because you’re available. Don’t always be available for him. You can’t be a priority to somebody when you’re just an option for them.

    2. Rose,

      I’m Gemeni. We don’t breakup because of another woman. We move on because of an already existing problem and the woman didn’t listen, keep doing the same things and it escalates for us to move on.

      Either it is or all of these…

      The one thing is our mental freedom. If we find woman is jealous type, she’s trying to get in our way of freedom and personal space, and if she needs constant validation of how we feel for her, which means we found out she doesn’t trust her man, we end it.

      We can end it by moving on and slamming door shut without explaining. Or we say directly.

      If a woman is the type like most Pisces, whiny, creates drama, says she’s sensitive and yet isn’t to the Gemeni’s own values, acts distrusting which also Virgos are like that, because Virgos trust no one, then we move on.

      If she’s not fun. If all she has become is drama, toxic, complaining about Gemeni’s flirting ways, getting jealous, when she knew from day one he is Gemeni but want to fix, change him and pin him down, it’s going to be over.

      Another, she’s boring, predictable, as in…into routine. Another, she lies a lot and every conversation is melodramatic and starts that way with her.

      And she cannot handle her emotions = melodramatic, bursts into anger for nothing, acting like a victim, whining, crying, sobbing. That does not go well with Gemenis.

      If Gemeni man wants you back, nothing to be confused about.

      Everyone needs space, everyone sometimes make certain decisions they regret, it’s the human in us. He must seen that you’re special, someone he feels can fix things and move forward but he will still feel nervous because the same vibe that choked him might appear again.

      Not everyone wants to go back to an ex because they are playing a game. Gemenis don’t need to cheat either because we know, it causes us far more hassle, pain than it will on someone else. We don’t do things that creates toxic for us.

      The problem was there long before he moved on to date someone else but you probably didn’t see the problem because most people don’t listen, because they are too busy looking for faults in a Gemeni, trying to play transactional games, pressing buttons to breathe and see they are actually hurting their relationship.

      What to do?

      You decide what you want but make sure you are REALLY compatible with your ex Gemeni men and if not, please stay away.

      We’re sick of women telling one side stories, about how we don’t comit, and act distant and they do not mention their stories in their head, the princess syndrome, the teenage mind games when they are not teenagers anymore.

      And really, to be forward, every woman from day one is outcome dependant, got to control the outcome, got to plan a relationship, got to create drama to test him “if he cares about me and serious.” You can’t do that with Gemenis. We’ll move on no matter how much we love the woman we are with. That’s our mental freedom to not mess with.

      Be his friend, be his ally, be someone who when he flirts it doesn’t nerve you because you like him to have his mental freedom, his personal space and you love his wild streak. Be rge be where when you communciate it’s relaxing, it’s fun, it’s liberating, it’s not drama, and questioning his feelings for you.

      Be the one who loves to expore and experiment with him. Be the kinky, sexual confident woman, flirt boldly, dress differently, be fun and a woman he knows is..on…his side not the world, her friends, relatives and whoever says about him.

      Guess what will happen?

      One of the reasons I am with a woman for 20 years is because she stood up to all her closest friends, to people online, her relatives when they talked crap about me. When I flirt with others, she is not insecure about it. When I am having fun socially, she’s busy doing her own thing and…she knows I love new experiences, and yes, I sometimes come home and find a blonde woman she attracted for me. I do the same for her in things she desires, whether it is her goals, dreams and whatever she’s into. And she never steps in way of my personal freedom and personal space. No drama. No mind games. No behaviour that shows she still doesn’t trust me.

      Out of all the women who do opposite and believe me they will, they cannot help doing so…., he will see you as the ONLY one who “get who he is” and he will feel secure due to your confidence in yourself and how you are really someone who doesn’t want to fix him, pin him down but flow with it.

      He didn’t leave because of “other women.” We are Gemenis. We leave because we feel a VIBE that’s choking us, and we find women playing aloof and so we act distant and this creates awkwardiness and death to…attraction.

      The women who do that either decided “oh don’t trust him” because someoen said something, or they read something, or due to their already existing story in their head and they know it because even when it’s not a Gemeni, they have never been in a healthy relationship.

      Start communicating, be fun and avoid acting distant. It doesn’t work on Gemenis. We see it as the woman is not interested and that includes ‘playing hard to get.’

        1. Lol, because it’s not worth it.
          On a serious note, we don’t want and don’t like confrontation.
          We tell people it’s over and they want to know why, what happened, what have they done, as if they have not been monitoring their behaviour and what comes out of their mouths.
          Thing is Gemini can be cutting with the tongue, sometimes its best to walk away quietly to avoid slicing people up and leaving them licking their wounds. Its not nice to utter cutting words but we will not hesitate to do just that when we are pushed too far.
          “Your” Gemini came to realise that he is wasting time on you.

        2. Penabutta…

          as the Gemeni woman said, “it’s not worth it.” It’s true. It’s not. Gemeni’s will not explain if they have been hurt by words, by negative behaviour, by someone pressing buttons to get some validation. Gemeni’s are loyal. When they fall in love, they fall deep but what happens is, moment they do fall in love, the other person thinks they got the Gemeni and they start acting up with the Gemeni.

          You’re married and that means, there is fear of loss from your side. You’re so wanting it to work that you probably hurt the Gemeni so bad with saying something, pressing buttons to find out if he is serious because you might leave the marriage, that you hurt him.

          Gemeni’s do not give closure to a dead end relationship and a relationship that has hurt them.

  2. I’m dating a Gemini man and I’m Cancer. We only been y’all for a month. He was in a year relationship before me. They only been broken up for a year now. We meet on a dating chat site. It started out really great at first, recently he just stop text me for no reason at all. I’m really not the one for chase people and I will just let them go no matter how hard it hurt. But I just feel like he was deceiving whole time. This guy got me to fall in love him. I never been in love before but I fell for him. And where I’m really going with because I feel really hurt and all want to is cry and let it go. Guess all I’m asking for is advice for what I’m talking about here. I’m a cancer as I said but I don’t chase or play games. Or seek revenge. I just don’t understand how he could treat me like this if said he was in love with me.

    1. On dating sites, most people are not what they claim to be.

      Maybe that was a scammer who came to realise that he couldn’t use you, who knows.

      Cancer is caring but they are too emotional, I don’t know how any Gemini could deal with that.

      1. Hi Gemini Woman, thank you for your input. My book is made to help many women to understand what Gemini men are like and help them grasp what they’re dealing with both good and bad. It shows all sides of the coin. While you have the women’s side of Gemini down due to it being your sign, there are some differences between the male aspect and the feminine aspect. That being said, the women really should check out my book “Gemini Man Secrets” to help them unravel the mystery.

    2. Amanda

      Gemeni male here. Meeting someone on a dating site and not face to face, is not dating. You could be talking to someone who is wasting your time. The internet is full of people just wanting attention but most of all, saying you meet on some dating app or chat is not dating.

      I also agree, I found Cancer to loving, caring but they need a lot of work. Too much drama, far too much emotional and need to learn to handle their emotions when it comes to Gemeni’s. Gemeni’s are very sensitive but also they just don’t like the emotional outburst, or suspicioun, jealousy and dark emotions. Moment they feel that kind of vibe, they fly away. It is like death for the Gemeni to feel these emotional drak vibe from the person.

      A person doesn’t have to say it and the Gemeni can feel it so strong, he doesn’t want it anymore. Makes him feel sick and distraught that he runs away from Cancer women.

      But what’s concerning is you think you’re dating when you’re only been chatting online and falling in love when you haven’t met a lot, experienced life together.

      Meet the person next time, face to face because that’s what it needs, the physical for it to move forward.

  3. I’ve been dating a Gemini for 2 years and I’m married !!! He’s been asking me to leave and we discussed when but now he just stop texting calling and responding to me after we had a misunderstanding …. I need closure and he won’t give it to me so should I just move on because I really love him and my feelings is really hurt right now !!!! What should I do ???

    1. @Penabutta

      You got your closure, move on. You are married, plus, you must have said something very hurtful to have him cut you out like that. Don’t push him for closure as you might not like what he has to say to you, Geminis have a very sharp tongue which we use as a last resort. Immature Geminis will be reckless with that. Geminis don’t stop communicating with those we love.

      From a Gemini woman

      1. Im a Scorpio woman was with a gemini for couple months however when we started talking it was really nice hes was an intelligent young man and we had convos that could take us all through the nite and d sex waz darn good,however one nite we decided to sleep over and we had a disagreement however i didnt like the way he spoke to me so i left early in the morning without having said anything to hm…hr text me once and i did not reply however i miss hm so much…tried reaching out to hm he answers bt never come thru…i think i need to stop reaching out to him bt @d sametime id luv to have hm even as a frend but from what im feeling i dont thnk he wants dat…i think gemini are childish and immature that behaves like a child that doesnt get their way they throw tantrums…u guys need to get it together because yall are hurting peoples feelings out here like yall r perfect…

  4. Yes the man I’m with is a gemini, and he pulls his phases all the time even when I adapt to his crap. And I’ve straight asked him to his face what he wants, no response. I feel like a battered woman with as bad as he’s destroyed me, mentally. It’s frustrating when he’s shown this good guy phase and then the asshole phase, how hard is it to constantly be loving to the person you claim you want in your life? These articles make me laugh because I can relate to them a little too closely, but they help me learn and it makes me stronger.

    1. If you feel like a battered woman why are you still with him? If he has destroyed you why are you still with him?

      You are still with him because you know how it was before the negative energy one picks up from your post.

      Reading your comment, I can tell you now, this guy will never go back to loving you, it’s over.

      He knows why he is still with you, I don’t.

      He doesn’t respond to your demands because its a lost cause, its not worth it.

      Maybe its not the “abuse” that made you stronger. Maybe you were and still are too strong and heavy energy for this mutable air sign.

  5. My Gemini is done with me, after he lied to me, betrayed my trust. I then betrayed his trust, and now he’s blocked me everywhere. I was dating him and we were in love, then found out he was lying about his situation with his ex. A part of me still wants his friendship, because he truly was my best friend, and I wish I could get him to talk to me.

    1. Hi Karen!

      Wow, that’s devastating. I’m sorry to hear that a Gemini man did this to you. I understand you missing the friendship and maybe somehow you can reach out to him after some time passes to ask for the friendship back. Tell him no strings, no romance, just friendship. He will probably appreciate that and allow you back into his life. I wouldn’t try the romance again though as it doesn’t sound promising for you. I wish you the best!

  6. What happens if you already kinda bugged them about getting back after being broken up for 7 days , my Gemini boyfriend left me because of stuff I wasn’t listening too and stuff that was bothering him in the relationship about how he told me to stop something .. Is it to late for them to fall back in love with you after you none bothered them about getting back and telling them how much you love them ?

    1. Hi Rachel!

      I believe that now you’ll have to prove to him that you won’t do it again. Try to be mellow and calm in your approach. Tell him you’d like to have him back in your life and you will work hard at trying to be better in the relationship. Don’t push on him how much you love him, need him, etc… he’ll feel that’s clingy and will run in the opposite direction. Take it nice, easy, and slow and you just might have a chance again.

  7. Im an aries woman and I am with a Gemini man. We have been together for 8 months, we live together. He has heart problems and has to take alot of medication. In the beginning of our relationship he was all over me and we had sex. Now their is no intimacy at all. He acts like he is not interested in me at all. I have talked to him about it and I have voiced my concerns as he reassures me that i still turn him on and that he still loves me. He doesnt kiss me or act excited by me at all. The only time he does anything sexually with me is after i have said that I wanted or needed sex. I just dont know. He blames it on the meds. But I feel like ita me and that he doesnt find me attractive anymore.

    1. Hi Jessicae!

      Actually meds can mess with a man’s libido especially if it’s taken long term. To know for sure the two of you should go see his doctor and get confirmation. He can possibly prescribe something for him to still be able to be sexually active with you. Another thing is finding out he had a heart condition may have hit his ego a bit and makes him feel as though he’s not able to please you. It could be something he just is embarrassed to talk about. I don’t think it’s you though. If it was he’d be try to leave the relationship not just cut off sex frequency.

  8. Scorpio woman was with a Gemini for 6 years. Just recently broke it off with me in a text. He told me he didn’t want to be tied down anymore. Shortly after he started dating another woman. Prior to this I wanted to break it off with him because I was ready to move forward with our relationship and have him move in with me. He had his own house but had adult children and the kids husband all living there. I had my own house and lived alone. He drew me in I got close to his parents and kinda to his daughters. He lead me to believe this move in was gonna happen and it never did. He started making excuses for not coming over more and more. yet when i was ready to leave him for no commitment he pledged his undying love for me told me couldn’t live without me etc.. I am just having the hardest time letting all my feelings go because of the way he is treating me. I did nothing yet he won’t allow us to be friends or anything. I am deeply hurt. Help me understand him. He doesn’t have all characteristics of a Gemini but some. He is right on cusp of Gemini and Cancer.

    1. Hi AP!

      Oops being on the cusp of Cancer makes him a family man and he no doubt wanted to stay with his family. The other thing is, if he started dating someone right after you two broke up smells like he had already met her while you were still together and he decided she maybe was a better fit for him so he broke it off to go ahead and start up with her. I’m sorry to hear this happened to you. You definitely deserve better honey. Don’t close your heart off!

  9. im virgo. hes gemini. well, i asked for a break up last week because i could see that he rather spent time with his friends and not me. we had only like 2-3 days before we living in long distance. then he said, “i think we should take a break for a while, maybe we need time”. and at the same time he said he got other problems to settle down. but the thing is, he never share his problems to me. i didnt know he wasnt in a good state when i asked for a break up. then after 3 days without contacting, i contacted him, i said im sorry and we discussed on why actually this happened and i asked him again, if hes into this relationship, he said he couldnt make any decision yet and said he needs time to rest from everything. so i gave him more time. ps: he still look into my igstories and havent deleted any posts about ut (does that mean something?)so anyone please tell me what should i do.. should i contact him like always, or just let him be.. im scared i might lose him and i dont want that. if you guys have any tips to get him back, please let me know..

    1. Hi F!

      I suggest you make your Ig stories a bit more interesting to show him that you are having a good time in your life without him being around. Show how happy you are and that you’re having fun with your friends, etc. Don’t initiate anymore and you going quiet may actually prompt him to want to chase you. That’s only if he cares enough for you. If he doesn’t then he won’t bother and you’ll have your answer so you can move on. Give it a shot!

  10. hi, im a leo and he is a gemini. we’ve been in a relationship for almost 2 years and everything was so fine. he’s the one who always initiate contact and plan dates and hangouts. i cant deny that he got all that typical gemini characters and i love him about that. fun loving, talkative but sometimes hard to understand his personality. we live in the same city but he recently leave our city to go for his work. ldr for now and i never want to control him over. what i really concerned about is, his family that i just met for 4 or 5 times. they are so nice to me and im not sure how i behaved bcs im worry that i did something rude or being disrespectful towards his family bcs of unconscious behavior that possibly makes him turn off. my intention is pure, to blend in with his family and try to create bond with them. he really makes me overthinking rn and sometimes i feel like i wanna a breakup. help me to clarify this situation. we still together till now but im scared i waste my time and sometimes i feel like he takes me for granted. 🙁

  11. Hello , I’m an Aquarius women I been on & off with an Gemini man for 7 years & we have been back in a official relationship for 2 years we were veryyyyyy close literally like best friends..he broke up with me a month ago we was staying together it was a dramatic break up family was involved on both sides few days before I officially moved out he did ask for space …but I’m hurt lost & confused because him asking for space came out of nowhere!!!! As of today I am still blocked & he’s ignoring me almost 2 months later I ranned into him a couple of times trynna get closure but hes not telling me ANYTHING, I’m hurt ! I don’t know if it’s another female or did he really just want space !!!!

    1. Hi Keisha!

      Oh my. It’s hard to say what sparked him out of nowhere to want to do this. I think that due to the circumstances what you will need to do is let go and work on making yourself happy & fulfilled. Take care of your family, be happy, and ignore him for awhile. If he truly loves you then he will return. If he doesn’t or he’s found someone else then you will get someone better come to you who deserves you. I wish you all the best but if you do want to know more about the mind of a Gemini, you may want to check out my books on Gemini Man Secrets.

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