Hi, sweeties! So, you’re dating a Gemini man… Interesting choice, huh? These men are totally unpredictable. It is no wonder that I often get emails from women stating “my Gemini man stopped texting me.”
I feel your frustration, honey. A Gemini man is usually quite special and has a way of making you see the world from a very different perspective. I would feel quite down and despondent if this happened to me as well.
But what might have caused this? Is this something you should take personally? Or is this what Gemini men are like? All these mixed signals are really confusing, so I don’t blame you for feeling frustrated.
I completely understand and feel for you. When a Gemini man ignores you, it’s for a purpose. I want to help you out so keep reading to learn more about what his reasons are and what you can do about it.
When A Gemini Man Ignores You – Why Is That?
There could be so many reasons why a Gemini man is ignoring you and not all of them are personal at all. But of course, there is the chance that you might have said or done something to turn him off. Let’s look at all the reasons why his behavior has suddenly changed towards you…
He’s Just Busy
Gemini men often have several irons in the fire. That means they are very busy men. They like to have lots of different things to do in order to avoid facing boredom, which to them is like facing doom.
He will work a whole lot to make his career successful, to earn as much money as he can, and of course, to make sure that he has no time to be lazy or bored. That being said, this would be one big reason why he may not get back to you very quickly.
He goes through phases with things like texting or even messaging via social media. He will be hot and heavy sometimes. This will give you the impression that he is incredibly romantic and adoring.
Then he becomes busy with other things and doesn’t find the time to message you like he used to. That doesn’t mean he’s gone cold or that he isn’t interested anymore. It can sometimes, but most of the time it doesn’t.
Try not to take it too personally when he does this. As long as he DOES actually get back to you at some point, then it shouldn’t be too big of an issue. If you freak out on him over it though, then you may regret it, so be careful!
If you’re finding yourself saying “my Gemini man stopped texting me” a bit too often then you may want to reconsider whether or not he’s the one for you.
He Is Uncertain How He Feels About You
It is possible he’s spent some good time with you but is now assessing how he really feels on a deeper level. This would make him go from hot to cold on you. This is the time that he’ll try to find out what he wants.
He will take time to himself, he will make excuses as to why he can’t meet up with you, will blow off your texts, and may blow you off on social networks as well. Again, don’t assume anything yet!
He pulls back when he isn’t sure of what he wants, how he truly feels about you, or is afraid that it’s moving too quickly. These reasons will cause him to not reply to you right away, if at all.
If he does actually like you or has deeper feelings though, then he will come back around when he feels ready to do so. This is when he’ll text you back, asking you to hang out or to do something fun.
It’s only if he isn’t ready for a relationship or isn’t that into you that he will blow you off entirely. So going a day or maybe several without him responding doesn’t mean he’s done.
However, you’ll need to decide how long is too long. If he contacts you in less than a week, then you’re probably okay. It’s when he goes longer than that where you have to reconsider pining over him.
He Isn’t Ready to Commit
This is definitely one possibility with a Gemini guy. He already takes his sweet time when he’s dating to figure out if he wants to take it further or if he wants to have fun for as long as he can.
If he feels that you’re pushing for a committed relationship that he isn’t ready for, then he’ll start backing off or pulling away from you. This will mean he starts to cool down where texts are concerned as well as phone calls.
Typically, if he isn’t really ready for a relationship, then he won’t try to push things forward and he may actually open up and tell you that he isn’t ready for it. If he does, believe it! He’s not telling you that for any other reason than the truth.
I have many women that write in that seem to think that even though the guy tells them they aren’t ready, maybe they still are. No, they aren’t.
They may still have sex with you and spend time with you but if they say they don’t want a relationship, then they absolutely mean it. You will get yourself hurt if you believe otherwise.
There are always things that can emerge to cause anyone to not answer text messages as quickly as they normally would. He could be sick, his phone could be dead, he may have left his phone somewhere, or he perhaps didn’t get your text.
There are many other reasons outside of him not being interested that it’s not in your own peace of mind to assume that it’s because he doesn’t want to talk to you. Gemini men have busy minds.
If you’re asking “why is my Gemini man ignoring my text?” then you’ve got to realize that he’s not like all other guys. When a Gemini man ignores your text, stop and think about things before you freak out.
He has 101 things going on in his head at almost all times. Due to this, he’ll often have his head elsewhere and could just simply forget his phone or forget to text you back after he has read your message.
It isn’t helpful for you to assume that he’s ignoring you when he more than likely isn’t. It CAN happen but much of the time, it’s simply not the case. Until you have the answers from him directly, try not to worry so much.
Gemini men like to go out with friends a lot just as they like to spend a lot of time at home by themselves. Whatever the case may be, it won’t do you any good to panic and worry about what he’s thinking or feeling.
My Gemini Man Stopped Texting Me – The S.O.S. Formula
If you feel panic-stricken because your Gemini man hasn’t replied to you and you feel like he might be ignoring you, then I urge you to take a deep breath and stop overthinking. You are going to drive yourself crazy.
In situations like this, you need to remain calm and not take things so personally. I have noticed that men have a very different sense of time than women do. When a woman texts, she wants an immediate response, and when a guy texts, he doesn’t think about it too much and just goes on with his life.
So, I want you to step away from your phone and be rational about this. Has it been less than an hour since you last heard from him or has it been more than a couple of days? Every person has a different timing scale when it comes to texting.
What is just a natural break in communication for one person might feel they are being ignored if it has someone else. It is all relative. You need to consider these natural breaks in communication and realize that people are busy and can’t be chatting away all day.
I know that there is a bit of a misconception when it comes to Gemini and their communication style. Yes, they love talking and being in conversation with people, but from what I have seen, most Gemini’s aren’t actually that fond of texting.
They just have way too much on their plate to have time to constantly banter back and forth. They’ll touch base now and then, but it isn’t something you should get used to. Remember, a Gemini is very fickle; he will change his mind in an instant.
Just give it some time and see if he gets back to you. And do not double text him at all! Wait for him to come to you, and if he doesn’t, at least you will know he wasn’t that interested in you.
What To Do When A Gemini Man Ignores Your Texts (Or Ignores You)
Now that you have some ideas about when a Gemini man ignores you, you need to know what to do when it happens. I can help you with that too. My advice to you is not to give up right away.
When you’re thinking “why is my Gemini man ignoring my text?” Firstly, stop and try not to react. It’s going to take something you may not be familiar with in order for things to go successfully.
Wait him out and you’ll get the answer as to why he didn’t respond. Of course, if he goes longer than a handful of days, then something could be amiss and you could start to speculate that he might be done.
Be patient and don’t hold out too much expectation, that way you won’t be disappointed. Let him come to you. When you leave him alone, he’ll often want to chase you.
Now you know what to do when the Gemini man ignores you. You can either ignore him back or you can do what I just shared with you.
1. Make Him Laugh
If your gut is telling you to reach out to him, then you should definitely go for it. You can always trust your intuition to guide you. When you reach out to him, make it your mission to get him to laugh! Gemini men go weak for women who have a sense of humor and put a smile on their faces. Sending him a funny meme, for example, is one way to perk him up again!
Of course, you can also send him a joke, remind him of a funny time, or reference a video you know he will find amusing. There are so many ways to make him laugh!
2. Plan An Activity
One of the ways you can respond when a Gemini man ignores you is by planning a new, spontaneous activity and surprising him with it! For example, you might want to tell him that you got concert tickets to a cool band, and would love him to be your plus one!
Or, you could reach out to him and ask him if he wants to try roller-skating with you, or a surfing lesson. Gemini men cannot resist learning something new, and it’s a great way to not put pressure on them, make sure you see him again and have fun doing it! This is a win-win!
3. Find Out What He’s Up To
Okay, so this is important. If you have a true, gut feeling that something is off, that doesn’t feel like fear and is more a sense of “knowing,” then go with it. Find out what he’s up to.
Obviously, no one likes to be stalked, so don’t go overboard! You can check his socials, like Facebook or Instagram, or make subtle inquiries to a mutual friend, for example.
If your alarm bells are really going off, then it may be best if you did some more investigation – but know where to draw the line! No one likes being mistrusted! Sure, you can check his phone, but that has consequences.
Check-in with yourself – are you normally that type of girl who checks his phone? Then you may be the one with the issues, not him. Only report to these privacy invasions if it’s not normal for you to do that.
It is helpful to know, because Gemini men, in the beginning, can be a touch indecisive, date multiple people, or hide certain truths – rather you know now than later! Plus, he’s not usually the type to ghost unless there’s something more going on.
4. Check His Facts
If you do get in touch with him, be wide awake to what he says back to you. Or, if he’s ignoring you, try and recall details of what he’s said in terms of his commitments and activities.
If something doesn’t add up, you have every right to mention it (lightly). Keep in mind that there could be any kind of plausible reason for his absence, any good reason why he wasn’t where he said he was or doing what he said he was doing.
You’re not the police, so don’t make him feel like a criminal. Give him the benefit of the doubt, but do stick to facts, because it’s the only way you’ll know if he is to be trusted!
5. Remember, He’s Always Busy
A good reason why he might be ignoring you is just that he’s really, really busy. And that’s perfectly okay! He has many friends and activities, so it’s alright for him to disappear for a bit.
Pop him a message if you remember any of them, and ask him how it went. For example, ask him how his soccer tournament was, or his band practice. Gemini men have all kinds of things they do, and they’ll love that you remember and take notice.
In conclusion – don’t be scared to reach out and talk. Yes, it’s weird if he goes quiet, because this is a chatty man! But it doesn’t always mean something’s wrong. Keep an open mind, and stay light, breezy, and playful!
Get to know your Gemini man and what he likes. It may help you to know what he’s into so that you’ll know what he may put off messaging you back for. Click here to learn more about what Gemini men crave.
Knowing him helps you to know how to better respond to him. When a Gemini man ignores your text, make him wonder what you’re up to by not saying anything to him again for a while. Let him sweat it out.
Gemini men can be complicated but they can also fill your heart with joy. Texting shouldn’t ever be the main source of your communication. It’s easily misinterpreted as whether or not someone gets back to you.
Sometimes he doesn’t text back right away from being busy and sometimes if you aren’t replying or asking him a question, he doesn’t feel motivated to text back.
He’s a man and they are different from women. Women are more emotional and tend to rely on keeping up with their guys. When their guy doesn’t get back to them quickly, they worry.
That being said, you’ve got to try to think from his perspective. If you can think like a guy, you might understand what is going on better and know how to react properly.
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Wishing you all the luck of the Universe.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,