13 Undeniable Signs A Gemini Man Has Feelings For You

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Here are 10 strong signs a Gemini man is falling in love with you and an explanation of how he works in love by a Relationship Astrologer.

There are certain signs a Gemini man is falling in love with you that can be easily missed due to the Gemini man’s confusing nature. Nothing is ever straightforward with these guys, so I don’t blame you for feeling confused.

Gemini man in love signs can leave you reeling because one moment you might think he’s totally into you, but then like a typical fickle Gemini man he’s gone and left you scratching your head about his feelings.

I promise you there are some very clear signs a Gemini man is in love with you, you just need to know what to look out for and that is where I come in. I have devised a list of 13 obvious signs a Gemini man has feelings for you.

This should help to temper any of the anxiety you might have and give you all the answers you could ever typically need when it comes to Gemini man love signs. So what are you waiting for?

Keep on reading to find out the signs a Gemini man is serious about you.

4 Quick Signs To Tell If A Gemini Man Is Falling In Love With You

Are you unsure about where you stand with your Gemini man? Does his behaviour towards you confuse you totally? Here are signs to tell if a Gemini man is falling in love with you:

1. When A Gemini Man Kisses You Often

Gemini men are very communicative and they aren’t shy about making their feelings known to the woman they care about. And when a Gemini man kisses you, you know that you have got his heart.

I mean, he’s using his mouth more to kiss you than to talk, I would say that is a pretty good sign that he is very much in love with you and thinks you are amazing! What a lucky girl you are, for sure!

2. When A Gemini Man Calls You Baby

Gemini men always have cute little pet names for the one he fancies. This is a way of telling you that he adores you and that he is falling for you. He isn’t the type of guy to just call anyone baby. He knows very well that words have consequences!

Calling you baby is his way of telling you that you are really special to him and that he appreciates having you in his life. He is most certainly falling in love with you!

3. When A Gemini Man Says I Love You

One of the wonderful things about being with a Gemini man is that he tends to wear his heart on his sleeve and isn’t afraid of letting his feelings be known. When a Gemini man says he loves you, he probably means it.

This guy isn’t afraid of falling in love, and he is least of all afraid of letting you know how he feels. If you feel it, then what is not to say that he doesn’t feel it either? Enjoy it, love is something you need to celebrate.

4. Gemini Man Opens Up To You

A Gemini man is typically a very good communicator, however, his communication usually only reaches the surface. This guy isn’t the fondest of diving deep.

But if you notice that your Gemini man is opening up to you and showing you his vulnerable side then it is a pretty good indication that he has feelings for you. He rarely shows this side to anyone as he likes to keep things light and breezy.

Gemini men aren’t the emotional type. They don’t try to be hard but they just have difficulties processing anything that they don’t perceive as logical. As such, it takes love to coax a Gemini man to open up.

When a Gemini man is in love, he will begin to feel things that he’s not used to feeling. He will start talking to the woman he’s into and telling her things.

That means if you’ve been with your Gemini guy for a while and he starts to open up to you, you can consider him as good as in love. He doesn’t talk like this with anyone else. He doesn’t even talk to his family about his feelings.

If you’re looking for long-term love when your Gemini man opens up to you, then you’ll know that you’ve got him. He is yours and you can finally make something special out of the relationship.

More Strong Signs A Gemini Man Has Feelings For You

If that wasn’t enough to convince you that a Gemini man is falling in love with you, then here are 7 more signs to convince you that a Gemini is secretly in love with you:

5. More Exciting Fun With Him

Like many other men, the Gemini man tends to start getting very silly when he’s in love. He makes every moment with him lots of fun. He’ll do anything to make you laugh.

He’s very much the type that will walk around with a grin on his face when he’s in love. He will glow, he will laugh a lot, and he will make it really amusing to be around him.

In this way, it’s rather obvious that he’s in love. He already has an extroverted personality and is highly entertaining. However, with you, he has an extra dose of the goofball type of humor.

He will pick on you, make jokes, play pranks, or do other hilarious things in order to show you his silly side. He doesn’t do this with most other people. Though he’s a social guy, he reserves the really hilarious stuff for when he’s in love.

Singing you songs or serenading you may be something he tries to do as well. Even if he doesn’t normally sing, you could find him singing to you. The Gemini man is a big kid when he is falling in love.

6. Asks To Spend More Time With You

If your Gemini man starts falling for you, then he will start giving up more and more of his free time. I don’t mean all of it though! He will still require some personal time here and there to maintain his sanity.

However, when he’s falling in love, he cannot stand to be away from you for too long. He’ll want to get together and enjoy the romance. Whether it’s spending a night together indoors or going out on the town, he’ll want you by his side.

He can be very romantic and yet spontaneous all in the same swoop. He may want to spend time with you, and he’ll pick you up and randomly take you off somewhere for a mini vacation.

As long as you are open to whatever he may bring your way, then you’ll do just fine with the Gemini man. He isn’t one for planning too much so being spontaneous is much more viable.

Just know that when a Gemini guy falls in love, he actually does think about his partner more and he will want to spend more time together in some way. This means giving up some of his free time, but at that point, he’s good with it.

Trying to get every little minute with you is a Gemini man’s weakness in love. He just can’t help himself. Enjoy and bask in his love!

7. Checks In On You

He isn’t above checking with you to see how you’re doing; especially if you are ill. The Gemini man cares about you and wants to make sure that everything is going well for you.

When he’s not with you, he’ll likely text you or call you to “check in” and make sure things are still good with you or if you need anything. He’s very endearing this way.

If you find that your Gemini checks in on you more and more, that means he definitely has got it bad for you. Making sure his lady love is good and has all she needs makes him feel better.

Some of them will check up on you multiple times in a day. This can seem to be a little obsessive but really it’s just because he cannot get you off his mind and wants to make sure you know it.

Gemini men are typically not the jealous type but when he calls a lot or asks you a lot of questions, it gives you the impression that he’s being possessive or jealous. The truth is, he’s just like a kid in love and cannot stop thinking of you.

You’re in his blood and in his heart so he wants contact with you as often as he can. Even if it’s just to hear your voice for a few minutes, it’ll make him feel like a million bucks.

8. Lots Of Affection

The Gemini man isn’t above giving you lots of tender loving care. When a Gemini man is falling in love, he will want to spend lots of time kissing, touching, and being physical.

Holding your hand, giving you neck nibbles, or licking your ear. Whatever he can do physically that shows you attention, he’s not above doing it. He loves it and he loves making you feel good too.

When a Gemini man is in love with you, he will go above and beyond with how he treats you in a physical sense. He may also send you heart or cute flirting emojis via text message.

He has a poetic way of showing you he cares for you. Take notice and know that you’re very special to him. A Gemini man falling in love is something very special and not too common.

A Gemini man surely has one of the most specific love languages of the zodiac, and you’ll need some time to get around it and understand him completely. If you truly want to master his love language, make sure you get my Gemini Love Language guide <<

9. He Surprises You

The Gemini man loves to live for the present. He is spontaneous and you never know what he’s going to do. He may show up on your doorstep with flowers or a treat for you.

A Gemini man falling in love will definitely be something you’ll really appreciate experiencing. He’s very romantic and doesn’t like to plan too often. He also likes catching you off guard to see the cute look on your face.

It’s more romantic and exciting if he plans on the fly instead of letting you know what is going on ahead of time. Be adventurous for your Gemini man in love.

10. He Introduces You To His Friends And Family

A Gemini man is without a doubt one of the social butterflies of the Zodiac. He has so many people in his life and is never without his friends and connections. This guy can easily make friends with just about anyone.

These connections are extremely important to him, there is no one a Gemini man cares more about than his friends and family, and if you’ve met them, it is probably a really good sign that this man is madly in love with you.

This shows that he is comfortable with letting you into his inner circle and that you are important enough to meet all these special people. Girl, you really have nothing to worry about, your Gemini man is smitten!

Watch this video for 7 ways that a Gemini man expresses his love differently from other signs:

So Your Gemini Man Has Feelings For You, But Is He Serious?

So you definitely know that your Gemini man has feelings for you, but does this actually mean that he is going to commit to you? Here are some surefire signs a Gemini man is serious about you:

11. He Prioritizes You Over His Friends

A Gemini man is pretty independent by nature, he likes to follow his own rules and especially dislikes it when someone else tells him what to do. His independence is his sanity.

He has a lot of hobbies and quite enjoys spending time with his friends doing all kinds of fun activities. However, when a Gemini man starts prioritizing you over his friends or his hobbies, it is likely that is serious about you.

This is a very big sign that he is shifting towards wanting a serious relationship with you. He is investing a lot of his energy into you, what more could you possibly want?

12. He Makes Effort With You

Gemini men are really hard to pin down. They are so light and versatile that they enjoy their freedom. This makes it hard to get one to settle down. They enjoy flirting with many people and this isn’t something most partners will be happy about.

Trying to get a Gemini man to see you as his only one may be very difficult. Patience will be required for waiting him out until he’s ready to call you his one and only.

While dating, he will likely give you some definitive signs as to where his heart is at. It’s important for you to know the difference in whether it’s cute and meaningless or if it’s serious and wonderful.

Gemini men also have a hard time dealing with their own emotions so this is why they have a hard time letting their guard down and letting someone fully in. Knowing how to get to their heart is important.

13. He Wants To Understand Who You Are

Gemini men are obviously letting you know they like you but how about if they are in love with you? One of the first things they will possibly do is do whatever they can to make you feel special.

This man will go out of his way to surprise you with something wonderful and incredibly precious to your heart. He’s great at listening and remembering what you like and/or love in the world.

Whatever fuels your passion; when a Gemini man is in love with you, he will go out of his way to make sure your dreams are fulfilled. He wants to see his woman happy and on top of the world.

How To Know If A Gemini Man Loves You?

A Gemini man expresses his love unlike anyone else in the Zodiac. He loves with his mind and his thoughts. If you’re on his mind and he wants to constantly talk to you or about you to other people then you know you are the one for him!

He can be a little quick and impulsive, so if he is willing to take risks with you then you know you have crept right into his heart. He doesn’t want to wait, he wants you now! A Gemini guy isn’t afraid of expressing his feelings, he will tell you straight about the way he feels about you.

When a Gemini man is in love he tends to be quite spontaneous and loves to go on adventurous dates. So if he is calling you up last minute, then you know you are someone really special to him.

He is very adaptable and versatile, so if you put him into a difficult situation he will most definitely make the most of it. He doesn’t mind being tested and challenged, in fact, he will always be up to the task.

Here are some bullet points you can remember that show a Gemini man truly loves you:

  1. He loves communicating with you and is always up for a chat
  2. He believes in taking a risk for love with you
  3. He is spontaneous with you
  4. He is always trying to impress you or prove something to you
  5. He remembers all the details about you and who you are

FAQ On Gemini Men And Falling In Love

Do Gemini Men Fall In Love Easily?

Gemini men are fickle, they chop and change their minds in an instant, so falling in love happens quite quickly for these guys. However, it might not last very long because of how often they change their minds.

Remember, a Gemini man relates to the world through his mind, not his emotions, so love for him is definitely an intellectual matter. So when he thinks he is in love, he probably is. But this could also change in the next 5 minutes. Unfortunately, this is the risk that comes with being with a Gemini man.

How Long Does It Take For A Gemini Man To Fall In Love?

Observing Gemini men you would think that they fall in love in an instant, and they do, but this is really just infatuation. For a Gemini man to truly fall in love, is a long and arduous process.

It isn’t always very easy for a Gemini man to access their emotions. They’re so stuck in their mind that it can be quite difficult for them to truly feel what it is they are going through.

Because a Gemini man tends to get so bored easily, it will take a remarkable woman to truly make him fall in love with her, and have it last!

Who Does A Gemini Man Fall In Love With?

Gemini men aren’t particularly picky when it comes to love and finding the right woman. For him, variety is the spice of life, and he is open to getting to know any woman who intrigues him. He is definitely a bit of a flirt, which makes him so much harder to bag as a mate.

A Gemini man likes a woman who can tick all of his boxes – sounds simple, doesn’t it? But with a Gemini man, you never know what you are getting because he chops and changes his mind as he pleases.

One minute he is all over you, and the next, he is off with someone else. This is why it can be useful to know what a Gemini man’s likes and dislikes are.

Being with a Gemini man will seriously keep you on your toes, so if you are highly adaptable and looking for adventure then this is definitely the right man for you! 

How Does A Gemini Man Act When He Is In Love?

A Gemini man perceives love as a bit of an experiment. He wants to see what all the fuss is about. He’s the type of guy who falls in love with his mind, so if a woman can stimulate him intellectually, he’ll be a very happy chap.

He is known to be a little bit fickle in love and this is because he craves a lot of variety. Without variety, he tends to become quite bored. And when a Gemini man becomes bored he gets extremely restless.

Technically, the perfect situation for him would be to date multiple people at once, this way he can’t really get bored. But, if he is the monogamous type then it is important that he has many friends and many interesting hobbies, or else he puts too much pressure on his partner to make him happy.

When a Gemini falls in love he really wants to get to know the person he is with, and I mean like he wants to know her in-depth. He is the type of guy that finds even the most insignificant little detail about someone’s life fascinating.

Sharing facts is like a Gemini man’s idea of intimacy, the more knowledge he has about a person, the more excited and intrigued he likely feels about her. So if a Gemini man is asking a lot of questions about you, then he is more than likely quite in love with you.

Gemini Man And His Love Language

Geminis are a communicative bunch because they seriously love people. These men are curious and love to learn new things. It means a lot to them if they can connect to their person one-on-one by having deep and thoughtful conversations about life. Make him addicted to you by learning exactly what he wants to hear from you.

The best way to make your Gemini man feel loved is to stay present with him in conversation and in the space that you both occupy. They need to be with someone who is interesting and interested in them.

These guys hate boredom and love going on little adventures. Because Geminis are a changeable air sign, they need a lot of stimulation to feel excited by the relationship they are in.

A Gemini man may be able to talk to anyone because of their vast knowledge but they need to know that their conversations are being met with the attention of the other person at the moment, making their love language quality time. They couldn’t be with someone who is distracted and doesn’t listen when they speak.

I do hope that this has helped you answer the question about “how to tell if a Gemini man is falling in love with you”. I know this can seem confusing when you don’t know him well enough.

Warning: Don’t Use Normal Dating Advice With A Gemini Man!

Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Gemini man. And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.

Why??? Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Gemini.

You see, Gemini men are VERY different than men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with a Gemini, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again. I don’t want that to happen to you.

Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him <<

So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.

These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.

So go here now to find out the specific things your Gemini man needs to hear to melt his heart.

Wishing you love and light,

Your sister and Relationship Astrologer,


About Author

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27 thoughts on “13 Undeniable Signs A Gemini Man Has Feelings For You

  1. I just started dating a Gemini man he well guarded very busy but try very hard to spend time with me he tells me thank u for being patient understanding he texts once in a while or calls talks about really nothing I really like him is there a chance he starting to like me we’ve kept low side his two sons only knows were friends no one else does

    1. Hi Janet!

      I’d say that if you two are dating then yes, he likes you. He wouldn’t date someone he doesn’t have any interest in. If you need to know where his head is at regarding what the two of you are, you should just be bold and ask him so that you know for sure and can plan your future accordingly. Don’t waste time wondering and worrying.

  2. He found me on snapchat before christmas, and we’ve been talking since, he texts me when he wakes up, when he has free time at work he’ll send me funny random snapchat vids, and he will text me when he’s off work. Then from there he’s super silly and goofy, there’s never a time he doesn’t make me laugh, he’s so sweet! The first things he said to me were that he wants to kiss me so bad, and on new year’s eve we went on our first date he’s so random, and he does act like a kid, but that’s ok cuz I too have a childish side. After the date he drove me home and our first kiss was at midnight! How special??? and oohh did I melt like ice, he also tickled me, laid his head on my lap and let me mess up his hair, he’s like a teddybear I already love him a lot …although he says that he doesn’t know if he’s ready to be in a relationship yet, he said he doesn’t want to break my heart, but he’s also willing to see if it will go anywhere. What are my chances?

  3. First off..I have been seeing a guy now for over 5 months. A gemini to be exact. I am a virgo! This has probably been one of the most confusing relationships I have ever had. At the start, he was up my ass..as the months passed he became more distant. I was getting mixed signals. I have just about had it..I started ignoring him, and now he started to become clingy again. I guess he is freaking out now that I have started to play his game. Honestly though..if he keeps this up, I am quitting..I do not have the time nor the energy for games! I love him, but I can live without the bs.

    1. Your Most likely a Narsisit. Gemini Are Empathic. It’s confusing because you make it that way. Even if it’s Indirectly. Im a Pure Gemini born on the 7th of June. I Married a Virgo 3rd of Sept. I dated her on and off for 6 years then finally married her. To now be looking at Divorce. She led me in so deep that I let her behind all my walls and she began to use my secrets as knifes to deal deep Mental wounds. In short if you are one of the damaged by your dad or someone very young you’ll Most likely end up with a BPD and become Cold Piece of work to a Sincere Gemini Male in love.

  4. When he really like you he will call text and wanna see you all the time. They are like butterflies they leave and show back up just to see if they still got it and their off again because you havent capture their full attention yet!

  5. Okay so yes the Gemini I like is a girl but to be fair, she is more like a guy than a girl! Anyways, everything was going good and she would open up to me and always want to call but now, she seems more distant and it was hard to build that relationship. It took 10 months, and now she just doesn’t open up as much. I don’t know why.

  6. Leo woman here having the most amazing 2 months with my new love interest, a Gemini man. He’s been like this article from the very start and hasn’t changed at all. We have so much fun together! We hang out and make new friends together. We went on a road trip together. We talk for hours about everything. He’s perfect!

    He does seem to be afraid of having conversations about relationships. He says that he wants to be in a relationship with someone soon but he never mentions me. He also says that he isn’t in a rush but does want to be in a relationship. The only good thing is that he does say that we are dating. I just assume that he is definitely considering me but isn’t comfortable with saying those words yet which is OK.

    This is the only thing about him that makes me feel like our situation is unpredictable. He doesn’t speak about me being that someone at all. But he does spend every weekend with me, introduces me to his friends and he is romantic and thoughtful and doesn’t go a day without talking to me. I don’t ask him much about us and our relationship status because I’m waiting for the right time. It’s still early.

    Right now, I just want us to keep getting to know each other and keep building on this lovely foundation that we are creating. I’d be in total shock if he didn’t make me his girlfriend. It just wouldn’t make any sense. We are so good together. I’m sure that if he lost me, he’d instantly regret it. So I feel confident that things are moving in the right direction.

  7. I’m Aquarius and Gemini male about a year ago received a friend request from him have been off and on with him since teenager’s we are now going on 50 I can hardly keep his attention and when I do it’s not for long I don’t know what I am to him I don’t know if he loves me or hates me he’s so confusing so why does he feel the need to know what’s going on in my life I am married by the way.but yet he still won’t unfriend me and I am crazy about him what just what does he feel

  8. I am a Libra, my Gemini and I are perfect for each other! He always checks on me, makes sure I have everything I need, and I know without a doubt he is in love with me too. He has told me and showed me. I even heard him tell somebody… “That’s my future wife”! Its important to communicate with anyone, but especially a Gemini.

  9. I’ve been dating a Gemini man for almost a year. I read up on the Gemini personality a lot so I can better understand him. When I do that I read that he will not usually jump in a relationship right away but I live above him in a duplex and we have been with each other every day since we started dating that includes sleeping together. He was in a 30-year marriage and got divorced about 15 yrs. ago. He doesn’t tell me he loves me but he shows it for the most part, in fact, he told me he is not ready to commit saying “I love you” because he was taken for granted when he was married. I will sometimes say “I love you” to him and I asked how it made him feel, he said he likes it when I say it but he will not say it to me. Because of their personality to want change. what if I run out of ideas to keep him interested in me, I might be boring to him one day and that scares me so I try real hard to be exciting. I just wondered if a mature older Gemini man has room to love again and commit after being hurt from a previous marriage. I also have been hurt in a 20-year marriage which he is aware of it, I just wish I can hear the words ” I love you” from him just once. I know actions speak louder than words but it would still be nice to hear it. I thought maybe if you know of anyone that has been in a similar situation you could tell me how it worked for them and if it became something good or bad.

    1. Hi Renee! It sounds like for the most part that things are going quite well with you and your Gemini man. I know you want to hear those words but you also want to hear them when he knows for sure he really means them and wants to say it otherwise it’s a shallow statement. You’re going to have to be patient and wait for him to be ready to say it to you. Otherwise, keep learning everything you can about him. I personally do no know someone who had this particular situation but I think you’ll find success with time and patience. You might also want to read my book “Gemini Man Secrets” as it could help you get closer to him.

      1. Ok so I don’t get my gemini I have known him for along time we had a affair with each other it was wrong felt right at the time 2 year affair he made me the happyest that I have ever been I got pregnant shocker it all ended then had baby he came back around wanted rights to baby had another affair with each other was pretty different since baby alot has happened with us biding married he’s there for his daughter now after many fights so things have settled down so he does all the things that supposly gemini men do with they live a girl but dosent say it and when I go to hug him it’s like a family hug and we no longer go kije to eat are hang out just sex and he calls me and we talk for hours while he works so not really sure what to make of all this

    2. Have known Gemini male for over 15 years on and off through work…last few years we have caught up for coffee from time to time even after we stopped working together…we get along amazing and talk for hours, he always buys coffee hugs and kiss on cheek and then most time hardly hear from him till months later or I text for a catch up…most recent thought just having coffee like normal but instead hung out together with some of his family…was unexpected but lovely…he was always aware of me, refused to say my “friend” to his family and just used my name even when they asked further…took his time to show me natural fruit in the ground he’d researched and then just bye again catch up later kiss and hugs ??‍♀️ Do I even bother?

  10. I am a Older Sag in Love with a Younger Gemini Man. He and I where Friends in 2004-2008 in that time we both were having difficulties in our spouces his was being taken for granted and demanding of his time. Mine was infidelity which he sensed and flirted but I would never cross that Line. In end of 2015 he walked into a Store I was working at exclaiming with utter joy in his face ” Its You ” His Presence still took my Breathe away. On his next meeting he announced he was leaving his wife and wanted to know if I was interested in getting together handing me his phone number saying call me anytime. My life went into a turmoil – My husband wanted me dead and to be with The Russian Discovered his affair after then I lost my Mother. I texted my Gemini and
    said I would enjoy getting together with him after my return from out of town no set date. He seemed to know I was back when I took a break and informed
    him of the Lost of my Mother He wrapped me protective in his arms. My husband had not even done this and chose to stay with his Mistress.
    My Gemini texted me as often as possible due to working in remote locations. Then he told me that he had fallen in love with me and my morals in 2005 and was still in love with me.
    He then told me he would make me fall in Love with him. I was scared due the age difference. Our relationship grew him always saying and showing he loves me, told his children about me and have met his best friend.

    Mid 2017 he was getting a divorced and prior she left with her current lover and cleaned out the accounts. He disappeared and no contact for 5 months I was worried more of his mental health But I knew he needed Space and time
    his Pride and want to take care and provide for me I knew he needed Time

    He came back and was surprised at my reaction of Happiness. He said all he has ever gotten is Hell for when he disappears. I was dealing with Multi Issues that caused a Health Issue and delayed my Leaving my Common Law Husband. I know my Gemini is concerned that I have not left but is being understanding. Then in Sept of 2018 my Gemini truck caught on fire, he managed to find an older truck, the economy has been harsh the last two years and work is harder to find and greater distance between us.

    In January he needed financially help – I assisted due to again major mechanical issues. After he called angry, not at me, but life and was leaving town to go work north with his brother, that was seven months ago
    His private line has been cut off yet still had business line, I texted him in June and July. I do not know if still his business line. So t stated I would assume if I did not hear from him by Aug 17 that Iwould stop trying to contact him.

    I am Patient and he is worth the wait, The thing that scared me is he also finally remember in Dec that we had been lovers in 1990. I am praying its his foolish pride not the realization of his strong attraction was based on our past.

    I feel he is a Sincere and truthful Man but I am very unsure of OUR Future and how I can make him understand that Silence drive me crazy with worry, This Sag Horse is ready to run away, How can I make him understand I cannot do this length of time ever again

  11. Gemini man approach me. Wanted to take me out. I didn’t know him and I said no.

    We continued to talk. Finally agreed to go out. Had a blast. He brought me candy the first date.

    We talked a lil every day after that. He wanted us to have a date and spend the weekend together. I agreed. He spoiled me. Buying things, taking me places, opening doors…..

    We have a LDR. I only got to see him every other weekend. But he wanted to see me. He told me he loved me within a month of us dating. It was all good.

    Around the 6 month mark, he got sick and ended up having an emergency surgery to take out his gallbladder. He recovered quickly. It was then I finally told him I loved him.

    That’s when he started getting distant. He didn’t text or call but once a day. Then it got to every other day.

    I point blank asked if I had done anything wrong. I asked if he was done with me. He said that was not his intentions. He was busy trying to get caught up with work since he had been off sick.

    But his contact went to once or twice a week. I asked if I could see him. He told a mutual friend that I had caught feelings and he didn’t want to hurt me.

    I’m so confused. I thought we both had “caught feelings.” Is this relationship over? Should I just give him space? I truly love him but I’m at a loss as to what to do. Any advice would be welcome.

    Leo lady, 48
    Gemini guy, 60

    1. Hi KG!

      I think when you told him that you loved him, it scared him. Not that he doesn’t want to be loved but rather he’s terrified of what commitment means and how he could get hurt. It could also be that he doesn’t want to hurt you either. If he wasn’t ready to hear it, it through him off. I would continue on but take it nice and easy. If you try to push things he’ll clam up and exit. Take it with patience and you could win him for a long lasting love. Wishing you the best!

  12. I’m a Virgo dating a Gemini man. Yes he can be frustrating. It is as if I am dating two people! We have been dating just over 4 months and I see him once a week spending Saturday nights with him. He calls and texts every day, and he has started to open up to me more, telling me some very personal things about his family and past. He has also become more attentive, holding my hand even on the couch, forehead kisses, making funny faces, singing and making me cry with laughter. We talk for hours on the phone and when we are together. He has told friends and family about me, although I am yet to meet his parents (his mom and dad are not in the best if health). With COVID we just want to be careful. I almost gave up on him, but patience and understanding seems to be what he needs. I hope this finds us going in the right direction?

  13. Sooo confused…

    I’m an Aries (through and through) and I’ve been friends with my Gemini for 10 yrs. We can talk about anything for hours. Have always been attracted to each other. Hes been seeing someone for about a year. About 4 months ago he told me he loved me. (He’d been drinking) the next day I asked if he still loved me now that he was sober. He said yes. We message almost daily. He likes to send jokes or memes (a lot of times sexual), things he thinks I’ll like and asks what I’m doing. He loves letting me know what he’d like to do with me sexually. We’re quite open about those feelings. I tell him I love him and he says it also. However, we’re or I’m on a roller coaster. He does all these things and then gets distant then starts again. I feel like part of a game or something. Is he really into me? Does he really love me? He says he can’t make promises or guarantees, but is always talking about when we get together. We live in separate states, but I’m getting ready to move closer. I just don’t want to make a mistake.

    1. Hi Callie Latimer!

      Alright so he’s made it clear how he feels for you. He wants to give it a try but is saying he cannot say for sure that it will work out in the end. He’s taking it as it comes which is actually pretty normal for a Gemini man. I think he means what he says but because of his pull backs, he’s flexing his independence and personal freedom. If you know he does this periodically and can accept it then this may work out just fine. You can try backing of a little yourself and see if he doesn’t step forward. As a Gemini, I can tell you that routine gets really boring really fast. We like to mix it up and if our partner doesn’t know this, they are left wondering if they did something wrong or if we’ve changed our minds. Take it nice and easy and I think you’ll find success with him. If you’d like to learn more, check out my books on Gemini Man Secrets.

  14. I have a HUGE crush on a Gemini man who runs a bar that I go to regularly with my husband. I have been married for 34 years and I do not love my husband anymore, we are best fiends and that is all and have had no sex for 2 years.

    The Gemini I have a crush on has shown me lots of attention …gives me little glances, turns up at my side to talk to me often, is tactile at any opportunity, loves making me laugh and has now started whispering sexual innuendo in my ear in front of my husband. I am crazy about him but do not know what to do. Do you think he fancies me or is playing me?

    1. Hi Alison!

      Ok Gemini men flirt like crazy but it doesn’t mean that he wants to full on have a bedroom rumble. Even if he does, would you really do that while you’re still married? Gemini men love to flirt and they love to get a woman excited about them. It doesn’t mean that he wants more than that. Please be careful. If you’re not happy then get out of your situation. Don’t dive into bed with a Gemini man. You’ll end up hurt when he doesn’t necessarily want anything more than to bed you down… a conquest. What you feel for him is pure and simple chemistry and infatuation. Trust only your intuition!

  15. Don’t know if he really into me?

    He text me daily, check on me, reply incredible fast on messages but doesn’t open up..
    he said he want to commit and try to be with me. Also he want to help me with my music.(he said recently.
    he likes my creativity.
    But I haven’t really seen actions yet. He text me everyday for 7 years now.
    He’s a really busy businessman
    What can I do to?
    I’m just not sure and it’s long distance

    1. Dear Lia,
      Just give him bits and pieces over time. He’ll appreciate the puzzle and it will keep him stimulated enough to want to see where things will go with you. Sending him a selfie of yourself may entice him and make him smile.
      Remember not to do it too often though as it will go from being exciting to boring really quickly for a Gemini man. He likes to keep things fresh and spontaneous, even long-distance. Never assume that the Gemini man is committed to you without you actually talking and agreeing this is the case. Otherwise you will end up hurt and left wondering why he does this. Best of luck to you!

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