I’ve had many of you asking me what to do about a Gemini man after a breakup. Breaking up with a Gemini man can feel devastating, I really sympathize with you and I am sorry you are going through this.
When a Gemini man wants to break up, there are several signs that may indicate his desire for the end of the relationship. These guys are pretty fickle, so it is good to know what to expect. So how does a Gemini man break up with you?
One of the signs that a Gemini man wants to break up is his sudden change in behaviour and communication patterns, but more on that later. When a Gemini man needs space, you might think that he is done with you, but this may not always be the case.
One of you just sent me an email saying “My Gemini man broke up with me. What can I do and is there a second chance we can still be together?” Don’t worry, I am here to help and give you some of the answers…
Keep on reading if you want to find out all the signs a Gemini man wants to break up.
4 Telltale Signs A Gemini Man Wants To Break Up With You:
When A Gemini Man Becomes Increasingly Distant
Many Gemini men require time and personal space. He will force it when he feels he isn’t getting it. Sometimes this can look like your Gemini man is pulling away from you or wants out of the relationship.
Be very careful! It doesn’t always mean he wants out. It could mean that you haven’t given him much space, so he’s taking it where he can. In such a case, you’ll need to ask him and thus try in the future to give him more space.
If he’s increasing his alone time in a short period of time, he may be starting to question if he wants to be in the relationship and if he’d rather be alone. There is also the possibility of his desire to be with someone or others instead.
A Gemini man is complicated, but one thing is for sure: if he starts taking more time for himself out of nowhere, something is going on. This is a red flag you should pay attention to, as it could mean a big change is coming.
This change could lead to a breakup or it could lead to him cheating, which would probably make you want to break it off with him. Either way, it’s not a good thing.
He Is More Secretive Than Normal
This is also a cause for concern. If he seems to keep sneaking off into another room to make phone calls or going outside, you have to wonder why. Why can he not talk in front of you?
If he seems to hide his phone while looking at social networks while you’re sitting right next to him, what is he hiding? Gemini men are secretive, but when they go to extremes, something is going on.
Hiding it every now and then is a privacy thing. Once he starts hiding it all the time, something is amiss, and you need to call him on it. He will often try to hide the affair he may be having.
When it’s not an affair, it could be him talking to a friend or family member about something very private that he doesn’t want you to know about. They may be helping him decide if he should stay or go.
Of course, neither of those is reassuring to you because you don’t know what is going on. It’s a red flag that must be noted, as it could mean a breakup is afoot.
You may also want to read: 4 Reasons Why A Gemini Man Never Initiates Contact
Spends Less Time with You
This is a bit different than him taking personal time. This would be where he starts spending more time with friends, going out, or with family rather than with you. When you find that he’d rather be with others, something may be wrong.
He could just be taking a break to enjoy other facets of his life. Then again, he could be dodging you to make you upset enough to call it quits with him. He hates confrontation so he sometimes will stir stuff so that you’ll get mad and break it off.
When you can clearly see that he wants to spend time with other people and less time with you, he’s likely ready to be done with the relationship. Gemini typically WANTS to spend time with his lady unless he’s done.
Even if he is uncertain, he will still spend some time with you but an increase in being away from you occurs, he’s likely finished and just hasn’t bothered to say anything or be upfront.
Starts Being More Crabby or Moody
This is a guy that will increase his being pissy toward you if he’s finding that he’s ready to move on. Again, the idea here is to make you feel horrible about him and break it off.
He’d rather you do the ending than for him to have to step up and do it himself. He’d rather make everyone think that YOU called it off so that he doesn’t look bad to everyone.
Sadly this could cause him to say some really crass things toward you. He says these types of things when he’s in a “mood” but when you find this does increase and becomes a daily thing, something is definitely fishy with him.
Bad moods are acceptable until they become an all-time thing. This is yet another red flag to be aware of. Remember, always watch his actions. No matter what his words are, his actions are what is true.
A Gemini Man Needs Space — Does He Really Need Space Or Is He Done?
When a Gemini man wants to break up, one of the signs to expect is his need for space. A Gemini man may start pulling away and spending less time with you, his partner. This can be confusing because it may seem like he’s done with the relationship altogether.
However, it’s important to note that when a Gemini man needs space, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he wants to break up. Gemini men are known for their need for independence and freedom, so when they feel overwhelmed or suffocated in a relationship, they may retreat and seek some time alone.
During this time, it’s crucial to give him the space he needs and avoid clinging or pressuring him. Just remember him wanting space isn’t necessarily about you and it may indicate that he is feeling overwhelmed or suffocated in the relationship and needs time to recharge and reflect.
It may not even be about the relationship, he might just be going through a lot professionally or with his family.
How Does A Gemini Man Break Up With You?
When a Gemini man wants to break up, there are several ways he may go about it. He may choose to do so indirectly by exhibiting certain behaviours and actions that indicate his intentions.
But, oftentimes, a Gemini man will actually out and out tell you that he doesn’t like where the relationship is and that he thinks it’s best to part ways. However, he will still continue to try to be friends, call, etc.
He takes so much time prolonging the breakup that it confuses the heck out of you. He’ll say he’s done, but then he’ll keep contacting you because he feels horrible for having hurt you.
The thing is, if he really did feel bad, he’d leave you be after breaking it off. His own confusion causes him to be back and forth, and this is where my clients write to me, wondering what is going on.
They will tell me that their Gemini man tells them that they don’t want to be in a relationship, but yet keeps coming back to them, trying to spend time with them, or keeps calling. The women are very out of sorts and uncertain about what to do.
Here’s how to tell when a Gemini man is done with you.
What To Expect From A Gemini Man After He Breaks Up
After a Gemini man breaks up with you, it is important to have realistic expectations about how he may behave. After a Gemini man breaks up with you, it is common for him to still maintain contact with you and try to be friends.
He may feel guilty for hurting you and will try to ease his own guilt by staying in touch. However, it is important to note that his intentions may not be genuine and he may just be using this as a way to keep you around without the commitment of a romantic relationship.
Additionally, a Gemini man hot and cold behavior is not unusual after he breaks up with you. He may continue to reach out and show interest one moment, only to completely withdraw and distance himself the next. This inconsistency in his behavior can be confusing and may make it difficult for you to fully move on from the relationship.
It is important to set boundaries and communicate your needs clearly to a Gemini man after the breakup. Let him know that you need space and time to heal and that maintaining contact may not be beneficial for your emotional well-being.
Will A Gemini Man Come Back After A Breakup?
All of the things I’ve mentioned in this article reveal that a Gemini can be very back and forth in relationships and breakups.
Another frustrating thing about Gemini is that he has a dual personality. One personality may be done with you and decide to break up with you. Then, when the other personality comes out, your Gemini may feel bad and want you back.
Be prepared, ladies; there is a possibility a Gemini man may rebound with you. This means he may try to get you back once he realizes what his darker side did. It’s almost as though he has a hero and a villain inside him.
If you find yourself in a position where you cannot refuse his proposal to get back together, be careful and don’t let it happen to you a second time. Watch for the signs, and don’t let him hurt you again.
Guard your heart and make him earn it back over time. Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up for being smashed into tiny bits once again, as though the first time wasn’t enough.
Here’s more on how to get a Gemini man back after things have ended.
A Gemini Man Left Me For Another Woman (How To Move Past The Pain)
The Gemini man will sometimes end things with his lady love if he wants to be able to plow another woman’s field. In other words, to ease his guilt about cheating, he’ll break it off, go have fun, and then try to come back to you.
Here’s more about Gemini man cheating signs.
You should be able to recognize this behavior and nip it in the bud. If he ever leaves and you know it’s to go to another woman, don’t let him come back unless, of course, you don’t mind him doing this to you.
There is a lot of mental turbulence that will happen if your Gemini man leaves you for another woman. The only proper way to heal appropriately is to let yourself go through the pain.
Have a good cry and let it last for days. Destroy the physical memories of the two lying around, like photo albums, picture frames, vacation memorabilia, etc. Do whatever you feel like doing, but do not compress the pain. Let it all out. The person you trusted with your life betrayed you, and it is okay to feel a crushing amount of pain. Doing so doesn’t make you weak.
FAQ On Breaking Up With A Gemini Man
How Does A Gemini Man Feel After A Breakup?
After a breakup, a Gemini man may experience a range of emotions. He may feel guilty for hurting you and may also feel confused about his own feelings.
Your Gemini man may also feel a sense of loss or sadness, especially if the relationship was meaningful to him. He might also feel relieved in knowing that the relationship is over and he doesn’t have to be tied down any longer.
Will A Gemini Regret Leaving You?
Whether or not a Gemini man will regret leaving you depends on the individual and the specific circumstances of the breakup. Some Gemini men may feel regret and realize the mistake they made in leaving you, especially if they start to miss the connection and intimacy that were present in the relationship.
However, it is important to note that Gemini men are known for their duality and can easily switch emotions. Therefore, it is possible that a Gemini man may initially regret leaving you but later change his mind or become indecisive about his feelings.
Do Geminis Come Back After A Breakup?
Geminis have a tendency to come back after a breakup, as they often struggle with decision-making and can be indecisive about their feelings. This can lead them to revisit past relationships or reach out to ex-partners in an attempt to reignite the connection.
However, it is important to remember that every Gemini is different and there is no guarantee that they will come back after a breakup.
2nd Chance With Gemini Man
Would you like to have the opportunity to ‘reset’ your relationship with a Gemini man?
What if you could start over, and turn the clock back to before things got – more complicated than they had to…?
Now while I can’t promise your love will work out (without analyzing your birth charts), you can certainly improve your chances – first, by understanding what happened.
Yes… You might even be able to rewrite your love story altogether… Usually, it’s a simple mistake that confused him or turned him away. Perhaps you’ve misunderstood each other.
This is normal – especially in relatively new relationships.
If you need some clarity and guidance on getting his attention and interest back on you… If you’re not sure how to approach him again (without being rejected), And if you’d like to put some practical, astrological tools & wisdom – working for you,
You’ll really like this:
I explain the exact 3 step process to win his attention, interest, and love back.
I hope it proves as valuable to you as it has to others seeking a Gemini man’s heart,.
Your friend & Relationship Astrologer,
P.S. Here’s a 2nd chance with a Gemini man.