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Breakup With A Gemini Man – What Should You Expect?

Are you contemplating a breakup with a Gemini man? Perhaps you’re wondering if he’s going to break it off with you. Either way, you’d like to know what it may be like when or if the time comes. Here are some things to keep in mind.

It will be confusing

Often times, Gemini men will put off breaking it off even though he’s very unhappy and wants out. Why? Well, he doesn’t like confrontation or dealing with emotions.

This makes him want to put it off or avoid it. Instead, he’d rather cut you off in other ways to get YOU to get tired of him and want to break it off with him. If he does manage to break it off, it will be a strange and painful experience.

Gemini men often cannot deal with the emotions behind a breakup and thus will tend to keep checking on you to see if you’re alright. He’ll tell you that it’s over but then keep calling you or texting you.

Rest assured ladies, if he broke it off, he is DONE. Just because he keeps calling or texting does NOT mean he wants to get back together. It’s simply his guilt that keeps worrying about what you think of him.

He also doesn’t want others to think he was a horrible guy for breaking it off with you. So he’ll keep checking on you so that he can show others that he cares and isn’t being mean.

Even if he was mean to you, he will never let it appear that way and certainly doesn’t want to look like a Villain.

All of this makes a woman very confused and uncertain whether he truly means it when he says he is done with it or not. I can understand why it would feel this way.

Just keep in mind that if he does this, it’s to ease his own mind, not because he wants to make another go of it with you. Try not to let yourself believe anything else otherwise, you’ll get double the hurt.

He treats you miserably

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Before he reaches the point of departure, the Gemini man will first give signals like spending less time with you, stop calling, stop texting, and stop answering your questions.

He’ll find reasons to not be available to you or for you. Again, this will be confusing because after he does break it off, he’ll do all these things again as though nothing happened.

It isn’t to get you back though. It’s to make him feel better about having broken your heart. His overcompensation of affection makes him look like a good guy who feels horrible for having ended it.

Do not buy into his guilt trip. If he was ok with treating you this way while you were still in his life, he doesn’t deserve to have you back. He doesn’t deserve your time or your affection.

He may also say really nasty things to you when he wants to break up. That also has something to do with trying to get you to do the deed and end it. It’s better for him if you do it because then he looks like the good guy.

Honestly, if you notice him treating you badly, kick him to the curb but not after telling him how cowardly it was to treat you like that.

Automatic reverse

One of the frustrating things about Gemini is that he has a dual personality. One personality may be done with you and decides to break up with you. Then when the other personality comes out, he feels bad and DOES want you back.

Be prepared ladies, there IS a possibility he may rebound with you. This means he may try to get you back once he realizes what his darker side did. It’s almost as though he has a hero and villain inside him.

What should you do? Run! Again I tell you that if he treats you horribly, he probably doesn’t deserve a second chance. Then again, sometimes love is so thick that it’s hard to say no.

If you find yourself in the position that you cannot refuse his proposal to get back together, be careful and don’t let it happen to you a second time. Watch for the signs and don’t let him hurt you again.

Guard your heart and make him earn it back over time. Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up for being smashed into tiny bits once again as though the first time wasn’t enough.

Watch for the coldness, the lack of communication, and nasty comments. If you get wind of any of those things returning, head for the hills and save yourself.

He is craving for variety

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The Gemini man sometimes will end things with his lady love if he wants to be able to plow another woman’s field. In other words, to ease his guilt of cheating, he’ll break it off, go have his fun, and then try to come back to you.

You should be able to recognize this behavior and nip it in the bud. If he ever leaves and you know it’s to go to another woman, don’t let him come back unless of course, you don’t mind him doing this to you.

All of the things I’ve mentioned in this article reveals that a Gemini can be very back and forth in relationships and breakups. You’ll really need to keep an eye out for how he acts.

Catch the signals before he starts heading down the wrong road and talk to him about things. You may be able to change the path that could be ahead for you and your Gemini man. It’s best to fully get to know his behavior.

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26 thoughts on “Breakup With A Gemini Man – What Should You Expect?

  1. I don’t want to believe it’s done. He’s told all these things. I want to believe he’ll come back. I really have no chance?

    1. Liz, there is always a chance. Don’t wait for him though and instead do something about it. The longer a woman waits, the more difficult it becomes for him to believe you want him back. He has to like anyone else, sees and hears you want him back

      1. Gemeni man, your comment makes not sense like most Gemini men. My experience with them so far proves them to be idiotic, manipulative, little brats. Who needs thier crap?Good riddance.

        1. ya Ya… Looks like all the gemini man are stupid. As a gemini I can tell we love from our heart. When we love someone we made them like a queen in the world. But we only broke up when we find that our love women consider as our weakness. By the way I have been dating an aquarius women for 1 year and I did everything to make her happy. And finally I ended up with a broken heart. All I know among all the people gemini people get most hurt from a breakup.

          1. Hi road_side! Thank you for your input as a Gemini man. I agree with you, all Gemini men are not bad or evil. What some women seem to be missing is that everyone has all 12 signs in their birth chart which means they also have Gemini in them. Also, moon signs, rising signs, etc all play a role in someone’s personality. There is much for women to learn and I think this is where my book “Gemini Man Secrets” can help them understand the sign better so they don’t cast them off.

    2. Hi Liz! Without knowing your whole story with the Gemini man, it’s hard to tell you that you have no chance honey. NOTHING is ever impossible. I think perhaps it would benefit you from reading my book on Gemini man. It may help you understand him better, what you can do to work at getting him back if there IS a chance, and what would be the right way to approach him. There are things you can do, you are not helpless. Only give up if it seems that he is 100% done. Is that what your gut tells you? You’ve to got to trust your intuition, not a worry or sadness.

  2. So I’m so confused, all last week and all last month even Saturday my ex was loving and texting me all the time he needed me and wants me . We were always messing around joking and when it came to conflict we got better as a couple and talked it out and went on with our day goofing around. Saturday he went to drill and was texting me all regular ( babe , I miss my baby with hearts , I love you and etc) when he gets back from drill he loves up in me and we go to the gym work out kiss and hug here and there. We later went to eat taking about our vacation days and joking around. We got home and called his parents and we’re taking funny pictures. Comes Sunday morning he looks at me and I smile at him when I wake up he later cry’s and sits next to me and tell me he doesn’t want to be with me. Of course I’m a great break moment and asking him what was wrong and he wanted me to leave to I did what he wanted. But im soooo confused !!! He said to me when I was packing where do we stand , if he could help me pack and that he would check up on me. When I was walking out the door he looked at me depressed and he wanted a hug I didn’t want to but I did and left. He says he needs to work on himself and I’m talking to his family and they tell me it’s normal because he did this is his past relationships. He would end it then come back. Now yesterday I went to give him a bear flowers and chocolates and he didn’t have no emotions and nothing for nobody so I was thinking this was his other side in control so now what do i do.

    1. Hi Kimberly! Thank you for writing about your confusing Gemini man situation. It does indeed sound normal for this guy to go back and forth. The thing is his relationships in the past ended for a common reason that which being him and not being sure of what he wants or who he is. Until he figures himself out and what he wants in life, he’s going to keep repeating this pattern. The best thing you can do is give him some time and space. If he truly cares for you and wants to be with you, he will chase you down. If he doesn’t then you won’t hear from him and you’ll know for sure. If you’d like to learn more about the confusing Gemini guy, you might want to check out my book “Gemini Man Secrets”.

  3. It is confusing with this gemini man he was texting every day and now it’s every once a wk or twice a wk. He sent nice messages and some of them were sexual but when I went out of town it was fine sent a message have a safe trip and he wanted me to pics which was before I went out of town so I get there I find out my camera on my phone stop working and I couldn’t send them to him and it went down hill from there. I have been knowing him for about 4 yrs we lost touch we have never been out yet we talk but not like b4 my trip so i guess I could run but idk what to do

    1. Hi Bev! It may be that your Gemini guy is interested in a physical relationship with you but maybe not a committed relationship. However, you won’t know what he truly wants unless you ask him. Tell him you really dig him and you’d like to get together to see if there is a future bond between you two or not. He should let you know by how he acts as far as if he’s interested or not. If he blows you off then you may need to just move forward with your own path. If he does respond and tries to make an effort then you can proceed. It may help you to check out my book “Gemini Man Secrets”.

  4. hi, im an gemini man 25 years, i just broke off with my girl becuz i can’t stand all the emotions. i must say this is creepy correct. from high school to now all the points check out, i even feelt so bad i went to see her and told her how much i miss her and regret breaking up and that i wanted her back.

    1. Hi Chris! I think many women misunderstand the Gemini man and this causes their confusion to make them act overly emotional, angry, and even resentful. It’s important for women to really get to know Gemini before they cast them off. If you’re able to get her back, you might want to share my book with her so that she’ll understand you a bit better. It may help! “Gemini Man Secrets”.

  5. Hi. The gemini man I was with had broke it off with me a couple of weeks ago. I am a sagittarius female.

    We had previously broken up a couple of times while being together. Before I realized that I just came back to him, not understanding why he left me and I begged for him back. Foolish of me to let my emotions get the best of me… placing no value into myself whatsoever.

    In our time of separation, I have come to realize that I do have value and am currently working on myself to win back my Gemini. However, I am giving him his space. A few things that I realize I was in the relationship that turned off my Gemini. I was overly controlling, possessive, and demanded time from him all the time.

    I just want to know, I read that when a gemini breaks it off he is “DONE” but he has broken it off with me a couple of times, due to not knowing what to do with our relationship. That being said, in this time, I have rebuilt myself. I have watched several instructional videos and gone to therapy to relieve myself from this unwanted nature I had. I became emotionally co-dependent and I would like to know if there is still some kind of chance. Thanks!

    1. Hi Nev!

      Wow, I’m glad to hear you realized your own personal problems and took actions to heal that. Yes, smothering him or controlling him is a no no. Now that you’ve worked on yourself, you may still have a chance. Given that you two have done it a few times already shows he still cares for you and that means that they aren’t always “done” unless they didn’t really truly care. In your case I think he might. You’ll need to reach out to him and prove to him that you realized what was wrong and worked on yourself so that it wouldn’t happen again. I wish you all the very best!

  6. Well there’s little or no context on this breakup with a Gemini, but here are a few assumptions and solutions

    1. If you just started dating the Gemini man he is curious about you and what value you bring to his life. (Keep conversations light, be positive, flirt and inquire about his interests and passions) he is a mirror to you so what you get is what you give, if you talk about past relationships the gemini man will listen intently to pick up on who did what and why your previous relationships ended. This is to gain insight on how you would handle a relationship with him, if you have changed or still are the same person.

    2. If you get into arguments with a gemini take a step back and evaluate what the gemini is trying to say without being defensive, the Gemini will test you on how you handle your past, problems and concerns. The Gemini instinctively can see the good and bad to any situation so if you stick around too much in negativity he will consider this your modus operandi and choose to avoid bringing negativity and drama to his life. You might get attention from guys by making them jealous or creating drama but this has a reverse effect on the Gemini. We see through that unfortunately and are figuring out why you are using drama and negativity to get attention from a gem.

    3. If you just aren’t into the gemini man be direct with him (Geminis never want to be the cause of pain or heartache, we may give you tough love to avoid being a victim of negative emotions or try to get you to develop a thicker skin but the last thing we would do is try to hurt you)

    4. If you are considering a breakup, Make the breakup a game. We love games. Tell the Gemini man you want to evaluate the relationship and get him to write his thoughts and you do the same. (10 things you like and dislike about the relationship) exchange those notes and evaluate if it is worth pursuing. Trust me this works 100% because us Geminis like to learn. Be honest about how you feel about the relationship. If you still want to pursue tell him how valuable his insight was and he would value yours

    5. Don’t Run, walk away gracefully. If things aren’t working out have the courage to walk away like adults without trying to bruise each others egos. Any attempt you make trying to create a disliking bias towards a Gemini will only cause you more pain and heartache in future relationships.

  7. Ladies. This post helped me a lot. Each and every word in this post is TRUE. My ex was a Gemini. Luckily, I read this post in time and kicked him off from my life. He did all the things written in this post. While he was cheating on me parallelly he was searching a girl of his parents choice to marry. He disappeared and appeared again. Finally , I blocked him everywhere in social media when I was confirmed he finalized a girl for himself to marry her. Before he could tell me about this new girl in his life I blocked him everywhere. He didn’t expect this move of mine.Within a month he got married. He is having a happy married life today but he devastated my life.
    Be careful ladies when it comes to Gemini man. They are real manipulators and cheaters.

    1. Hi Svetlana!

      I’m very saddened to hear that you’ve gone through this. I need to tell you though that not all Gemini men are like this. It sounds like he has a cultural belief that tells him he has to be married to a certain woman or type of woman which meant he wasn’t going to choose you. He has to do what his family wants or they may shun him. Try to find someone who is your speed and will give you everything you could ever dream of. He’s out there honey! Don’t give up.

  8. Hi

    Can i still get a gemini ex boyfriend back after 7 months of no communication from him. He’s broken up with me 2x in a short time frame. he told a friend last july 2019 he loved and wanted me back . I didn’t respond we..he requested a meeting in August 2019 i agreed he was angry and constantly checking his phone through this meeting he then got angry and stated he changed his mind about wanting the relationship back. In October 2019 we talked again as friends until november we had an argument i was hurt bc he said he might see other ppl eventually and he didn’t know how to protect my feelings . I stopped talking to him even when he called texted 2x after. We saw each other 2 months ago and neither of us spoke. He has not reached out in 7 months i still cry about him and love him deeply. I have been thinking about reaching out. Is it too late to get him back ..i don’t know if i can fix this?..please help

  9. So my Gemini man and I broke up. He told me the reason was because I intentionally tried to hurt him. I told him I was sorry but yes I did try and hurt him but what I said never hurt him. He’s mad at the fact I tried to hurt him. How do I get him back? He told me that he can’t be with someone who would do that. I told him that if he was to give me a second chance do he honestly believe that I’ll do it again? I told him I am human and that I make misused this was a big one. I don’t know what to do can you please help me. We still talk and he told me he still is in love with me but he don’t see us getting back together. I don’t want him to fall out of love with me. Or move so what do I have to do to make him want me back? I told him that I was going to reflect on the situation and that I’ll give him a call back. His own mom told him that females hurt you because they want you to feel how they feel and he still don’t agree. So what can I do to change his mind? I feel like I need to hard core stuff to get him back. I think he wants to be with me but him thinking about what happened and how you can treat someone you love like that it’s not okay. I told him to think about the year we’ve been together and how I never did anything like this and I won’t do it again. I’m not trying to beg him but I honestly feel like I should get another chance.

    1. Hi Seidaria!

      Oh dear. Gemini definitely doesn’t it like it when someone purposefully tries to hurt them or make them jealous. They think this is a form of betrayal. You’re going to have to apologize for what happened and promise him it will never happen again. Then you have to ask him to try again with you and let you show him that you mean what you say. It will take time for him to come around as far as that trust goes. Ask him what else it is that he doesn’t like about you so that you can work with it and see if it’s something that can be changed or if it’s the true you that cannot conform to his ways. Do what is ultimately best for you sweetheart.

  10. Hey I’m trying to get my Gemini man back. We broke up because I tried to intentionally hurt him. But I didn’t hurt him if that makes since. He’s mad at me because the fact that I thought about hurting him and he said you don’t do that to the people you love and I told him I was sorry. He said he’s still in love with me but he don’t see himself being with someone who would do that. His mom even told him that females do that. I told him if we get back together does he really think I’m going to do it again? I’m still human and I’m still learning I feel like instead of ending our relationship we could’ve talked about it and he could’ve told me I don’t like that this can’t happen again because you honestly hurt me by even thinking it. What should I do to fix this?

  11. Hi Anna.
    My Gemini man reached out to me for a while before I responded to him. I was very leary of him initially. We begin frequently communicating on FB. FB is used because he says his S/O found phone numbers on their cell phone bill that led to some issues. He disclosed that he had cheated on her and she had caught him twice in a 6 month period. They have one adult son. They were not always together but reunited about 15 years ago. My Gemini man says he is frustrated because the union is sexless with his S/O. He says she won’t even talk about sex. If he tries to initiate it she gets furious. He says he asked her to marry him 3 times and she has not. He says he no longer wants to marry her and will never ask her to marry him again. My friend says he feels comfortable with me. He’s attracted to me physically. He always asks me to come to meet him when he’s off work. We meet in the same parking lot and just talk and spend time in each other’s presence. I really like him. I feel he really likes me too. The issue…..He has relatives and a lot of friends in the town I live in because he is from the same town. We know many of the same people. He has concerns someone will see him and therefore wants me to come to him. I have several times. We made plans to meet up when he had to travel for a job. I traveled 3 hours to meet him. Since then we talked sometimes 5 to 6 hours a day or an hour or 2 at a time. We just talk about some of everything and hang out with each other. I have given him money on 2 occasions to help him out when he was in need. I begin feeling like everything was one-sided. And I got in my feelings because I asked him to come to my home for a change. He would be safe here. But he refused. So he asked me to come to meet him and I refused. He called 2 more times and asked me to come and I decided to go. I was dressed nicely. When I got there we were glad to see each other. We embraced and stood outside of the car and talked. I was pacing a lot because I was still upset about him wanting me to come there and him not wanting to come to me. I wasn’t displaying anger. But when he TOLD me he wanted me to come to meet him the next day….I did not scream but the look on my face let him know that I was hurt and offended. I told him I felt the situation was one-sided and I did not want that and it would be the last time I would come there to meet him. He was upset and he said I can’t believe you came here to break it off with me. I didn’t comment. I asked for a hug so I could go and he said no several times while looking into my eyes. I kept looking away. I asked for a hug and he held onto me for 5 minutes. I tried to move back several times but he just held onto me. A full embrace. Before I left he looked me in the eyes and kissed me on my lips and on my forehead. He opened my door and I got in and drove off. He was looking at me as I drove off. I have not called him and he has not called me. It has been 6 days now. Is it over or is there a chance he will at least be fair in this situation? He does not know what he wants to do about his home situation. He says he feels he has gotten comfortable and feels he needs to be in a better place to take care of himself and therefore does not want to risk losing where he lays his head. Was I wrong?

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