Infidelity. No other word sounds more like a “nail in a coffin” when it comes to relationships. Any sign is capable of cheating, but some signs stand out as being more likely to fall into this dark pattern. 

When talking about the signs most likely to cheat, you may find that Gemini men often come up in the conversation… Their lack of focus and obsession with novelty often gets them into trouble! 

If you’re dating a Gemini man, you might now be feeling anxious. Don’t worry! There are a few ways that you can tell if your guy’s Gemin-eyes are wandering.

Using Astrology, we can get a sense for how a disloyal Gemini acts when he isn’t coming forward with all the information. Read on for the full run down of all the signs!

5 Signs That Your Gemini Man Is Cheating On You

1. He Can’t Focus On You

To be fair to Geminis, they can have a hard time focusing on a good day. Despite this, you know how your man acts in your relationship, and if he is focusing on you less than usual, it’s time to pay attention. 

If he seems distracted when he’s with you, but isn’t verbalizing what he’s thinking about, then it means his focus is likely elsewhere. 

This by itself isn’t a firm indication of infidelity, but if it’s enough to turn on your internal alert system. Follow that feeling, and open your eyes to what else is going on with him.

It’s a good time to ask if he’s okay in general, because I do believe in assuming the best of your significant other, unless you’re given reason not to. Make sure his ducks are in a row before you assume the worst! This may just be a great opportunity for you to be an extra pillar of support. 

Ask if his mental health is okay, or if something happened that has made him quiet down. Pay attention to the answer and use your discretion to decide if it’s a legit reason for him to be distracted or not. 

2. They Talk About Someone A Lot… Then Stop

Geminis, being so eager to share their experience of the world with their partner, will be telling you all about their time at work, the gym, or otherwise. They’ll be naming names and getting specific the whole time because that’s just their MO. 

When they’re talking a lot about someone, it means that at the time there is nothing to hide about that person and so they speak freely. It’s when they stop talking about that person altogether with no indication that they got into a fight or stopped being friends that it becomes a red flag. 

If they had words, a Gemini will be the first to tell you that’s why they’re not talking… they love to dish! 

But when a Gemini cuts off all mention of them without reason… start to get nosy. It could mean that that person is now involved with the Gemini in ways they feel the need to keep quiet – and that’s a HUGE red flag.

3. He’s Sparse With Communication

The Gemini man is nothing if not the most talkative person of the Zodiac. He narrates life as it happens and passes the information on to others… he really is the connector figure of the Zodiac, spilling the tea on anyone and everyone who will listen!

So, when the most talkative sign of the Zodiac clams up, you know something is up… and it’s not good.

And the next question is, who is he talking to instead?

A Gemini man who lives on his phone is normal, but when he lives on his phone without texting you, facetiming, or calling as much, then it is reason to wonder who else he is doing those things with.

The solution? Ask him why the communication has decreased so drastically and watch his reaction. If he is vague with his answer or he just cites reasons that you know he would never normally be affected by, it’s time to wonder what he’s hiding. 

4. He Doesn’t Say Who He’s Hanging Out With

A Gemini is not one you’d call a loner. They are most comfortable when they have someone around them all the time, 24/7. A Gemini just can’t exist well in the context of solitude! 

If they’re dating you, they will typically be happy that they have a person who is socially obligated to hang out with them. This is what brings Geminis peace in a relationship, knowing that being in a relationship means they won’t be alone. 

When they stop being clingy with you and they start to stay out later, lie about going to work, or start leaving the house for random reasons without asking you to go, it’s a good sign that they’re probably hanging out with someone else. 

What does this mean? Well, a Gemini isn’t that good at keeping secrets. So, if they’re tight lipped about who they’re hanging out with, then you can bet that he is with someone that you don’t care for. 

5. He Gaslights You When You Ask

Your Gemini guy isn’t talking to you like he used to and you have no idea who he’s spending hours away from home with, so you mention your concerns to him… pay attention to how he responds. 

Geminis are very good at wordplay, and part of that can be knowing how to turn words around and reframe situations to benefit them. They can be so good at it that you come out looking like the bad guy for having concerns! 

If he attempts to make you look bad rather than being forward about where he’s been, then you know that your original concerns were close to the truth. 

A Gemini in a panic can spin a situation to look like it was always you who was the crazy one. Don’t let him get away with this! Call that Gemini out when his evil twin starts talking!

Read next: How to Get a Gemini Man to Open Up and Share His Feelings

Bringing It All Together

Geminis are fickle creatures as a whole, and this can make staying loyal in relationships a challenge for Gemini men. Not all Geminis will cheat, but there are concrete ways to know if they have something to hide. 

When you remember the inherent nature of the Gemini, it informs how we know when they’re going against it. You’ll see them seize up their communication, fulfill their social needs elsewhere, and you may even catch a glimpse of his shadow side when you bring any of this up. 

Paying attention to their communication patterns about specific people may also be of assistance in assuaging or confirming your fears.

Are you dating a Gemini man? Have you ever had concerns of him cheating? Tell us how you knew down below in the comments! 

Want to know if you and the Gemini were meant to be in the first place? Take my quiz here to find out once and for all if he’s the one! 

And if you want all the details on how the Gemini man ticks then check out my book, Gemini Man Secrets to get the full scoop! Check it out here.

Wishing you all the luck in the Universe, 

Anna Kovach