There’s nothing quite like the feeling of watching your lover’s face light up with love – knowing that you are the one that put that smile there! There are many ways to show people you love them, but each Zodiac sign has their own particular “love language.” What language does your Gemini fella respond to? Let’s find out…
Are you looking for way to show your Gemini sweetheart that you love him? His “love language” is often verbal affirmation, which simply translates to telling him how you feel. However, love has so many faces, and for the Gemini, that’s even more true, being the sign of variety.
Because he tends to get bored easily, thinking of new ways to show him how you feel will go far to make him feel cherished and special!
What are some of the best ways to communicate how you feel to your Gemini guy? Here are my top eight tips, gathered from my years of experience as a relationship Astrologer:
8 Ways To Show Your Gemini Man That You Really Love Him
1. Listen To Him Talk
Gemini is an air sign, and like all air signs, he just loves to talk! In fact, it’s hard to sometimes get a word in edgeways, so don’t even try. To show him you really love him and who he is, simply let him babble away.
It won’t be too hard, because what he says is mostly very interesting! You’ll find yourself very entertained, laughing most of the time and learning a whole lot. This man is hyper-intelligent and knows a little about everything.
2. Laugh At All His Jokes
Gemini men are funny – they are born comedians! Their sharp wit and quick insights ensure that they never miss a thing, and very often, you’ll be the roast of the day. You have to develop a thick skin being with a Gemini man – he’s going to tease you endlessly!
Laughing at all his jokes doesn’t have to be some silly anti-feminism act you put on, because he is genuinely hilarious! Laughing at what he says will make him feel as if he’s the king of the world!
3. Write Him A Love Letter
Gemini men love words in all of their forms. Whether spoke, written or in any other way, these guys really respond to language. Although not always poetic, they can be, and they are usually very well-read and good writers themselves.
Penning him a sweet love letter will have him feeling as mushy as can be! Gemini guys aren’t always so comfortable expressing their emotions in traditional ways. Removing the discomfort of having to display his feelings will make him feel seen, understood and loved.
4. Tell Him Often How You Feel – Lightly
Sometimes, all you need to do to make sure your Gemini fella knows you love him is use your words. Use language to express your feelings – tell him “I love you, goofball,” and make it light and funny.
You don’t have to eye-gaze and breathe together in weird ways – that will only make him uncomfortable, anyway. You also don’t have to make it feel heavy or loaded. However, when you do tell him, it does sink in, and he really feels it.
So, the next time you’re wondering what to do, just say it. It’s not as scary as you may think, and watching his face light up is all worth it!
5. Plan New And Exciting Things To Do Together
One way to communicate your love for your Gemini man is to plan new, fun things together. Think of a spontaneous date, doing something you’ve never done before. He loves, loves, loves new experiences, so finding a novel activity will practically have him asking you to marry him!
Gemini men are a bit like kids in that way – they thrive when they are learning and growing, especially with the person they care about. Plus, the effort you make will never go unnoticed – it’ll make him feel like the most special person in the world!
6. Show Him You’re Willing To Learn
When you show your Gemini fella that you’re willing to learn, to grow, to change – that’s when he feels cared about. He will feel like you get him, like you understand him. And, after all, understanding him is for many, what feels like real, true love.
This means being willing to adapt your perspective and mindset, being open to new ideas – his ideas – and able to discuss them.
7. Support His Interests
Did you know that the typical Gemini guy has about a million interests? He tends to pick up one thing, only to drop it and get interested in the next.
You can show him that you love him by supporting his interests. By being not only interested, but genuinely encouraging of his hobbies – even if they change every five minutes!
You can even go a little further by asking him if you can join in on one or two of his interests. This not only shows support but also that you love him so much that you want to share his passions! It’s a win-win!
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8. Give Him Plenty Of Space
Finally, to show your Gemini man that you truly love and understand him, you can give him loads of space. He’s an air sign, and all air signs need room to breathe, to be, to express themselves. They like to spread themselves around, to see their friends, to pursue their interests.
Hanging onto him, clinging and demanding all of his time won’t make him feel loved – it’ll make him feel suffocated. So, if you really want to communicate to him that you care about him and his life, let him do his thing.
The chances are that he will hang out with you more once he sees there’s no pressure!
In conclusion, to show the Gemini man you love him mostly requires communicating to him that you care about him. Telling him verbally, writing an email, letter or text, making it light and breezy is a sure-fire way to make him feel utterly adored!
Never try and get too mushy or feely with him, it only makes him feel uncomfortable. He also doesn’t need gifts, flowers, or to be coddled and hugged all the time. Remember, your Gemini fella operates through the mind, mainly. This is where he feels true love, and this is the line to his heart.
So now it’s time to talk about you and your experiences – have you ever fallen in love with a Gemini guy? What do you think are the best ways to show or tell him you love him? Did he have any particular likes or dislikes for how he expressed – and received love?
I love hearing from you, my readers, and your stories are important to me. They’ll stay completely anonymous! Feel free to share in the comments below!
If you’d like to get to know more about this versatile and curious sign, check out my Gemini Man Secrets right here, and let the Astrology do the talking!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
I was married to a Gemini for 21 years, all of this hold true. And now in my mid 50’s I’ve met another Gemini man that in so many ways is the same but also different. Both love physical adoration (kissing, holding hands,etc.) which for me, a Pisces, is awesome! It’s one of the things I love most about my new relationship. It can be challenging at times because I don’t always know how to read my new guy. But we are working through it and he seems to be more understanding with my emotional side than when we first started dating, and I am more understanding of his wit, which sometimes comes off as harsh criticism to an emotional Pisces. About them being non committed, I found that they are better at it than the Leo and libra relationships I’ve had. Maybe it’s just the chameleon in me, I can adapt well with my Gemini man. Thank you for all of your wisdom. It really is helping me understand how to make my relationship better.
Hi Rhonda!
Goodness, Gemini men are all different that’s for sure. He’s critical? Maybe he has a prominent Virgo energy in his chart. They are critical as are Capricorns. If he is not understanding of your emotions then tell him all about it. Tell him to soften the way he talks to you just a bit. I’m glad you enjoy reading my Gemini man articles but you might get more out of it by checking out my books on Gemini Man Secrets.