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10 things that a Gemini Man Likes/Dislikes in a Woman

What are the things that the Gemini man definitively really digs in a woman? What is it that he can’t stand? Here is a mixture of both for you to consider in your journey with the Gemini Man and falling in love.


1. Attractive & Social

The Gemini man is one who seems to always blend in with whatever crowd he is thrust into. He’s adaptive to his surroundings and will be the life of the party no matter what may be going on.

He likes having a woman who likes to look nice and be social with him. He likes to see a bit of skin but not too much. Sexy rather than slutty will be the better option. Class is important to him.

2. Exciting Personality

Gemini men are always looking for more excitement in their lives. In fact; they go out of their way to make sure that boredom never hits him. Having an exciting woman in their life will help them keep boredom at bay.

He’ll want to always find fun things to do and explore. He prefers a woman who is actually on board with doing lots of exhilarating things with him. Stay open to ideas he may have and provide some yourself.

3. Relaxed and Easy Going

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The Gemini man is seeking a woman who will go with the flow of change that can and will happen throughout their relationship. It’s easier for him if you aren’t too strict on your lifestyle.

He will inevitably mess up sometimes and he’ll need you to understand this about him. Everyone makes mistakes. Try to stay relaxed when you’re with him. Having a calmer demeanor will help him remain easy flowing as well.

4. Give Him Room

Always be sure to make sure and give him enough room to breathe. Gemini men need lots of space and personal wiggle room. Either he’ll want to go be with friends and/or family or he may want to be alone.

When the Gemini man is in love; he will definitely want to spend more time with the woman he chooses. He will still require time that he can be on his own and do his own thing. He’ll expect you to be the same way.

5. Show Him Your Passion

Gemini men are passionate about life. He will want a partner who is zesty and excited about where life can possibly go. Optimism is a very good thing to have around your Gemini man.

As long as you are able to share how wonderful and thrilling your life or plans in life are; he’ll absolutely love it. He wants to know that you’re motivated and self reliant. Share with him all that you’re fascinated or passionate about.


1. Needing Him Too Much

The Gemini man isn’t going to do well with a woman who needs him. While he is loving and can sometimes be a care taker type; he would rather be an equal partner than anything else.

He wants a woman who can take care of herself, pave her own path, and have a life outside of him. It’s too much pressure for him to worry about your needs. So keep it simple and be self sufficient.

2. Don’t Be Jealous

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Gemini men are not naturally jealous or possessive therefore he isn’t going to understand a woman who is this way. He needs to feel he is free at all costs. Even within a relationship; he needs to feel as though he isn’t tied down.

If you act jealous about anything he does; he’ll respond with silence or he will exit the relationship. He doesn’t do well with deep emotional difficulties. Never try to make him jealous either; he will not play that game.

3. If You’re Introverted

Typically the Gemini man will not want to get involved with an introverted woman. However; there are exceptions to the rule such as if his moon sign is a more introverted personality.

If you ARE introverted; you’ll need to be understanding that he isn’t and he will want to go out and enjoy time among the crowd whether that is with you, with friends, with family, or on his own. Let him have this and he’ll be grateful.

4. Lack of Intelligence

Gemini men like women who are smart, witty, charismatic, and basically have a great deal of knowledge. He isn’t one to go for a woman that is all beauty and no brain.

He will naturally be more attracted to the women that can flex their brain rather than their physical appearance. You won’t fool him when he talks to you. It may be time to brush off some books and get better knowledge in life.

5. Arguing is a No No

Gemini men love a good debate. He will not deal well with arguing; however. Emotions are very hard for him to cope with. When you get upset with him; it’s better to calm yourself and talk to him rationally.

While he can be stubborn; if you’re able to show him pros and cons of your plight; he may be able to think about it better thus able to compromise. Just never go at him yelling and screaming. He will walk away from you and may not return.

So as you can see there are many turn ons and turn offs for the Gemini man. He’s actually reasonable but is picky. He wants a woman that has it all together or is at least working to be that way in her own life.

Unlike some of the other men; he isn’t into a woman that has to be taken care of. High maintenance doesn’t work well with him. He prefers a woman who works hard for everything that she does.

He wants his equal match that will stimulate his mind, his body, and his heart. Click here to learn more about what a Gemini man wants.

I hope this helps you discern whether or not he’s what you’re looking for or if you are what the Gemini man is looking for. You always deserve the best!

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach


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