A Gemini man hiding his feelings is not uncommon, this is just what they do as they are so uncomfortable with emotions. The Gemini man is far too cerebral to pay much attention to his feelings and this is why you will often find a Gemini man confused in love.
A Gemini man scared of love is something you might have experienced in your life. They think that having a variety of women and dates is what will make them happy, so they refuse to commit and admit that they have feelings.
Have you ever experienced this? Where you KNOW a Gemini man has feelings for you, but he is refusing to admit it or that he is hiding them from you. It is quite frustrating!
Well, you know how painful it is when a Gemini man hides his feelings, luckily I know exactly how to help you to get him to open up to you. Continue reading to find out exactly what to do:
Why Is My Gemini Man Hiding His Feelings — 4 Possible Reasons
1. He Is A Man Of Logic, Not Emotion
The Gemini guy is one that thinks with logic and what makes sense. Emotions don’t make a whole lot of sense to him and this makes him rather reserved when it comes to sharing how he feels.
This is often why a Gemini man takes forever and a day to commit. He wants to make sure that everything lines up in an intellectual sense before he’ll dive into a commitment that forces him to feel things.
He will have all sorts of reasons for not moving things forward. If you find your Gemini guy keeps making up things for not getting more serious or he acts as though it’s no big deal; he’s in his head.
Gemini men often get in their own heads and it makes it hard for him to process what he’s feeling. His logical side says that love is illogical and he has to fight that natural urge to suppress what he’s feeling.
He has a hard time listening to his intuition but eventually, he has to. He will go with what his gut ultimately tells him about the woman he’s considering becoming more serious about.
Until that time comes; he’ll always try to go with what he feels is most logical and that oftentimes doesn’t line up with a woman’s heart and desires. Patience is key to waiting for a Gemini man out if there is a chance.
2. He Is Confused About His Feelings
Some Gemini men understand their intuitive side but are confused with what they should do about it. He knows what the right thing is but fights the point of needing to do what he feels is right.
Fears can cause this to happen if he’s been hurt in the past. He’ll be a bit more cautious going forward. This is normal for just about anyone but Gemini will use it to keep a woman at arm’s length.
If he isn’t really sure what he feels; he’ll hold off until he figures out what is going on. One day he may feel as though he’s falling in love and the next day he may feel like he isn’t.
This going back and forth is typical of a Gemini man. He’s back and forth with his moods and therefore affects his important life decisions such as relationships and whether or not he should start one.
It’s a constant battle for him between his heart and his logical mind. Until he’s able to make sense of things; you may have to wait for him to come around. If you understand this about him; you’ll know he needs that time.
It may be super frustrating for you to wait for him to get it together but if you do; you’ll be very glad you did. It’s better for him to feel confident and sure of what he’s doing than to get involved when he isn’t.
3. He Doesn’t Want To Get Hurt
It’s not like the Gemini mistrusts everyone like the Scorpio man. It’s just that whether his heart was broken before or not; he’s intensely afraid of fessing up his feelings and being hurt.
He has a huge ego typically and is fragile as a result. If his ego or pride were to be wounded; for him it’s like a mortal wound. He doesn’t do well with feelings in general so this makes him guarded.
He’ll flirt like crazy with many people whether he’s in a relationship or not. He needs that extra boost of confidence that other people will give him via giving him attention back.
This can cause problems in a relationship with him as he has a hard time NOT flirting with other women while he’s with the woman he loves. This isn’t about her or lacking feelings for her.
It’s more about self-preservation and the need to gain attention from other women at any given time. It keeps his self-confidence higher and helps him continue his life in the way he wants.
The problem with flirting is that you can never fully be sure that he’s into you just because he’s flirting with you. Remember; he flirts with others and he doesn’t necessarily want to “get” with them.
This is sort of a defense mechanism for him really. He’s able to keep everyone at arm’s length while flirting like the charming guy he is. When he really does truly get into someone; he has to fight with himself about it.
Logic will tell him that he will get hurt. His heart tells him that it’s time to invest and let someone in. This will go back and forth until he finally comes to a conclusion.
If you struggle with how to get closer to your Gemini man and find the right words to make him feel special, I strongly suggest getting my Gemini Man Love Language guide. It will help you finally speak the same love language as him and make your bond so much stronger.
4. Commitment Isn’t For Him
I’m not saying it’s impossible but since it’s hard enough for a Gemini man to admit his feelings for you and deepen a relationship; it will be more difficult to get him to want to get married.
This will take many years of dating you. It’s very rare for a Gemini to hop into a marriage after only dating for a year or two. I know some couples where the Gemini guy took 10 years to propose to his Aquarius wife.
So trust me when I tell you; Gemini men take a whole lot of time, patience, and effort. They’re worth it though if you can learn to live the way he wants to have the relationship. The ball will be in your court in the event that he chooses you.
Is Your Gemini Man Fighting His Feelings For You? — 3 Signs To Look Out For
He Is Being Indecisive
A Gemini man can often be quite confused about what he wants, especially when it comes to his romantic relationships. Does he want a bevy of beauties at his beck and call, or one solid connection?
He struggles to make decisions and will keep going back and forth between the things he wants. It is not that he is hiding his feelings for you, it is just that he doesn’t even know himself how he feels.
One minute he will be totally down to want a solid commitment, the next he might meet someone who has him feeling like he wants more than one woman. His feelings are up and down all the time. It isn’t a you thing, but a him thing!
He is second-guessing himself and this is why it is so confusing for you! He is conflicted about his feelings for you and this is why he can’t make up his mind.
Wondering how to tell if a Gemini man is playing you? Check here for the warning signs a Gemini man is just using you <<
Your Gemini Man Is Hot And Cold
When a Gemini man likes you, but is hiding his feelings from you he can come across as very hot and cold, unfortunately. One minute you will feel like he is all over you, and the next you notice he can’t stand being near you.
It is very confusing! When a Gemini man behaves like this he is usually trying to hide his feelings from you. He doesn’t even want to admit to himself that he is smitten with you as this makes him feel out of control.
If you notice him distancing himself from you this is usually his way of taking some space to figure out his feelings for you. I would suggest that you give him the space and not chase after him. If you chase him, you might push him away even further. Respect his decision and wait it out!
He Is Being Moody
A Gemini man is very good at wearing masks to hide what he is truly feeling. This is without a doubt one of his superpowers, however, he will also reach a point in which he cannot hide how he is truly feeling either.
This is when he becomes super moody and his personality will turn a lot darker than usual. You will notice him being a little snappy and even resentful towards you. Like how dare you make him have feelings for you!
Learn more about Gemini men mood swings here <<
The truth is, it is quite rare for a Gemini man to fall hard for a woman because he is so used to having so many different flings and options that when he gets feelings for someone it can really confuse him. This is when he becomes moody!
Here’s how to tell if a Gemini man likes you, even if he hides it:
What To Do If Your Gemini Man Is Confused About His Feelings?
A Gemini man confused in love is something that happens because he simply can’t make his mind up about what he wants. Often the best thing you can do in this situation is just to take a step back!
Honestly, if it’s a new relationship; why worry so much about it? Let things progress at a very natural rate. There is no need to rush it. Rushing typically leads to mistakes and resentment.
Take your time, and get to know him fully. Let him get to know you fully. Let nature take its course. Do it like the old days and let him court you. Over time you’ll both know what your relationship is and won’t have to title.
In fact, when you KNOW for sure that what you have is something special, he will also let you know in some way that he feels the same. You won’t have any questions as it will all just fall in line.
How To Emotionally Connect With A Gemini Man
How to get a Gemini man to open up isn’t the easiest thing to do, and I mean, to get him to open up genuinely. The thing you need to understand about a Gemini man is that he shares a lot because he is so communicative, but as you get to know him better you will see he actually only shares things surface level.
It can actually be very challenging getting to know a Gemini man on a deeper emotional level. He is very reluctant to show this side of himself as it makes him feel vulnerable and out of control.
When a Gemini man sends mixed signals it just shows how confused he is by this whole situation. He doesn’t know what to think because he doesn’t understand how he feels.
This is especially tough for a Gemini man as he believes that logic can explain everything in his life. He will try his hardest to think his feelings away for you. Unfortunately, for him, this is not the easiest thing to do!
When a Gemini man turns cold it is quite an obvious sign that you triggered something inside of him and this is why he is acting so strangely. He is simply trying to run away from what he is feeling towards you.
This can also happen when a Gemini man is hurt, he will turn cold because he doesn’t usually allow people to get close enough to him to actually hurt him and this is why it is so difficult to get him to open up.
Should I Express My Feelings To A Gemini Man?
To understand a Gemini man; you must be able to speak their language. Gemini typically will not offer up any information; especially when it’s emotionally related.
Gemini men are typically cool and collected so when you want to discuss things with him; you’ll need to also be this way. Throwing emotions at him will shut him down.
You want him to listen and to answer questions that require a cool approach. Be intellectual and use words he’s familiar with if you can. Tell him you’ve thought about things and were curious about something.
Then you can tell him how you feel about the relationship and where you see it going. Again, don’t throw emotions into it though. I know that sounds really confusing but trust me; it works to do it this way.
He’ll actually listen and be more receptive to what you’re saying when you’re really in a calm state. Say what you have to say as if it’s a matter of fact and not of emotional detriment.
Read next: How To Make A Gemini Man Obsessed With You
Are Gemini Men Emotional?
Out of all the signs, Gemini men are probably some of the least emotional out there. They relate to everything using their minds and don’t often turn to their feelings to figure things out.
So, the short answer is no, Gemini men aren’t very emotional at all.
How Do Gemini Show Their Feelings?
Because Gemini men aren’t very emotional, they tend to express their feelings for a woman in different ways. As an example, if a Gemini man has feelings for you, he won’t tell you, but he will want to spend a lot of time with you.
He will want to be in constant contact with you as this is what makes him feel most connected to you. This is an easy way to tell that a Gemini man has feelings for you.
How Do You Know If A Gemini Man Is Secretly In Love With You?
Gemini men typically are not very emotional people and don’t understand people who are more in touch with their own emotions. So it should not be too much of a shock he doesn’t talk to you about how he feels about you.
He sees talking about his feelings as some sort of weakness. Only after he’s been with you for a very long time will he feel safe to open up and let you know what he’s really feeling.
It’s a safety and security thing with him. He’s not good at getting serious about someone in the first place. Once he does; he has to adapt in order to feel safe enough to talk to you.
If you know he feels something for you as per his actions, but he’s not talking to you about what he feels; you’re going to have to ask him. There is no other approach to get him to open up.
Don’t expect him to open up easily. If you’re new to the Gemini man; it’s best if you just let time dictate whether or not he’ll learn to trust you enough to tell you what is in his heart.
No More Sleepless Nights About Your Gemini Man…
It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Gemini man who won’t commit.
I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Gemini guys.
I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her. She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.
As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that.
But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him. Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.
How could she just give up on that?
But it wasn’t easy.
It took a LOT of work. She had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language <<
And it worked!!
So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Gemini man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…