Ladies, you have no idea how often I have my clients ask me about Gemini men. These guys are just impossible to figure out, or are they? When a Gemini man likes you, you might not know what the signs are because they are so fickle.
A Gemini man is undoubtedly one of a kind, and this is why the signs a Gemini man likes you might be difficult to read or understand. This is one of the most confusing men in Astrology.
I am not surprised I get so many questions from my readers asking me about Gemini men. Questions like “what are the signs a Gemini man likes you through text?” or “how to tell a Gemini man is interested in you?” The questions are endless!
But don’t worry ladies, I have all the answers and it definitely helps that I am a Gemini myself so there is nothing about this sign I do not understand. If you’re looking for the answers you have come to the right place. Keep reading if you want to understand more about these misunderstood men.
How To Know If A Gemini Man Likes You?
A Gemini man is without a doubt the most curious sign in the Zodiac. This means that when a Gemini man likes you, he is going to want to know everything about you. He is super curious and wants to understand who you are.
If you find a Gemini is always interested in talking to you and asks you a ton of questions then he definitely likes you! The thing that you need to understand about a Gemini man is that he likes variety, and this means that he might have interests elsewhere.
This is something you need to accept about him, at least in the dating phase when the two of you haven’t made a commitment to each other yet. When he likes you, he isn’t the type of guy to keep a secret about it.
He will openly talk about you to the people in his life or casually drop you into a conversation. If he is wanting to spend a good amount of time with you then this is also a very clear sign that a Gemini man is interested in you.
The nice thing about a Gemini man is that he is generally an open book, but he also definitely has the potential to be very duplicitous. So this is something you always need to be aware of in your relationship.
5 Clear Signs A Gemini Man Secretly Likes You
Okay, so now that you have a bit of a background on Gemini men and how they operate in the world, you probably want to get to the nitty-gritty of who they are when a Gemini man likes you and has a crush on you.
Here are 5 most obvious signs a Gemini man secretly likes you:
1. He Chats You Up
A Gemini man is a sign ruled by Mercury, the speedster planet that rules communication. With this connection, it’s no surprise that he’s the type of guy whose love language is, well, language!
You likely met the Gemini man in the first place due to his extroverted nature and his ability to make friends super quickly. He is a connector and he loves to meet new people as much as a puppy in a dog park.
When he’s around you, he’ll be recounting his daily activity and discussing things that he’s interested in. He will be happy to talk for hours with you since this is his comfort zone and where he knows how to best show himself off. You may begin the conversation talking about your days and end up discussing the life cycle of tapeworms… you never know with a Gemini!
He has endless topics of conversation and you won’t get bored by what he says since every word is injecting with liveliness and vitality. Gemini men know how to spin a yarn and so you may come to love his ability to tell stories as well!
2. He Asks You A Lot Of Questions
A Gemini, being a connector, is always looking for things to associate you with so he can link you with others and others to you! I have a few friends that I met through a Gemini, in fact!
Not to mention the cold truth… Gemini men are nosey! They want to be up to date on all information available to them… which is also likely why they’re total Gossip Guys.
He’ll want to be in on all the juicy secrets you’re willing to share, even if it’s just to satisfy his own curiosity! The good thing is, if he’s crushing then he’ll also be among the first to check in and ask how you’re doing when he finds out you’re ill or not doing well.
The other bright side is that if he likes you, you’ll be the first to know all of the details of what’s going on and who’s doing what. If you’re someone who appreciates being in the loop, the Gemini man is your guy since it’s like dating a news anchor!
3. He Introduces You To His Friends
A Gemini man has a lot of people in his life. Remember, he loves variety… But a Gemini man will usually have a core set of friends who he trusts and likes to spend all his time with.
A Gemini man’s friends are very special to him. This is why he will only introduce a lady to his friends if she is really someone he can see himself with. The opinion his friends have of her is really important to him.
If he likes you, then get ready to meet a lot of people because there are many people a Gemini man will consider his “best friend.”
4. He’ll Hit On You
Geminis are extroverted and typically pretty confident in themselves, so you’ll definitely find a Gemini man who is smitten flirting with you like it’s his job! He’ll turn on the charm in an attempt to win your love.
A Gemini doesn’t need to know you for a long time to become obvious with his flirting. If he feels that you’re receptive, he will continue on until you’re totally enamoured with him.
He’s a smooth operator who has a way with words, so you may find yourself flirting back with ease. You’ve played perfectly into his plan… and that’s not a bad thing!
Just remember, Geminis just say things that sound good sometimes. It’s not that they’re trying to play you, but sometimes their mouth gets ahead of their brain. So, don’t be afraid to ask questions and clarify. Keep him on his toes!
5. He Pays Attention To What You Say
In my opinion, this is the ultimate indicator that a Gemini guy is interested in you! Geminis have an active mind, so often they are thinking of how they’ll respond before the other person is finished talking. They have difficulty focusing at times.
If he can repeat details of what you’ve said to him or reference prior conversations with ease, this means that he’s really tuning in to what you say enough to carry it with him and remember it. No small feat for a Gemini who have a reputation of cherry picking the information they find useful and discarding the rest.
A Gemini who is immersed in your words is not thinking about other things while he’s listening to you. He’s laser-focused and hanging on your every word.
If you’ve noticed that he is not easily distracted while you’re talking and seems to be listening to you instead of prepping his response, it’s a good sign that you’ve got him on the hook!
5 More Obvious Signs A Gemini Man Has A Crush On You
6. You See His Romantic Side
For most people, a Gemini man comes across as very cerebral and intellectual. And that is because he is, but there is also a sweet and romantic side to a Gemini man that comes out when he really likes a woman.
When a Gemini man likes you, you’ll get to see how sweet and thoughtful he can be. You’ll notice how he remembers all the details about who you are and what you like to do.
You’ll definitely get the impression that your Gemini man likes you as he goes out of his way to show you that he is a good listener. This guy will definitely sweep you off your feet if you aren’t careful.
7. He Is Happy To Adapt To Your Needs
One of the best attributes of a Gemini man that is often overlooked as a positive quality is his capacity to be adaptable in most situations. In this sense, a Gemini man is pretty selfless.
If there is something you want to do, he’ll definitely adapt to what you want to do just to make you happy. This is one of the biggest signs a Gemini man likes you. He’ll let you take the lead.
A Gemini man is open to trying anything out at least once and is very open-minded. If you can get his curiosity going he’ll be open to anything, especially if it means that he can impress you with his willingness.
8. He Is Reliable
Gemini men often get a nasty reputation for not being very reliable. Usually, these gentleman are very fickle and struggle to keep their word, unfortunately. However, when a Gemini man does like you, he will be more reliable.
This is a big sign that he likes you because he wants you to feel safe and certain about him. A Gemini man knows that he needs to create a feeling of security if he wants to be in a strong and successful relationship with someone.
A Gemini man will do what it takes to make you happy. He might not get this perfectly every time, but just the fact that he is trying means a lot!
9. He Wants To Experience New Things With You
A Gemini man is all about experiences. This guy is incredibly curious and wants to know as much about the world as he possibly can. His open-mindedness is one of his best attributes.
When a Gemini man likes you, he is going to want to experience all kinds of new things with you. Having those shared memories is something he’ll get quite sentimental about.
He loves learning new things and experiencing the excitement of a new hobby, and when he can do this with a romantic partner it is even better. So be open to trying new things with your Gemini man because this will definitely keep him stimulated. Boredom is never a good thing for a Gemini man.
10. He Compliments You
A Gemini man definitely has a prominent love language, his would definitely be Words of Affirmation. A Gemini man is always going to share the way he feels about you and what he is thinking.
I have covered his entire astrology love profile in my Gemini Love Language guide. I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his love language and finally connect with him in the right way.
One of his best qualities is that he is so direct and says exactly what he thinks. When a Gemini man compliments you, he genuinely means it. He likes to make you feel good with his words.
He knows that words hold power and can make people feel a certain way. Verbal affection is one of the best things about being with a Gemini man.
Watch this video to learn more about the things you should never say to a Gemini man.
5 Signs A Gemini Man Likes You Through Text
11. He Reaches Out To You Often
When a Gemini man’s text becomes more frequent, then he definitely likes you. He won’t do that when he’s not into someone. Trust me when I tell you that he’s a busy guy and won’t waste his time.
Seeing his texts in your inbox on a frequent basis is letting you know that he’s thinking about you which also means that he cares!
Gemini men like to work a lot and work on projects. They love having multiple hobbies as well. They don’t spend a lot of time chit-chatting via text unless it’s someone they feel they’re getting closer to (or wants to).
Consider yourself very much liked if you’re hearing your notifications going off daily. Your Gemini guy is letting you know that he wants to form something special with you.
You are very special if he’s putting in the time to text you and keep in touch! Timing means a lot as well. Messaging you a few times or several times in a day shows he definitely thinks you’re amazing.
I stumbled across this study that affirms that text messages promote relationship quality, and I gotta say that it looks like they had a lot of Geminis in their research sample. Geminis definitely thrive in a relationship when there’s a lot of communication and texting around.
So, replying to you quickly also indicates that he’s totally into you. Don’t take that for granted. Keep that flow going!
12. He Bombards You With Questions
Naturally, when a Gemini guy likes you, he wants to get to know you more. This will prompt him to ask you lots of questions. Texting with a Gemini man is an important part of the dating (or pre-dating) process because he wants to know who they are.
If you want to master your Gemini man’s texting style and know what the best texts are to send your Gemini man then there is only one thing you should do. Check out my Gemini Text Magic Guide.
Just remember that when he does ask you a load of questions, don’t give him all the answers. If you do, he’ll get to know too much, and then he will get bored. He loves a mysterious type of woman.
You can kind of play around and tell him that you’ll tell him another time. Don’t pull back too much though because he’ll think you don’t like him. There is a fine line there but you can find an even balance.
Discussing mutual likes and interests is totally alright. He’s trying to figure out how and where to take you on a date. That’s an excellent sign your Gemini likes you through text.
Remember not to let him get too personal in his line of questions. Some things are good to be reserved about until you two get closer. Leave some interesting stuff tucked away for a while. That’s what keeps him interested.
13. He Always Texts You
Ever heard of emails mysteriously evaporating, lost mail, and connection problems during Mercury Retrograde? That’s because the planet Mercury rules technology that can communicate with others… remember who else Mercury rules? If you said Gemini, you’re correct!
He won’t just chat with you when you’re physically around! The Gemini whose caught feelings will be in your DMs all the time, always hitting you with a “what’s up” or “wyd.”
Gemini feels at home in the land of messenger, tags, and instant messaging. Speedy, easy, communicative, and informative? Totally perfect for a Gemini!
A Gemini man who is crushing on you will be messaging you day and night, just hoping you’ll talk to them. This is them trying to communicate how much they love talking to you. Every text back is a win for the Gemini, so he’ll really appreciate any time you’ve got to talk!
14. He Sends You Interesting Information
When he starts to get to know you a bit and knows what you like, he’ll send you things that he knows you’ll appreciate. He might send you links to articles, blogs, or photos.
He may send you the latest song that he’s into via link so you can listen to it and tell him what you think. It’s something he really loves. Music is very much part of most Gemini men’s lives.
Learning what music or songs you like will be a thrill to him, as he could very much romance you with it in some way. There are a lot of Gemini men who are talented at playing musical instruments.
The Gemini man likes to romance and leaves his mark on the woman he is into. That could be you. Getting text messages from a Gemini guy will be an experience you’ve probably never had before!
He may also send you some cute emojis – he knows you’ll like it and will make you smile. That makes him smile in return.
15. The Comedian Comes Out
You can bet that your Gemini guy has a great sense of humor. If he doesn’t, then he’s not your everyday type of Gemini. They are jokesters and sometimes pranksters.
They will do anything to make you laugh. That will also mean he sends you jokes he’s heard, or he’ll kind of rib you a bit. Teasing is an old-fashioned thing for boys.
They did this as a child and honestly, that inner child is still in them. He won’t try to hurt your feelings but having fun at your expense is pretty normal so don’t worry that he’s changed his mind.
Funny memes are another thing that he may send you to make you laugh. He’s also really good at cheering you up when you feel down or are not feeling well.
The Gemini man, aka Prince Charming, will do whatever he thinks will make you light up like a candle. That’s just how he’s built.
Expect lots of good humor. He will make your tummy hurt from laughing so much. Who doesn’t want a funny man? They’re great and they surely make you feel at home with them.
My Gemini Man Is Making A Lot Of Eye Contact — Does That Mean He Likes Me?
When a Gemini man gives you a lot of eye contact, it can really make your heart flutter and make you think that he might have an interest in you. However, there are many reasons for this…
His making a lot of eye contact can mean he is just respectful and knows that it is important to make eye contact with someone when having a conversation. But, if you find him staring at you from the corner of your eye, there might be interest there.
Just as a warning, this could be sexual interest where he just wants to sleep with you, but of course, the possibility of him being interested in you on a deeper level definitely exists.
How Does A Gemini Man Show His Feelings?
A Gemini man is a very communicative person, but he also likes spending time with the people who are important to him. If a Gemini man has feelings for you he will want to talk to you all the time and share his thoughts with you.
You will basically start feeling like his diary because if anything happens to him you will be the first person he wants to share his stories with. He’s also a man of adventure and experience, if he ever does anything new and interesting he is going to want you to tag along.
How Do Gemini Act Around Their Crush?
A Gemini man might act quite nervous around his crush and speak at a mile a minute. You’ve probably got his mind reeling and he gets really excited when he is around someone he has a crush on.
He’s like a little kid in a candystore when he has a crush on a woman. He’s going to want your attention and will want to talk to you all of the time. You’ll feel the excitement and interest from his side at all times.
Who Will A Gemini Man Fall In Love With?
A Gemini man is pretty open minded when it comes to love, and he expects the same from his woman. He wants to be with someone who is fun, flirty, and fabulous. There are many things a Gemini man finds attractive, remember, he is a man who enjoys variety.
He likes women who are smart, engaged, and open to new and exciting things. Life with a his dream partner needs to be extremely stimulating so a woman who can keep him on his toes is the best kind of match for him.
What Is A Gemini Man’s Love Language?
There can only be one love language for the most communicative sign in the Zodiac, and that has to be words of affirmation. These guys love expressing their love verbally and hearing positive reinforcement from others.
The way to a Gemini man’s heart is through communication. He needs to be able to talk and have stimulating conversations with his partner. If you’re a good conversationalist then you will definitely bag yourself a Gemini man in no time.
Why Most Dating Advice Can Be Dangerous With A Gemini Man?
Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Gemini man. And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.
Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Gemini. You see, Gemini men are VERY different than men of other signs.
And if you use standard dating advice with a Gemini, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.
I don’t want that to happen to you.
Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.
You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…
So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.
So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches!
They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.
Because your wonderful Gemini is NOT like other men… at ALL.
Wishing you all the love in the world,
Your sister and relationship Astrologer,