How To Flirt With A Gemini Man The Right Way (With Cute Examples To Send Him Over)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Are you interested in a scorching hot Gemini man and not sure what you can do to get his attention? How to flirt with a Gemini man the right way? Find out..

Are you interested in a scorching hot Gemini man and not sure what you can do to get his attention? Maybe you’ve been trying to flirt but it doesn’t seem to be getting you where you want to be. Here are a few things to keep in mind.

Flirting With A Gemini Man — Basics

When you do decide to try to get a Gemini man’s attention; make it all about him. He won’t be able to resist. Some men get turned off by a woman flirting too much. A Gemini sees it as a compliment.

In fact it lets him know you’re into him and want to get to know him more. Talk to him, tell him jokes, make sexual innuendos, and show a little skin. If you keep talking to him more than anyone else in the room; he’ll dig it.

Gemini men LOVE attention. They’re always the center of it no matter where they go. Whether it’s a party or some other type of gathering; they’ll go out of their way to make sure everyone is having a good time and laughing at his jokes.

Whatever method you’re using to flirt with him; crank it up. There is no such thing as too much with this guy. Of course this is just the initial meeting him and getting to know him.

After you get him and start dating a Gemini man; you’ll probably want to dial it back a little. No too much though because then he’ll think you’re ignoring him. You never want your Gemini man to think you’re not giving him enough attention.

How To Flirt With A Gemini Man The Right Way

Be Intellectually Stimulating

If you can figure out what types of things he likes; take it to a cerebral level! Talk to him about everything you know about it and it will impress him. Ask him lots of questions about what he’s into.

By all means; if you have experience with any of the things he brings up; dish it out. He’ll be impressed. Trust me; he loves to talk a lot so you will probably have no problem at all getting him to talk about his interests.

By showing him that you’ve got a brain and not afraid to use it; he’ll find this incredibly sexy. A Gemini man prefers women who are very smart and have a lot of different interests like he does.

He’ll always appreciate a woman who has many different areas of pursuit in her life. He typically has many irons in the fire so he can relate to this easier than with a woman who only has one or two interests.

Be Ambitious And Bold

If you’re drooling over the Gemini man who is surrounded by people on the other side of the room; take initiative. Don’t wait for him to come to you. He has to know you’re interested in order to make a move anyway.

It’s better for you to be bold and show him that you know what you want. This will turn him on big time. Once you get him talking to you; talk about such things as ambition in life.

He’ll probably ask you what you do for a living; tell him but also tell him about your other goals or passions in life. He’ll appreciate this and will probably share with you what his are.

When you get this information; you use this as means of doing research and having things to talk about with him when you are able to meet up with him again. The point of this exercise is to get him to “get” that you’re interested.

By letting him know you’re ambitious lets him know that you’re probably independent and have a life of your own. This is important because he prefers women who are not clingy.

He likes much personal space and time to himself to work on his own passions in life. So if you’re the type of woman who has your own goals and passions; he figures that you’ll be a safe selection.

Verbal Jousting

I know this is a bit strange but Gemini men really love to debate. I’m not saying you should pick a fight with him but debating will get his attention. If you start talking about who is better; Bach or Beethoven; he will definitely smile.

He doesn’t even mind when the debate gets heated. He finds it incredibly sexy to see you become passionate about what you’re talking about. Just try to keep yourself from becoming too angry.

That’s where you have to find the fine line. Debating is fine but once it becomes argument; he will decide it’s time to walk away. He isn’t good with emotion or drama so he cannot cope with anything past healthy debate.

Be careful what conversation you start so that it doesn’t end up in a heated argument. That may be a bit difficult but once you figure out where the line is; you’ll be able to have lots of fun debating with him.

Appeal To His Creative Side

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Most Gemini men are creative. In fact; many of them are musicians or artists. That being said; you can talk to him about your own passion about music of art. Being cultured is a very lucrative thing to be.

Gemini men love a woman who is herself; artistic or musically inclined. You could suggest hitting up a nearby museum sometime or attending a concert. Live bands may appeal to him.

Talking about music is always a hit with this guy. Unless of course; you like completely different types of music. Then perhaps art or other forms of creativity is more useful. When you talk to him; you should be able to figure out what he likes best

How To Flirt With A Gemini Man Over Text — Cute & Clever Examples

The Gemini man is Mr. Personality. He’s someone who blends in with others fairly well and ends up captivating them with his charm. That’s why he’s pulled you in with his magical ways!

How can you flirt with a Gemini man over text effectively? Well, let’s get into some examples of what you can say that will get his attention…

“You have captured my attention… Can we go for a coffee?”

Alright, so this one is pretty to the point, and it should work really well for a Gemini that you haven’t yet established much contact with yet. You may have recently met him and now want to talk to him.

If you have his number, then I’m assuming that you have met and that he’s given you his number. That being the case, he’s got to be interested in you in some way, otherwise, he wouldn’t have given you that information.

That being said, you can get the ball rolling by giving him this gentle nudge. You’re letting him know you find him attractive or appealing while asking him to hang out with you.

Try to keep the meeting as casual as you can. He’ll appreciate this greatly. He’s a bit cautious at times, so using a friendly approach will make him more comfortable.

At the same time, you are actively flirting with him by telling him he’s captured your attention. He’s going to want to know what you find so great about him and he will take the bait.

“This may seem quick, but I like you and I couldn’t help myself”

This message is for when you’ve just gotten his number. You can do this within the first few days. It’s a flirt and it’s a way of letting him know you dig him. Texting with a Gemini man is fun and should be enjoyed!

Being coy can be cute sometimes – but so can a woman who knows what she wants. You’re not being pushy and you’re not being needy. You’re telling him “I like you!” It’s that simple!

“I’m having lunch at [insert restaurant], feel free to join me”

This will let your Gemini crush know where you are and that you’d like for him to join you. He’s clever enough to know that you wouldn’t be telling him if you didn’t want him there.

It invites him to spend a little time with you in a public setting where you can share a nice meal and intelligent conversation. It will stimulate his love for food and his intrigue for your suggestion. 

I know it doesn’t sound too terribly romantic, but from a Gemini standpoint, it’s a way to share mental intimacy which is definitely a winner if you’re trying to win and keep a Gemini man’s heart. 

You’ll know if he’s into it if he shows up. Now if he doesn’t, then he may have a reason for it but if that’s the case, he will text you back and let you know. 

“There’s this new movie coming out, you game?”

Don’t be afraid to make the first move with a Gemini man! He actually appreciates a woman who initiates. If he likes you, of course, he will go. Pick a movie you know that you’ll both enjoy.

If you aren’t sure what that may be, you can ask him “Any good movies out? Wanna go together?”

The Gemini man is pretty simple when it comes to these types of things. If not movies, you can try music, comedy, or something really fun.

“You told me you love kayaking and I was planning to go this weekend. Are you free?”

Not all Gemini men like outdoor activities, but still it gives you a good idea of taking into account what he likes. You can build your friendship and take it further with simple clever ideas like this.

It’s the thought that really counts with this guy. Always stimulate his excitement with plans, goals, or ideas. That’s how you win his attention and his heart.

“You can’t handle me, give it your best”

I do want to also mention banter because it’s something that Gemini men really love. Don’t forget to be clever, witty, and sometimes a little sarcastic. He finds this incredibly sexy.

This particular texting will turn him on most likely. He’s going to want to know why it is you think he cannot handle you. He will test you and he will push you.

Indulge in banter back and forth with him. You’ll be so glad you did! Gemini men love to debate. It doesn’t have to get serious for it to work. It simply needs to be a back-and-forth thing between you.

Gemini Man Flirting Style — Conclusion

Trying to win the heart of a Gemini man may seem scary, but it’s actually something meant to be fun. Don’t overthink things. Relax and be optimistic with him. 

Gemini men love aspiring women who inspire them. They love to learn new things and explore. Make your love about exploring you. 

Don’t tell him all about yourself via text. He’s likely to ask a lot of questions because that’s what the Gemini man does. He’s inquisitive because it’s exciting to him.

Give him tidbits of information about him. You can say something like: “That’s something for you to find out later on.”

I can’t tell you how much that will make him curious. That’s exactly what you want. You always want to keep him on his toes! Keep him guessing and have juicy rewards here and there.

Something funny you can do that is still flirty is sharing clever quotes from movies. Send him something a bit like this: “you had me at hello.” I know that sounds corny, but he’ll love it!

Most likely, he’ll know what movie that came from but you can also keep generational movies in mind. Use something recognizable with a flirty tone to it. You won’t regret it.

I hope this helps you to get your Gemini crush’s attention and rope him in for the long haul!

Getting to fully know the Gemini you’re interested in is the best way to know what you can use to flirt with him effectively. Each Gemini is different and they carry different moods. Click here to find out more about the mystical Gemini.

Wishing you all the luck of the Universe.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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2 thoughts on “How To Flirt With A Gemini Man The Right Way (With Cute Examples To Send Him Over)

    1. “I’m having lunch at [insert restaurant], feel free to join me.
      You’ll know if he’s into it if he shows up. Now if he doesn’t, then he may have a reason for it but if that’s the case, he will text you back and let you know.” 

      I actually did this a couple months ago and he did have a reason for not joining me, which he texted to me right away. Then he suggested we meet at that same restaurant the following week—which we did and it was so much fun!

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