10 Things You Need To Know When Dating a Gemini Man

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Sometimes it feels as if you are dating two different people. Here are top things you need to know when dating a Gemini man.

There are always things you need to be aware of when dating anyone. What are those things you should be aware of when it comes to a Gemini man you’re thinking of dating or have already begun dating? The following are some things that may help you hold it together and maintain your Gemini man’s love.

Dating a Gemini Man is like dating 2 men

The Gemini man is dual in nature and while he may seem like the romantic dreamy eyed guy on one date. Your next date may not be the same. He may be the goofball comedian the next time around or the intellectual moody guy. You never know what you may get and it’s important to know that you can never predict who he will be on any given date.

This man literally has two different faces and this could make him seem very different each time you see him. He may even appear to be different each time you two are around his friends or family. It’s not that he does this on purpose; it’s just in his nature to adapt to his situations and emotionally responds in whatever way he feels at the time.

Gemini Men can be flaky at times

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Gemini men are not really good at adhering to a schedule or even to plans. While he may show up when he should sometimes; he doesn’t always stick to that. Sometimes he will change plans you have with him entirely.

You’ve planned all week to go see a particular movie but then that night arrives and he decides its better go to the latest dance club instead. That’s how quickly he can change.

That is, if he even shows up on time. It may infuriate you but if you truly love him and want to accept him for whom he is then you’ll need to adapt and learn that this is who he is.

Gemini men are highly unpredictable

Honestly Gemini men really do not like making plans because in their minds it sounds like “premeditated” and that makes them uncomfortable. Of course, there are schedules they must follow; like for their job but that’s where they draw the line. That is something they cannot avoid.

However when it comes to other aspects of their lives, they really like to stay open to what could happen at any given moment. They really are the one sign that “lives for today” out of them. They like living in the here and now and let the cards fall where they may. Just as their unpredictability could be annoying, it could also be refreshing if you’re able to go with the flow.

Gemini loves to be assistance to those he loves

If you have some things that need doing and need some help, your Gemini guy will typically be up for the task. All you need do is ask him if he can help you with whatever it is you’re trying to take care of. Just make sure that you’re showing him appreciation for all he does or he will feel you’re taking him for granted which never fares well for anyone.

This man will go above and beyond for those he loves even if it means sacrificing his own time and energy. He figures you are worth it and will be willing to help you with just about anything that you need his assistance with. He’s reliable in this aspect of life. He wants to make sure you’re happy.

Roller Coaster Living

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Truly dating a Gemini can be a bit like riding a roller coaster with many ups and downs. Because of his dual nature and having different moods at any given time, this could cause you to also react to him in different ways. One day you may be totally livid with his lack of care of showing up late for dinner.

The next night you may feel he’s the greatest guy you’ve ever met because he’s making you laugh and feel good about your relationship. The life with a Gemini is not one for the faint of heart and certainly not for someone who is strong on rules and regulations. If you’re ready to expect the unexpected then you’ll be quite satisfied.

Random surprises are likely

The Gemini man has the ability to truly pull of some amazing surprises. Especially when you’ve become comfortable with the fact that you know he could do anything at anytime or be anyone at any moment.

This man is a genius with planning out elaborate dates without you having the slightest idea that he’s planning anything at all. You could get some beautiful flowers delivered to you at work out of nowhere for what seems to be no reason other than him showing you he loves you. Remember, as I mentioned before it’s best to expect the unexpected with this guy.

Routine Lives Bore Gemini Men

While they may have to do their jobs, anything outside of this; they really want to have fun and enjoy themselves. Remember that they are random and one day they could take off work early to go hiking or do something else they think is fun. It may not be practical but if he doesn’t get stimuli, he will not do well in life.

He could ask you to play hooky with him one day from work. Go for it! Once in a while isn’t a bad thing and he will appreciate you more for being spontaneous as well as fun. This will keep your relationship healthy and alive. Perhaps you can go to a movie or an adult video store to liven things up in the bedroom. Trust me when I tell you, he will love any acts of randomness that you yourself can come up with.

Gemini men are amazing at solving problems!

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If you’re looking for a partner that can really help you find solutions to issues you may have in your life, this guy is the one! He typically can see both sides of the coin since he himself IS two sides of a coin. He can take a very objective look at the matter and give you some sound suggestions.

This guy above all else should be your best friend. He is someone you can always rely on to tell you what it is you need to know about any given situation. Whether it’s business related or something to do with your family/friends; this guy will undoubtedly know the right answer and be able to be your constant rock of a partner.

Free time for self

It is an absolute must for Gemini men to have time to themselves. It’s not that they don’t’ want to spend time without you; they just really do well when they have time to themselves. They often solve problems and are able to come up with new ideas when they are alone. If they ask you for some free time, try not to take it to heart or take it in a personal way.

Gemini men like to feel as though they still have freedom of movement. They do not want to feel fenced in or chained up. When the start to feel this way, this is typically when they will pull back and/or even cheat. So be very careful and be sure to let him do his own thing when he wants while you do your own thing. He will appreciate you more if you have hobbies outside of him.

Short attention span

The Gemini man has so much going on in their heads that they cannot always remember everything you tell them. If you start talking to them about something you feel is important and he starts to space out; try to be patient with him. Maybe he’s thinking about lunch for tomorrow. However, he may be thinking about how to fix that leaky pipe in the bathroom.

You never know what is going on in your Gemini’s mind and due to this, he does tend to space out quite a bit. However, you can easily get his attention back by gently saying “honey, are you alright” or something like this. He’ll snap back to himself and you can finish the conversation.

All in all these guys have flaws just like anyone but they also have some amazing qualities that will knock your socks off. If you’re open minded, can go with the flow, funny, and can understand them for who they are, they will treat you like royalty.

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Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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