Will A Gemini Man Come Back? 7 Ways To Get Him Back After A Breakup

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Have you recently had a breakup with a Gemini man, and now wondering will he come back? Here's how to get a Gemini man back...

Hello, my beautiful ladies! I know how difficult it must be for you to deal with the heartbreak of losing your Gemini man. Nothing is worse than a breakup, especially if you still want to be in a relationship with him. However, there is still hope! You might be wondering how long does it take for a Gemini man to come back after a breakup?

As a Gemini woman myself, I really know the ins and outs of a Gemini man’s mind. I have studied this sign extensively and know exactly what these guys need to be convinced to give love another chance.

Are you regretting the split and longing to rekindle the relationship with your Gemini man? Are you yearning for a way to win back your Gemini man’s heart after the relationship has ended? Then you have come to the right place!

Keep reading to discover the secrets to getting a Gemini man back after a breakup and reigniting the flame of love between you two. I have so many tips and tricks up my sleeve that will help you navigate this tricky situation and ultimately win back the heart of your Gemini man. Enjoy!

Will A Gemini Man Come Back After A Breakup?

The heart of a Gemini man’s personality lies in his dualistic nature. Due to this, his reaction to a breakup can be somewhat unpredictable. You never quite know which angle he is going to take in this situation.

On the one hand, he might feel deeply hurt that the relationship didn’t last, but on the other hand, he might feel rather curious and open to new possibilities that may come his way after the breakup.

This can mean a myriad of things for you as the woman trying to get him back. This duality shows that there is definitely a possibility that, yes, he might want to come back after the breakup with you, but it also depends on his mood and where he is emotionally.

He might first need some time and space to process his feelings and evaluate the relationship. For some Gemini men, they might need more time than others to process exactly what went wrong and whether getting back together is the right decision. For others, they might know in an instant.

Their dualistic nature can be very confusing, not only for you but also for them! He might not even know how he is feeling from one day to the next, and this is why time and space can be a good thing to allow the Gemini man to sort out his emotions and make a decision.

You may also want to readWhat Not To Say To A Gemini Man (7 Annoying Things)

How Long Does It Take For A Gemini Man To Come Back?

The time it takes for a Gemini man to come back after a breakup can vary greatly. The thing you always need to keep in mind when dealing with a Gemini man is that he is, by nature, just so unpredictable.

Some Gemini men might take a short time away from you, possibly even a few weeks or even just a month. In contrast, another Gemini man may take longer, needing several months or even longer to fully process his feelings and decide if he wants to come back.

Of course, there is also the possibility that the Gemini man may never come back, especially if you don’t follow my tips and tricks to win back his heart. This is why we like Gemini men so much; they are just darn unpredictable, and this can be a desirable trait for some women.

One thing I would say is that if the breakup is fresh, it would be best to give him some time and space to figure things out, recalibrate, and understand his emotions. Try not to contact him because it can be overwhelming.

This can increase the chances of returning to you sooner rather than later. It is vital that he finds out what he is missing!

How To Get A Gemini Man Back (4 Ways To Win Him Over)

There are a few things you can do to win back the love of a Gemini man and increase these chaces. Here are four ways to win him over:

1. You Won’t Get A Gemini Man Back If You Do THIS…

The first thing to keep in mind is that Gemini man isn’t good at dealing with emotions. If you try to talk to him while you’re emotional; he won’t respond kindly.

To really discuss things with him, you’re going to have to somewhat detach your emotions from the situation at hand. Talk to him with logic and reason. That’s the language he gets.

You’re going to have to learn how to handle your emotions in a more productive way in order to be around or get a Gemini man back. In reality, if he broke it off because you were too emotional, this is all the more reason to stabilize.

You don’t need to be a hard-ass or closed-off. Just learn to communicate without having to be emotionally charged. Learn some techniques that will help you to open up without seeming needy.

2. This Is What He Really Needs…

One thing that makes a Gemini man rethink his relationships is whether or not there is a routine. He isn’t into routine, and he gets bored with any sort of routine, thus his need for constant stimulation and excitement.

When it comes to relationships, he tries to be the same way. He wants you to do things differently sometimes. Giving him lots of free time will help ease the burden of keeping him stimulated as well.

Let him be free to do the things he loves. Going out with your friends and doing your own thing will make him feel like he’s still in charge of himself, which provides the stimulation he loves.

If you’re used to spending every single night with him, change it up. Spend the night at a friend’s house or at your own home, should you live separately. If you live together, stay at your family’s place or take a weekend getaway alone.

This will definitely help you learn how to make a Gemini man miss you after a breakup. If you are spontaneous, you’ll be able to get him to think of you when you’re not together. 

3. The Attitude You Need To Maintain…

Part of not being emotional means you will need to keep yourself upbeat and peppy. If he sees you drowning yourself in sorrow while you’re apart, he’ll see this as a red flag, not something he wants.

Take care of yourself and do things that you really love. Do things that lift you up and make you feel like a million bucks. Watching you shine will turn him on and make him want to be part of your world.

Typically, after a breakup, a Gemini man will still remain in contact as long as it’s not a really nasty ending. This gives you the opportunity to show him that you’ve been working on yourself and are much more capable now.

Seeing you glow with happiness will make your Gemini happy. It will draw his attention to you and make him want to see what it is that you’re doing that made you change so dramatically.

Naturally, this leads to talking to you, asking you out, and trying to start over. He won’t want to go backward and “try again”; instead, he’ll start fresh and see where things can go.

4. All It Takes Is This One Little Thing…

Gemini men love women who can hold their own and make lives of their own, whether they’re around or not. To make it work with him or to get your Gemini man back, you’re going to have to show him you don’t NEED him.

You’ll much easier lure him in when he sees that you’re taking care of your own life, spending time with your own friends, and making the most of what the world has to offer.

This is much more of a turn-on for a Gemini man than a woman who wants to cling to him. He’s terrified of routine and of a woman who needs him so much that he cannot breathe.

He wants to feel free in the relationship he’s in. The only way to do that is by making sure that you keep yourself busy and that you aren’t in need of being attached to him at the hip.

3 More Ways To Get A Gemini Man Back After You Hurt Him

Sometimes, you need to up the ante and go the extra mile to win a Gemini man back after hurting him. Here are three more ways to get a Gemini man back after you’ve hurt him:

5. The First Thing To Do

After hurting a Gemini man, offering a genuine apology and acknowledging your actions and their impact is crucial. Open communication is essential, as it provides a chance to clear misunderstandings and express your desire to make amends.

Engage in honest conversations to address the issues that led to the hurt, showing that you understand his feelings and are committed to resolving any problems. After this, give him some time and space to process what happened between you.

It is beneficial for you to be somewhat scarce after hurting a Gemini man, as this will allow him to reflect on his feelings and potentially miss your presence. Knowing what he is missing is integral.

Related: How To Deal With A Gemini Man After A Fight

6. Who You Need To Become

If you have hurt your Gemini man and want to get him back, then you will have to take some time for reflection and focus on your personal growth. Working on yourself and the negative patterns in your life can only benefit you.

Not only will this show your Gemini man that you are committed to self-improvement, but it will also make you more attractive and desirable to him. However, these changes must happen because you want to improve your life, not to win him over.

Show him that you bring a new energy to the table and that you have learned the lessons of your past mistakes. Turning a new leaf and taking a new approach to your life will show your Gemini man that you, too, can be flexible and adapt to a new way of being.

7. Your Life Outside Of Him

A Gemini man will always be intrigued by a woman who can maintain a socially active and vibrant life. This is a man who enjoys being around people and engaging in various activities.

Stimulation is all he really desires in life. As I am sure you know, he cannot sit still for one moment! So, one way to get a Gemini man back after hurting him is to focus on cultivating a fulfilling and exciting life outside of him.

Create your own community by spending time with friends and participating in hobbies and interests that bring you joy. If you can live a vibrant life outside of him, then he might feel excited to want to rejoin the life you have built for yourself.

When he sees you enjoying your life, he may feel more drawn back to your positive energy and want to be a part of it again.

Read nextWhen A Gemini Man Is Done With You (9 Obvious Signs)

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Now, I can’t guarantee that you are going to get your ex Gemini back without analyzing your birth charts in depth…

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But I can assure you that you will improve your chances—first, by understanding what happened.

Yes. You might even be able to rewrite your love story altogether.

Because usually, it’s a simple mistake that confuses him or pushes him away.

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I hope it proves as valuable to you as it has to others seeking a Gemini man’s heart.

Sending you love,

Your friend and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach x

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17 thoughts on “Will A Gemini Man Come Back? 7 Ways To Get Him Back After A Breakup

  1. I shall try my best. Reading your article has healed my heart for some part. Hope he comes back. Will not nag n cry in front of him anymore. Your advice is perfect. Thankyou so much. M in such a mental breakdown i cannot describe.

    1. coincidentally i’m doing the same things. living and thriving my life taking good care of myself posting good times on social media (not in a obvious way) travelling.. lets c if he come back.

      1. Hi Avatar! Glad you’re doing what you need to do in order to make your life better. That’s always a plus! Whether or not he comes back, you’ll be a champion of your own life which is fantastic. You may want to check out my book to help you get to know Gemini man better. It could help guide you what steps you should take next and other things you maybe didn’t know about him. Take a look at “Gemini Man Secrets”.

  2. Does this apply for Gemini Women as well? Trying to decide if it ended faster than it started or the other way around… no closure & left high and dry said it was my fault for no communication ?

  3. What would you suggest if he blocks you? Do I give him some space see if he will unblock me so we can maybe meet up and properly talk about things? Basically –
    I called him out on his hot & cold behavior since lock down happened & I asked him is there someone else that’s making you this way or if he is alright as I understand people are affected mentally by lock down. He got completely angry said to move on & that he was done with us. He then blocked me apart from on Snapchat. He kept me on Snapchat for a few days & said he was sorry I’m a lovely amazing girl but he didn’t like the way I accused him. I said i didn’t accuse him I just asked just I’m confused don’t understand your behavior it’s very up and down and I said look it’s fine if you don’t want to continue this I wish you the best. He then would send me snaps saying he couldn’t sleep saying I looked stunning all I put was thank you very much then out the blue the next day he blocked me on there too.

  4. My gemini broke up with me few months ago and while I wanted him back and probably struck him as needy and clingy, he was cold, cruel and adamant that things are definitely over between us. Then something in me simply cracked and I realized that I don’t need such a man in my life. That’s when I blocked him and decided he’s no longer an option for me. From that moment on he keeps poping up in my life despite the fact that I don’ t want him in my life anymore although I still love him. And I told him all this. But he simply won’t leave me alone. So, maybe this is the key to bringing him back for all of you who want that. You have to genuinely STOP pining after him and wanting him in your life again. That apparently does the trick with him. But be careful not to fall into same trap as I did, because now that he’ s always somehere nearby lurking behind every corner, I feel spooked and really want him to leave me alone. I simply want to move on and live my life anew, hopefully with someone who would make me happy and be more stable. By the way I’ m capricorn.

    1. Hi Dina ,

      I am Capricorn as well . We Capricorn have tendency to test every men in our life because we are very much stubborn , independent and so strong for anything and never afraid to be alone or without a man because we can do pretty much anything because we are very logic people and we can pretty detached our emotions. I’ve dated all zodiac signs and I tested them a lot especially in a first month of a relationship , when I think a man is not capable of standing by my side and selfish or arrogant that’s the time I would test him to start acting needy and clingy and see how he responded, because capricorn is very perfectionist by nature and they value time and and they need to make sure before they invest their hearts, energy and time to someone that they are fully assured and secured into the relationship before the Capricorn drop her guard down. I tend to test all my suitors not because I am playing games but you’ll know who will stand by your side when things gets rough in life.

      So fast forward, I’ve dated a Gemini man and we both feel the connections at first meeting. He would call me like 4-5 times a day and texts me all day , as a Capricorn I find it annoying and overwhelming because sometimes I can come off cold and detached when I am busy and focused on something at the moment but I want a man just to acknowledge me that he is thinking of me and be romantic as always. So I got overwhelmed with all his attentions so I started testing him how he would react if I cry for stupid things and sometimes when he said things I don’t like I don’t argue I just don’t message or not even call him, so he didn’t like it because he told me that I’m always busy for him but as a hard headed and perfectionist Capricorn we tend to push people away to see if they are strongly fit for us.Anyways, a week ago he was very busy at work and we live 6hrs away but he travels every week back and forth from his place to his job and I live in the middle so it’s convenient for us to see when possible. A week ago his job became so stressful and it got to the point that he became depressed and started to quit, but I wanted to be there for him in bad times but he shut me off and actually he ended things between us because he said he is dealing too much but I was messaging him every day not a clingy way just letting him know that I am his side if ever he needs someone to talk to, but he shut me off and I was so hurt and told him it’s okay that he needs to be alone but for pushing me away is not good because I feel as if I am not important. So , for a week I was very calm and was be there for him until I said to myself well ‘f’ this, I am a Capricorn and I won’t take this bs because we all going through a very difficult situation in life but it would be nice that someone acknowledged us that they’re willing to stand by our side. He became distant but still reply but I noticed when I didn’t text him for two days, when I texted him he reply right away and in most of my messages than a week ago.

      A week ago, I wanted to be there for him but when he shut me off that’s when I realized I don’t need a man doing that to me, so I started being back to Capricorn detached and cold and busy. I am very logic and I have to admit that I always think I was born alone and by myself so why I need someone like that ? I always think if ever I want to be with someone he should be more stronger than I am, emotionally. I have so many suitors lined up but I chose to give my attention to him but now he’s testing then it’s time for me to walk away. Once a Capricorn ends things it would be so hard to other people to wishy washy them because they’re unemotional human beings, lol . I am not emotional person but I test every man I have dated with.

      So to all ladies, fight for the love you have by moving on with your life. See , when a man truly loves you he will come back stronger and willing to work things out with you with apology. I always do a lot of things alone so I always get distracted to texts people. I think we all have to work our own insecurities to be more open up and don’t be shame to admit you love them though but he they shut you off because of that ‘leave’ or walk away without explaining anything. As a matured woman, you take risk by admitting how you feel and letting go of it at the same time.

      Whatever you do though, always approach your life with toughness in your heart and guard your mind and heart. Don’t expect too much from other people because that creates a lot of drama and problems. I always believe that God has purpose and I always believe in HIM before anyone else.Believe what’s in your mind and heart and sometimes you have to separate your mind from your heart when making decisions.

  5. Hi ladies,

    did anyone successful gotten back with gemini-cancer cusp man after some time?

    I wasn’t actually in a relationship with him, but we chatted for 5 months (it almost felt like a relationship), but we haven’t met because of the distance and Covid. And towards the end our relationship, it gotten very complicated because we wouldn’t want to compromise to each other needs because we weren’t in a committed relationship.

    Eventually we decided to just be friends but on our last conversation things didn’t really end nice. Should I initiate back a conversation in hope to be friends again and more or should I let him come back on his own, which I heard usually Gemini man wouldn’t come back at all. But he is a gemini-cancer cusp, so I’m hoping that his heart would soften and get back to me again after some time.

    1. Hi L.!

      Gemini can and will come back if they think it’s worth it. If they really truly care for someone, they will give it another chance but only if they know that it will actually be different this time. Cancer cusp can bring his emotional side out more for sure. I tell you what though, you really should check out my books on Gemini Man Secrets. I actually do have a book that helps get a Gemini man back. I’ll leave it up to you but thank you for reading!

  6. So i did repetitive breakups with my Gemini man and i am an aries
    It was mostly because i wanted to focus on my career i m 18 so is he,
    He finds me suffocating, he needs freedom, no restrictions, which i didnt pose intentionally we were in since 2015 and ended it in 2021 May
    I really love him, really want him back, i assured him that ill understand, respect his space, freedom but he is just stubborn about his decision he just said he is done and he is never ever coming back to me
    He said he never wants to come back to that space ever
    I asked him if he still loves me he said yes just that he doesn’t want to come back in a relationship with me

    Any help which i can receive?
    I love my gem❤️ and i can do anything for him

    1. Hi Sara!

      It would seem that he’s been hurt again and again by the on and off relationship. He’s untrusting now and isn’t sure whether or not this would happen again and so he’s reluctant to take that chance. He probably does love you but he doesn’t want to go backwards now that you’ve both proven more than once that it doesn’t work well between you. If you want him back, you’re going to have to work for it. You can find out all about it in my books on Gemini Man Secrets!

    2. Unfortunately Sarah, when you say to anyone not just Gemini you want to break up, focus on your career, explore, And you did it not just once but repeated this over and over again. You’ve hurt him, traumatised him and he doesn’t ever want to be in relationship with you again even when he has feelings for you. He doesn’t want to go through that again with you and he doesn’t trust you. Once is enough but breaking up with Gemini again pushes them far away from you to ever get back together.

      1. Hi carlos!

        Thank you for chiming in. I’m assuming you are a Gemini man yourself. Repeating cycles is definitely a hard thing for a Gemini and most other signs actually. When there is repeatability with hurt or problems, it does make a person close off to the other person. That’s not even just for Gemini alone. That kind of hurt is hard to recover from. Again, thank you for your input carlos! I wish you the best.

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