Have you recently had a break up with a Gemini man and now feel lost without him? How to get a Gemini man back after things have ended between you? Here are some things that may help you to work at getting him back into your life (if he’s willing to).
The first thing to keep in mind; is a Gemini man isn’t good at dealing with emotions. If you try to talk to him while you’re emotional; he won’t respond kindly.
To really discuss things with him; you’re going to have to somewhat detach your emotions from the situation at hand. Talk to him with logic and reason. That’s the language he gets.
He isn’t into drama or into women that cannot control how they feel. You start crying while trying to explain yourself; he’ll shut down. He just cannot cope with things like this.
You’re going to have to learn how to handle your emotions in a more productive way in order to be around or get a Gemini man back. In reality; if he broke it off because you were too emotional; this is all the more reason to stabilize.
You don’t need to be a hard ass or closed off. Just learn to communicate without having to be emotionally charged. Learn some techniques that will help you to open up without seeming needy.
You can try techniques such as yoga or meditation. They could help you ground and center yourself so that you can calmly discuss things on a mature level that he will respond well to.
Learn to Break out of Routine
One of the things that make a Gemini man re-think his relationships is whether or not there is a routine there. He isn’t into routine whatsoever, he wants a woman that can go with the flow.
He himself gets bored with any sort of routine thus his need for constant stimulation and excitement. That’s why he surrounds himself with projects and/or work. It keeps his mind busy.
When it comes to relationships; he tries to be the same way. He wants you to do things differently sometimes. Giving him lots of free time will help ease the burden of you keeping him stimulated as well.
Let him be free to do the things he loves to do. You going out with your friends and doing your own thing will make him feel he’s still in charge of himself which provides stimulation he loves.
If you’re used to spending every single night with him; change it up. Go spend the night at a friend’s house or at your own home should you live separately. If you live together; go stay at your family’s place or take a weekend getaway alone.
It’ll change things up and he’ll be thrilled with not knowing what to expect from you from one night to the next. That’s what he’s looking for.
Keep Your Spirits Up
Part of not being emotional means you will need to keep yourself upbeat and peppy. If he sees you drowning yourself in sorrow while you’re apart; he’ll see this as a red flag and not something he wants.
Take care of yourself and do things that you really love. Do things that lift you up and make you feel like a million bucks. Watching you shine will turn him on and make him want to be part of your world.
Typically after a breakup; a Gemini man will still remain in contact as long as it wasn’t a really nasty ending. This gives you the opportunity to show him that you’ve been working on yourself and are much more capable now.
Seeing you glow with happiness will make him happy. It will draw his attention to you and make him want to see what it is that you’re doing that made you change so dramatically.
Naturally, this leads to talking to you, asking you out, and trying to start anew. He won’t want to go backward and “try again” as he’d rather start fresh and see where things can go.
By taking care of yourself; you ultimately win either way. Whether he comes back or not; you’ll be on top of the world and on top of your life. Give it a shot! He may just surprise you.
Be Confident and Independent
Gemini men love women who can hold their own and make lives of their own whether he’s around or not. To make it work with him or to get him back; you’re going to have to show him you don’t NEED him.
You’ll much easier lure him in when he sees that you’re taking care of your own life, spending time with your own friends, and making the most of out what the world has to offer.
This is much more of a turn on for him than a woman who wants to cling to him. He’s terrified of routine and of a woman who needs him so much he cannot breathe.
He wants to feel free within the relationship he’s in. The only way to do that is by making sure that you keep yourself busy and you aren’t in need of being attached at the hip with him.
Give him space to breathe and he’ll be happy to help you in any way that he can. Make sure he understands that you’re going to make it with or without him but you’d like him to stick around.
This may be what saves what you have left with him. Gemini only walks away completely if he’s sure that you’re not ever going to change. He’ll walk away from any form of abuse as well.
If you constantly nag him or give him a hard time about the things he wants to do; he’ll split. He isn’t into being controlled by anyone. He’s a very free spirit and will want to keep it at all costs.
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