How To Deal With A Gemini Man After A Fight

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
If you’re sick of bickering or all-out warring with your Gemini and wondering how to deal with a Gemini man after a fight, you are in the right place.

Fighting with a Gemini man can feel a little heartbreaking at times, especially because their quick wit and sharp tongue can make arguments quite intense. This can make you feel confused about how to deal with a Gemini man after a fight.

The things a Gemini man can say can burn quite badly, leaving you feeling hurt and frustrated. The key to dealing with a Gemini man after a fight is to approach him with patience, open communication, and a willingness to compromise.

Remember that Gemini men are known for their dual nature, and their emotions can change rapidly. This can make it difficult to understand what kind of mood he will be in and how to approach him in a way that will lead to resolution and healing.

If you have just had a fight with a Gemini man, then this is probably a necessary article you need to read. Keep on scrolling to find out everything you need to reach reconciliation with your Gemini man.

Arguing With A Gemini Man — Why Do Geminis Like To Argue?

The most important thing you need to understand about a Gemini man is that the ruler of his sign is Mercury. The planet of communication and intellect. Mercury’s influence on Gemini makes them naturally inclined to engage in intellectual debates and discussions. No wonder Gemini men like to argue, wouldn’t you say?

Their love for arguing stems from their desire to explore different perspectives, challenge ideas, and stimulate their intellectual curiosity. Therefore, arguing with a Gemini man might not always be a negative thing. It can actually be an opportunity for growth, learning, and deeper understanding in your relationship.

However, for some personalities like those of you who are Water or Earth signs this kind of back and forth can become very exhausting. If you can understand that arguing and mental gymnastics are part of a Gemini man’s makeup, it can help you approach the situation with more empathy and patience. And perhaps indulge him on an occasion or two.

How To Deal With A Gemini Man After A Fight — 5 Steps To Take

Stay Calm And Collected

When dealing with a Gemini man after a fight, it is important to stay calm and collected. Getting angry or confrontational will only escalate the situation and make it harder to resolve the conflict. So it is imperative that you stay calm.

Try to approach the argument in a rational and logical manner, as Geminis respond well to reason and intellectual discussions. Try not to get over emotional as your Gemini man will only shut down further and become even more resistant to resolving the issue.

Give Him Space and Time

After a fight with a Gemini man, it is important to give them space and time. Gemini men value their freedom and independence, so allowing them some time away to process their thoughts and emotions can be beneficial. 

This will give him the opportunity to reflect on their actions and thoughts, and it also shows that you respect their need for personal space. Try not to overcrowd him and push him to be over the situation. He is quick to adapt and move on, just give him the chance to do this.

RelatedWhat Does It Mean When A Gemini Man Says He Needs Space?

Communicate Openly And Honestly

In order to resolve the conflict with a Gemini man, it is essential to communicate openly and honestly. Share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns without holding anything back. A Gemini man will always prefer communication that is direct and to the point. 

If you can be honest and transparent about your perspective without attacking or blaming him, it will help in finding a resolution and he is less likely to shut down and distant. Always try to take the high road and forget about blaming.

You may also want to readHow To Handle A Gemini Man Mood Swings

Take Responsibility For Your Actions

Taking responsibility for your actions is crucial when dealing with a Gemini man after a fight. Acknowledge where you may have contributed to the disagreement and apologize if necessary. This shows maturity and willingness to work towards a resolution. 

You don’t want to place all of the blame on him, as that will likely only cause him to further withdraw and become defensive. It is important to take responsibility for what you believe you did wrong in the argument. 

Allow Him To Set The Pace

Allowing a Gemini man to set the pace is important after a fight. Gemini men appreciate autonomy and the ability to make their own decisions. It might be worth it for you to just go with the flow and let him set the pace.  

By giving your Gemini man the space and freedom to decide when he is ready to address the issue or talk, you are respecting his need for independence. It is important to go with the flow and not push the situation too hard as this will only chase him away.

If you’re struggling with how to get your Gemini man to let his guard down and open up to you, I strongly recommend checking out my Gemini Man Heart Opener Guide… It will allow you to peek into his deepest secrets… and get to know him better than anyone ever has.

How To Make Up With A Gemini Man After A Fight

Making up with a Gemini man after a fight requires patience, open communication, and understanding of his need for space and independence. He can be quite a complicated person to get into an argument with because he is so fickle, but he is extremely cerebral and has a way with words which can make you easily feel like the weaker link in the situation.

However, in order to make up with a Gemini man after a fight, you need to dive deeper into understanding his complexities. It’s not just about acknowledging his cerebral nature or feeling like the weaker link; it’s about recognizing the intricate layers that make up his personality.

Take the time to really listen to what he’s saying and try to understand his point of view. Gemini men are known for their quick thinking and ability to see multiple perspectives, so engaging in a meaningful conversation with him can lead to a deeper connection and resolution.

Furthermore, it’s important to address the underlying emotions that may have led to the fight. Gemini men are often influenced by their emotions, even if they don’t always show it. They aren’t always all heads, they have hearts too.

How Does A Gemini Man Act When He’s Hurt?

When a Gemini man is hurt, it can be quite intense. He is likely to get into a heated argument with you or become completely withdrawn or distant. He might even decide to throw in the towel completely regarding the relationship and just give it all up.

He has a lot of mental power and has no problem showing off his intellect once he gets into an argument. However, it is important to realize that Gemini men are pretty adaptable and they will quickly move on from the argument. He doesn’t work himself up too much over little things as he gets quite bored with drama.

But beneath their adaptability and quick recovery, Gemini men can still feel hurt deeply. It is important to understand that their intellectual prowess often serves as a defense mechanism, masking their vulnerability.

When a Gemini man is hurt, he may retreat into his own thoughts and emotions, becoming introspective and reflective. In order to address the hurt and make amends, it is crucial to approach him with empathy and understanding.

Take the time to validate his feelings and acknowledge the impact of your actions. Instead of getting caught up in the intellectual back-and-forth, create a safe space where he feels comfortable expressing his emotions.

Is your Gemini pulling away? Here’s what to do when a Gemini man pulls away.

Will A Gemini Man Fight For You?

Have you ever had an argument with a Gemini man and wondered if he would fight for you? I can understand why you would think about this because Gemini men are quite fickle and indecisive. 

You might think that he won’t fight for you, and then he does. The answer to this question definitely depends on the individual Gemini man and how he is on his journey and maturity levels.

Some Gemini men may indeed fight for you, despite their fickle nature. It all depends on how invested they are in the relationship and how much they value you. While they may enjoy intellectual arguments, when it comes to matters of the heart, a Gemini man can surprise you with his commitment and loyalty.

However, it is important to remember that Gemini men are known for their dual nature, which means they can also easily walk away from a heated argument or debate. Their ability to detach themselves emotionally from situations can be both a blessing and a curse.

Read next: When A Gemini Man Is Done With You (9 Obvious Signs)

If You Listen To Dating Coaches, You Can Lose Your Gemini Man Forever…

Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Gemini man. And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.


Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Gemini.

You see, Gemini men are VERY different than men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with a Gemini, it can backfire.

He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.

I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…

So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.

These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.

So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.

Because your wonderful Gemini is NOT like other men… at ALL.

Click here and find out the specific things your Gemini man needs to hear to melt his heart.



About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

4 thoughts on “How To Deal With A Gemini Man After A Fight

  1. Hi…. yeah so I’m definitely confused and floored by this… my Gemini is all of the above. I am a Sagittarius woman, very laid back, my kryptonite is loss of freedom or chained to a schedule and my idea of perfection is travel, explore and more travel! BUT!… I am a HUGE believer in taking responsibility for your own shit! We’re all human, no one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes and every now and then when you make a mistake or screw up you should own it. I think if you do something that hurts or disrespects another person, you don’t get to say that you didn’t do it or that it didn’t happen or the other person’s feelings aren’t valid simply because you’re a Gemini or a Scorpio or whatever other sign. That’s not only an excuse, that just make a person an immature asshole, no? Or am I way off base here?
    I’m not trying to be rude or anything I’m just truthfully trying to understand

    1. I totally get you, we can be free and still take responsibility over our actions. I’m a Capricorn Gem Moon, my Gemini man is free and keeps coming back for more. He’s very perceptive and a master of words, but I no longer allow him to excuse his shit! He has more respect for me as a result

  2. ANNA K. you are amazing. everything you have written here is the true personality of my Gemini man. I now understand him better. I am a sag woman and we have had some rocky moments because of my failure to look inside myself for happiness and not ask him for more validation and commitment. thank you.

  3. Hi,

    I need a help with my Gemini man!I am a libra woman..we rarely have arguments but this one just knocked me off and don’t know what to do….we had a little arguments on the phone and after arguments we both stayed too proud to talk…I took it as an advantage and spent 2 weeks doing my own stuff….after 2 weeks I texted him and he was horrible upset at me how could I be without him for 2 weeks….I am apologising almost a week and sent him apologise gift but nothing is working…can this really hurt a Gemini man that much??he started thinking about break up…..he doesn’t wanna meet up and talk….and I don’t know what to do…don’t wanna loose him but all this situation is just frustrating me soo much….I gave him space for few days it didn’t work…..what should I do??please help me xxx Shania xxx

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