Infidelity. No other word sounds more like “nail in a coffin” when it comes to relationships. Any sign is capable of cheating, but some signs stand out as being more likely to fall into this dark pattern. So, are Gemini men loyal? Or do Gemini men cheat in relationships?
When talking about the signs most likely to cheat, you may find that Gemini men often come up in the conversation. Their lack of focus and obsession with novelty often get them into trouble!
If you’re dating a Gemini man, you might now be feeling anxious. Don’t worry! There are a few ways that you can tell if your guy’s Gemini eyes are wandering. I will share tricks on how to catch a Gemini cheating.
Using astrology, we can get a sense of how a disloyal Gemini acts when he isn’t coming forward with all the information about a Gemini man cheating. Read on for the full rundown of all the signs!
Are Gemini Men Loyal? Or Do They Cheat?
There are plenty of articles on the internet as well as books that say that Gemini men are cheaters or players. The truth is, not all of them are, so that is probably an unfair assessment. But are Gemini men faithful? Most of them are.
The truth is, no sun sign alone is enough to judge whether or not someone is or could be the unfaithful type. There are lots of factors that play into the makeup of who someone is.
There are reasons why Gemini men are pegged as cheaters, however. I’m about to divulge some very important information that may help you figure out whether the Gemini man is someone you want to move on from.
The choice is always in your hands, and it’s up to you to decide whether or not YOUR Gemini guy is the type that will have the wandering eye or if he’ll be the type to stick with you.
Remember, success is more prevalent when you get to know someone fully before diving into a serious relationship with them. Are Gemini men cheaters? Perhaps you should read a bit more to help you.
And if you want to learn more about a Gemini man’s love language, check it out here <<
How To Catch A Gemini Cheating? (All About Gemini Man Cheating Signs)
1. He Can’t Focus On You
To be fair to Geminis, they can have a hard time focusing on a good day. Despite this, you know how your man acts in your relationship, and if he is focusing on you less than usual, it’s time to pay attention.
If he seems distracted when he’s with you but isn’t verbalizing what he’s thinking about, then it means his focus is likely elsewhere.
This by itself isn’t a firm indication of infidelity, but it’s enough to turn on your internal alert system. Follow that feeling and open your eyes to what else is going on with him.
It’s a good time to ask if he’s okay in general because I do believe in assuming the best of your significant other unless you’re given a reason not to. Make sure his ducks are in a row before you assume the worst!
This may just be a great opportunity for you to be an extra pillar of support.
2. They Talk About Someone A Lot… Then Stop
Geminis, being so eager to share their experience of the world with their partner, will be telling you all about their time at work, the gym, or otherwise. They’ll be naming names and getting specific the whole time because that’s just their MO.
When they’re talking a lot about someone, it means that at the time there is nothing to hide about that person, and so they speak freely. It’s when they stop talking about that person altogether, with no indication that they got into a fight or stopped being friends, that it becomes a red flag.
If they had words, a Gemini would be the first to tell you that’s why they’re not talking. They love to dish!
But when a Gemini cuts off all mention of them without reason, they start to get nosy. It could mean that that person is now involved with the Gemini in ways they feel the need to keep quiet, and that’s a HUGE red flag.
3. He’s Sparse With Communication
The Gemini man is nothing if not the most talkative person of the Zodiac. He narrates life as it happens and passes the information on to others. He really is the connector figure of the Zodiac, spilling the tea on anyone and everyone who will listen!
So, when the most talkative sign of the Zodiac clams up, you know something is up. and it’s not good. And the next question is, who is he talking to instead?
A Gemini man who lives on his phone is normal, but when he lives on his phone without texting you, facetiming, or calling as much, then it is reason to wonder who else he is doing those things with.
You may also want to read: What To Do When Gemini Man Ignores Your Text
4. He Doesn’t Say Who He’s Hanging Out With
A Gemini is not one you’d call a loner. They are most comfortable when they have someone around them all the time, 24/7. A Gemini just can’t exist well in the context of solitude!
If they’re dating you, they will typically be happy that they have a person who is socially obligated to hang out with them. This is what brings Geminis peace in a relationship—knowing that being in a relationship means they won’t be alone.
But how do you tell if a Gemini man is cheating? Well, when a Gemini man stops being clingy with you and starts to stay out later, lies about going to work, or starts leaving the house for random reasons without asking you to go, it’s a good sign that he is probably hanging out with someone else.
What does this mean? Well, a Gemini isn’t that good at keeping secrets. So, if they’re tight-lipped about who they’re hanging out with, then you can bet that he is with someone that you don’t care for.
5. He Gaslights You When You Ask
Your Gemini guy isn’t talking to you like he used to, and you have no idea who he’s spending hours away from home with, so you mention your concerns to him. Pay attention to how he responds.
Geminis are very good at wordplay, and part of that can be knowing how to turn words around and reframe situations to benefit them. They can be so good at it that you come out looking like the bad guy for having concerns!
If he attempts to make you look bad rather than being forward about where he’s been, then you know that your original concerns were close to the truth.
A Gemini in a panic can spin a situation to look like it was always you who was the crazy one. Don’t let him get away with this! Call that Gemini out when his evil twin starts talking!
Can A Gemini Man Be Faithful, Or Is He Always Going To Cheat?
Geminis are fickle creatures as a whole, and this can make staying loyal in relationships a real challenge for a Gemini man. But not all Geminis will cheat, there are concrete ways to know if they have something to hide.
So, it depends on your guy in particular, what types of moods he’s in, and if he’s really in love with you or not. However, can a Gemini man be faithful? The good news is, yes, he totally can if everything is done correctly.
When you remember the inherent nature of Gemini, it informs how we know when they’re going against it. You’ll see them seize up their communication and fulfill their social needs elsewhere, and you may even catch a glimpse of his shadow side when you bring any of this up.
Paying attention to their communication patterns about specific people may also be of assistance in ensuring or confirming your fears.
You may also want to read: Will A Gemini Man Leave His Wife For You? (7 Hopeful Signs)
How To Deal With A Cheating Gemini Man
If you suspect that your Gemini man is cheating, ask him if something has happened that has made him quiet down. Pay attention to the answer and use your discretion to decide if it’s a legitimate reason for him to be distracted or not.
Ask him why the communication has decreased so dramatically and watch his reaction. If he is vague with his answer or he just cites reasons that you know he would never normally be affected by, it’s time to wonder what he’s hiding.
You need to establish what is going on between you. If you do not, he will definitely step out on you and find someone else. Here’s more on how to get a Gemini man to open up and share his true feelings with you.
Try to find new and interesting projects or activities that you can try as a couple. He’ll really dig any suggestions you have if it sounds like lots of fun. This is also especially true in the bedroom.
If you expect things to work with your Gemini man, you have to absolutely make sure that you’re on a level with each other at all times. If you do not, he will be more likely to cheat or possibly leave.
What Happens When You Cheat On A Gemini Man
If you cheat on a Gemini man, he will disappear and avoid contact with you. He will feel jealous.
A Gemini man usually has a hard time making up his mind, so there is still a chance that he will be open to reconnecting. If you want to get him back with a Gemini man after cheating, you should first apologize and own up to your mistakes.
If he doesn’t want to talk to you, give him space. Be honest and show him that you are committed to making the relationship work this time. Avoid making him jealous, and just give him time to reflect on this situation.
No More Sleepless Nights About Your Gemini Man…
It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Gemini man who won’t commit. I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Gemini guys.
I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her. She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.
As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that. But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him.
Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.
How could she just give up on that?
But it wasn’t easy. It took a LOT of work. She had to learn how to speak a different language…
And it worked!!
So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Gemini man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…