The Gemini man texting style can definitely be erratic and all over the place. One minute he is super hot, always texting and the next he is quiet as a mouse. This is what Gemini men are like, definitely not the most consistent in the Zodiac.
When a Gemini man never initiates contact, it is usually a sign that they aren’t that interested or excited about the connection any longer. These guys are the definition of ADHD and are always on the lookout for the next best and most exciting thing.
It often isn’t very personal, they are just very changeable by nature. This might be the reason why your Gemini man takes forever to respond to you. If he isn’t talking to you, he is either talking to someone else or is occupied with something he sees as more interesting.
Has this ever happened to you with a Gemini man? Is this currently happening to you with a Gemini man? I am so sorry! Keep on reading to find out more about why a Gemini man never initiates contact and how to fix this!
Gemini Man Texting Style — Basics
Gemini men are the communicators of the Zodiac! These guys just love talking and sharing ideas with basically anyone who cares to listen. It is very important for these men to have strong communication with the people in their lives.
This is why Gemini men can actually be really intense when they are texting you. They are the type to send walls and walls of text messages, it can be pretty full on and overwhelming at times, trust me, I know, I am a Gemini and I love communicating!
Geminis will text you about anything and everything. They love sharing their ideas and sending jokes and memes, but they also like having discussions about pretty much anything. They are very cerebral and enjoy mental stimulation through conversation and texting.
However, when a Gemini man gets bored by the conversation, they will pretty much just move on and start texting someone else. It can go from 0 to 100 in a second with these guys. That’s why you might find it kind of jarring when they just go silent without any warning.
And Geminis can go hot and then cold, and then hot again. You never quite know what to expect with these guys. In fact, expect the unexpected!
4 Possible Reasons Why A Gemini Man Never Initiates Contact But Always Replies
1. He Is Losing Interest
Gemini men are not a commitment type of guys; not to say they won’t; but rather more that they avoid it until they’re sure. That being said; he will flirt a whole heck of a lot. When a Gemini man likes someone; he will be thick with it at times.
This sets the scene up for making you think he’ll always be that way. The truth is though; they don’t stay that way. Once the novelty or excitement fades; he starts to get bored with it and he stops doing it as much.
He’ll still keep in contact via call or text but he won’t be as excited as he once was. Unless you find topics of conversation that are exciting that haven’t been discussed before; he’s likely to keep it short and sweet with you.
This is typical Gemini behaviour. The only way to keep the excitement alive in a relationship with him is going to be to come up with unexplored topics of conversation or plans for activities.
2. Gemini Man Too Busy For Me
What you need to understand about this guy is that he’s always busy. He may not physically be but he is mentally busy. This means that he always has something or multiple things going on in his brain.
This will make him prioritize and try to handle things are they come. That’s not to say he isn’t thinking of you but again; unless you’re serious together; he’s thinking that his problems or projects are probably more important at the time.
He is the type of guy who has many irons in the fire and is always trying to study things he’s passionate about. Sometimes he starts projects that he’s passionate about and then doesn’t finish them.
Sadly; he can be this way with relationships also. He may start one up too quickly and realize that it’s not really good for him at that time or that the person he chose wasn’t right so he’ll back out.
Just keep in mind that there is never NOTHING going on in his head. He’s highly analytical and very intellectual. He is literally ALWAYS thinking. Many Gemini men suffer from anxiety as well as insomnia if they are not careful.
You may also want to read: What Does It Mean When A Gemini Man Says He Needs Space?
3. He Has A Lot Going On In His Life
If you aren’t in a serious relationship with your Gemini guy; he doesn’t feel like he is obligated to respond to you as quickly or every time you reach out. This is one of the reasons Gemini men take awhile to commit.
He isn’t in any hurry to be in a relationship with anyone. He doesn’t want to answer to anyone and appreciates his personal space.
So if you’ve just met him or you’re dating him (not serious); he may not be as on top of communications as you are or would like him to be. If you are new with him; having an expectation may be disappointing for you.
If you ARE in a serious relationship; you probably already know that your Gemini guy’s brain is often scattered as he has a million and one things on in his mind which makes him forget things.
He has his hand in many projects or ideas thus creating no space in his brain to worry about small things. I’m not saying he thinks you’re small but in the grand scheme of things, he knows he’ll get back to you when he can.
If you are understanding of him and love him; this is one of those things you’ll accept about him. Unconditional love is the only way you can fully enjoy being in a serious relationship with a Gemini man.
4. He Thinks You Are Needy And Clingy
Well, if you are the type of woman that needs to have constant validation; you’re not the right one for him anyway. He needs a woman who is self-confident, independent and doesn’t hang on to his every call or text.
If you truly understand where a Gemini man is coming from; you’ll get that he’s often busy in his head and this can cause him to be forgetful or space things off entirely.
If he isn’t texting you back or returning your calls at a time that you’d really like him to; relax!! It’s not the end all be all if he doesn’t respond immediately.
Gemini men are always busy. It may frustrate you when you want to hear from him but don’t. However; if you keep it light and fun, and leave off the expectation; you’ll find that when you do get a text or call; it will be QUALITY.
So you need to decide if you want quantity or quality. He’s willing to give you quality but I’ve yet to meet a Gemini man that wants to be in constant contact with his lady. He’s a busy guy.
If you need to have answers right away; you may seek out a man who is more open to having more contact such as Cancer or Pisces. Gemini is too all over the place…
Here’s more on what a Gemini man likes and dislikes in a woman.
A Gemini Man Says He Likes Me, But He Doesn’t Text First — Is He Playing With Me?
Unfortunately, Gemini men aren’t the most consistent, and they are definitely not always relationship material. They tend to be all over the place and have a hard time with commitment. It doesn’t help that they are so charming and can easily make a woman fall in love with them. A Gemini man giving mixed signals is very common!
I actually think as a general rule, it would be better for you to just expect that a Gemini man is playing you, point blank. This way it will be less likely for you to get hurt because you know what to expect of him.
He knows all the right things to say to get you to fall for him, but more often than not, a Gemini man is charming his way through life and uninterested in pursuing a serious relationship. And if he is, you won’t have any doubts about him!
Should I Text A Gemini Man First?
If you keep texting and calling despite his not responding; you’re going to look as though you’re becoming co-dependent on him and this is something he will avoid like the plague.
The best way to keep a Gemini man interested is to send one or two simple texts to say hello and tell him to have a good day or to send him a flirt. If he doesn’t respond; leave it alone and go about your business.
It’s important you really understand this guy before you get yourself entangled with a Gemini man. He will text you if he wants to, you don’t need to do all the groundwork for him.
Will a Gemini man make the first move? Yes, if you actually let him come to you first.
If you are still confused as to when and if you should text a Gemini man, I have just the right thing to help you out. Take my quiz “Should I Text a Gemini Man First“ and you will get the answer now…
If A Gemini Man Never Initiates Contact, Should I Just Stop Texting Him?
If a Gemini man is never texting you first, you need to start to wonder why. Is he even interested in you in the first place? If he was really interested in you then surely he would be dying to speak to you.
This is why I think you should stop texting him first, and see if he actually recognises that you have gone silent. It isn’t right that you are the one always making the move, and he just gets to enjoy it.
I bet you are unhappy with this, you need to put your foot down! If you never hear from him again, is it really a loss for you? At least you will know how he feels about you and you can stop wasting your time on him.
Stop texting him first, and see what happens!
If Your Gemini Man Never Initiates Contact, DON’T Do This…
I’ve heard from so many of my clients that their Gemini man is AMAZING when they are in person with him… So charming, sweet, funny, and really connected!
But he can tend to pull away when you’re not with him.
It’s a super frustrating situation for any woman. And if you are like my other clients who have been through this, you’re probably feeling REALLY confused.
“Why is he so hot and cold through text?”
“Why does he back off when we aren’t together?”
And most importantly…
“What can I DO about this?”
First, I want to share the things you definitely should NOT do in this situation…
- Don’t get clingy or needy and ask him if something is wrong or beg to see him
- Don’t force closure if you’ve had some conflict. Wait until you can talk in person about important issues. Text can EASILY lead to miscommunication.
- Don’t assume that there IS a problem. He could just be really busy.
- Don’t get upset with him or freak out. This will only push him away.
- Don’t ignore him so he can “see what it feels like.”
So what SHOULD you do instead?
- Take some time out to reflect on the situation and consider logical reasons for his actions.
- Give him space and time with zero pressure. He might be overwhelmed with work or not be feeling well.
- Focus on your own life. If you don’t have an epic life filled with hobbies and time with friends or family, you need to build that.
Text can be challenging, and I don’t want you to feel alone in this. I don’t want you to lie in bed unable to sleep because you are worried about why your Gemini man is pulling away.
And there is no need for you to do that.
Especially when I can guide you on how to deeply connect with his heart through text messages…
Because when you know SPECIFICALLY what to text him based on his astrology…
He WON’T be pulling away anymore. And you’ll never again have to worry about what to say to your lovely Gemini man through text anymore.