As the Twins of the Zodiac, Gemini guys really do have two sides! They can be intense and romantic one moment, yet fickle and non-committal the next. They also don’t respond well to pressure, so how can you let a Gemini man know you’re into him—without driving him away?
Gemini men blow hot and cold, and it can be tough for any girl to pin him down and capture his interest! Of course, that makes it much harder to show him your interest without worrying that you’ll push him away.
Gemini men are notoriously afraid of commitment—at least in the beginning. When they warm up, however, they are some of the most romantic and lovely companions to have!
It’s a risk to show him your interest if you’re not sure how he feels. Here’s a handy list of signs he’s into you, and then we’ll explore some ways to show him you’re keen—without seeming pushy or pressuring.
How Do You Know If He’s Interested?
Here are some surefire signs that this Gemini man wants you just as much as you want him:
He Talks to You—All the Time
These are some talkative guys, as you probably know! But if a Gemini man is making you his go-to girl for chats, face to face or via text, you know that he really is into you.
In fact, he may not be able to stop talking to you about every little thing—so enjoy every moment!
He Wants to Hang Out With You
Gemini men are social butterflies, and on top of that, they have about a million hobbies!
If he’s making you his number-one hangout partner and wants to spend all of his time with you, that’s no small thing. He’s into you!
He Wants to Learn Everything About You
These are curious cats! Gemini men love learning, and when they’re sweet on you, you will be their topic of interest.
Your guy will want to know how you grew up, what your favorite color is, which bands you follow, and what you love about your job. There’s no stone he’ll leave unturned!
He Will Tell You!
This man’s love language is verbal affirmation—did you know that? A Gemini man won’t be shy about letting you know verbally that he thinks you’re amazing.
He may not be saying the L-word yet, but he’ll compliment you and tell you all the things he appreciates about you. He’ll often do it via text, so watch for those innuendos and emoticons!
So now that you know he’s just as interested, check out my top five ways to let him know that you want him, too!
5 Ways to Show a Gemini Man You’re Interested (Without Pushing Him Away)
1. Keep Up Conversations—Face to Face or Online
For a Gemini man, talking is intimacy. The more you speak, the closer he’s going to feel to you. He’s not about the touchy-feely game; he’s about the mental connection.
When you make communication your number-one love, he’ll be all yours. And the best thing about this is that it will never push him away! Sharing your ideas, thoughts, and opinions with him will make him that much more interested in you.
However, you’ve got to be smart with your words. It’s not about sending him romantic poetry or declarations of your feelings. It’s about simple, straightforward, stimulating, and fun conversation!
Gemini men love smart women. So go ahead, show him your brains—it’s far sexier to him than a short skirt!
2. Be His Best Friend
You don’t need to turn the seduction on high to let a Gemini guy know you’re interested. You just have to be friendly.
That doesn’t mean you can’t be flirty—in fact, you should throw your entire flirty arsenal at him! He’ll love that you’re charming him as much as he’s charming you. Plus, this will feel fun to him, and fun is what he really, really loves!
But remember, a Twin guy wants to be with a woman who is his best friend first, then his lover.
3. Throw Him Plenty of Sexy Innuendo
Gemini men are subtle. Sometimes you may not even pick up on his banter, sarcasm, or witticisms. Not many can keep up with a Gemini mind!
What you can do is devise some sexy innuendo and wrap it up in flirty word games. When his mind is stimulated, so is his heart—especially when your words get him excited!
Spend some time thinking of wink-wink phrases to let him know that you think he’s sexy—and be as subtle as you can.
Read next: What Attracts A Gemini Man: 7 Things To Pull Him Closer
4. Let Him Figure It Out
You’re interested in a very clever man, and he will never miss a clue or signal. That’s why he likes things to be on the down-low and can be quite elusive.
The more of a mystery you are, the more interested he’ll be—because it’s likely he’s picking up on more of your signals than you think!
You’re like a complex puzzle for him to figure out, which will keep him coming back for more.
It seems counterintuitive to let him figure out that you’re interested, but if you leave enough breadcrumbs for him to follow, he will end up right where you want him! And the bonus is there’s zero pressure—hence, very little chance of scaring him off!
Read next: 7 Signs a Gemini Man Is Falling In Love with You – How to Be Sure
5. Be Curious About Him
He’s curious about you, and he wants to know every little thing that makes you tick.
Do the same for him.
Ask him about himself—then let him talk. Show interest in the details of his life and personality, and let the focus be on him and his interests and thoughts.
You’ll find that he easily chatters away and responds well to questions (careful, though—don’t get too deep and intimate until you’re sure he’s ready).
Keep it light, easy, and breezy. Remember—you’re becoming his BFF first. Romance comes after for Gemini men.
Before you know it, he’ll be putty in your hands, and you’ll have Mr. Commitment at your side.
Be patient, follow his cues, and never try to force him into commitment. He will come to you when he’s ready—especially if you follow my five tips. It will be worth the wait!
Is there a Gemini guy in your life who you’d like to reveal your feelings to? Have you ever had trouble communicating your interest? I’d love to hear from you in the comments! It’s all anonymous!
If you’re wondering whether you and your Gemini are a good match, try out my free and fun compatibility quiz!
Your friend and relationship astrologer,