Nothing is more frustrating than being dumped by a man when you thought things were going well. So how can you prevent this from happening? Astrology can give us valuable insight into Gemini man turn-offs — and how to avoid them!
Do you want to know what turns off a Gemini man? And how you can avoid pushing your Gemini guy away? Or are you looking for reasons why he may have already left you when you thought everything was fine?
Whether you need closure or want to make sure that you give your relationship every chance for success, there are a few things to understand about what pushes a Gemini man away from you.
Every sign has likes and dislikes — especially when it comes to love! Gemini men are often very complex people, and they have plenty of layers to them. That means they have plenty of quirks, too.
You’ve also got to take into account their commitment issues and the fact that they can be quite indecisive about relationships. However, when a Gemini man is ready to commit, he can make a wonderful, loyal, and loving partner.
Still, there are a few of those all-important deal breakers for the Gemini man. So, what turns off a Gemini man? Keep reading to find out.
What Turns Off A Gemini Man?
A Gemini man likes to spend time alone and with his friends, so being overly clingy and possessive is a huge turn off for a Gemini man.
He simply likes to do things his own way, in his own time, and the way he wants them. If anyone is contrary to this, he has no time or space for them in his life. That’s how he is.
To keep him satisfied, you need to give him space, stop flooding his inbox, and give him your attention, but in bits and pieces, not constantly. If you fail to do this, it will turn him off. A lack of appreciation makes a Gemini man blow cold.
Also, a Gemini man is turned off by a lack of intellectual stimulation. He is curious and likes to engage in interesting conversations. If he cannot engage intellectually with his partner, he will slowly lose interest.
Here’s what turns a Gemini man off:
7 Biggest Gemini Man Turn Offs In A Woman
Not Having Freedom
The Gemini man thrives on freedom. This doesn’t mean he wants to be single for the rest of his life. It simply means that he likes having his own personal time to himself or with friends.
The Gemini man likes to do many different things, and he doesn’t want someone to stand in his way and not allow him to do what he really enjoys. This will feel like prison to him.
Gemini men need a partner who will allow them to spend time alone to do their own thing or to be with their friends without worry or jealousy. He wants to feel that if he wants to randomly go for a beer with his buddies, his partner will not put their foot down in protest.
He wants to come and go as he pleases, within reason. If he lives by himself, then he wants to spend time with you when it doesn’t interfere with his projects, work, or personal time.
Though this may sound callous, Gemini men really do love their alone time and will do whatever they have to in order to get it. So if you know this up front, don’t expect him to change because, frankly, he won’t.
If he feels you limit him too much, he will be out the door very quickly. So as long as you are open-minded and allow him to have time to himself, he will appreciate you.
Is your Gemini man hiding his feelings? Here’s what to do <<
Boredom Or Monotony
Gemini does not like to be bored. They will seek out new adventures, new fun, new projects to work on, new jobs, and new relationships if they feel as though things are going stale.
Make sure that you’re open minded as well as spontaneous if you want to win a Gemini man over. If he perceives you as drab, he will walk away.
You have to keep him stimulated within the relationship because, if he perceives boredom, he will find ways to fill the void. Even if leaving is his solution to boredom, he will do it.
Being someone who enjoys doing things at random, you may be able to keep him engaged in the relationship. If you are good at coming up with something out of nothing, he’ll stay interested.
A Gemini man is not a routine type of man. He likes jobs that provide him with excitement and doesn’t mind working overtime because it gives him variety. Some Gemini men have multiple jobs for the same purpose. Even if they are juggling, it’s exciting.
You’ll have to be understanding when he calls you to tell you he’s working late, and maybe you can do something afterward later in the evening.
Disbelief
This man can hold a debate like no one’s business. However, if you decide you disagree with something he finds to be important or true, he may take it personally and come back at you.
Gemini men do not like to feel criticized at all. So if you do even a simple gesture like rolling your eyes at him, he may take it personally. He wants his partner to believe in him and believe in how awesome he is.
He may not really be that awesome but he feels he is and so he wants to be treated as such. The problem is, he can often switch from one mood back to another which can make it terribly confusing at times.
The Gemini man may very well take it personally if you do not believe in what they do. The thing is, it’s hard to tell how serious they are because they joke around A LOT.
If you can figure out when he’s serious and when he’s not then you’re already ahead of the game!
Being Too Emotional
Gemini men are typically not very emotional and do not particularly care for potential partners that are emotionally driven. He will have a hard time with it and just feel awkward.
If you are driven by your emotions then Gemini may not make the best match for you. However, if you know when to control them, you may just make it. Just be aware that he’s the type that doesn’t know how to comfort you when you’re freaking out.
Gemini men can be very cool and aloof. Again, it’s hard to tell what mood they are in or what mood they will be in later or even in 5 minutes! If you are a drama seeker or creator, this man is not for you.
Trust me when I tell you that if you are drama oriented, he will drop you in 2 seconds flat without a second thought. He will try to avoid drama like a plague.
Read next: How To Handle A Gemini Man’s Mood Swings
Predictability
If you are an open book or a creature of habit, this man will lose interest. He likes his partner or potential partner to be a bit mysterious. If he knows everything up front, he’ll become bored very quickly.
Remember he gets bored, he bolts! If you’re normally someone who tells everything there is to know about you up front, you may re-think that when it comes to trying to draw in a Gemini.
It may not be easy but you have to have a bit of mysteriousness and excitement. It’s more interesting for him to figure you out a little at a time.
Also if you are not spontaneous in the least, he may bore easily from this as well. He wants excitement and randomness at all times.
Lack Of Mental Connection
You can be the very best woman there is on the planet — kind, loving, romantic, powerful, and independent — but if there is no intellectual connection, a Gemini man will find it a huge turn-off, often to the point where he won’t be able to be in a relationship with you.
This simply means that you’re on the same wavelength and can talk about anything together. It means you’re someone who can analyze things with him, keep up with his many thoughts, and won’t mind his endless chatter!
If there’s no mental connection, it doesn’t mean he finds you unintelligent. It just means that your minds don’t fit well together. And that’s totally okay!
It may just take a little bit of time before you finally find a way to truly communicate together properly.
Read next: What To Do When A Gemini Man Pulls Away? << find out here
Forcing Commitment Too Soon
On a similar note, if he has commitment issues, he can all too easily run away if you rush him.
Your Gemini man may be the very best of the best. He could be funny, kind, charming, and clever, and you are surely just as lovely. However, it’s one of the biggest turn offs for a Gemini man if you force him too quickly into any kind of commitment.
This makes you come across as needy or pushy, which is a giant red flag for this sign. Instead, give him time and space, and with a bit of patience you’ll see him come around and be the partner you need him to be!
Here’s more on how to get a Gemini man to initiate contact with you <<
What Turns A Gemini Man Off In Bed? His Top 3 Sexual Put Offs
No Excitement In The Bedroom
The Gemini man in general needs stimulation almost constantly in his life. His sex life is no different. He craves pleasure in new and innovative ways. This makes him open to trying new things.
If the excitement is missing, so is his libido. The last thing he wants is “routine” in bed. This will bore him very quickly, and he’d rather not do it at all if that’s all he’s going to get. I’m not saying you have to be in an open relationship, but I’m saying he’s open to it.
If you want some hot and playful moves to excite your Gemini man and drive him crazy in bed, make sure you get my 27 Dirty Phrases For Gemini Man. You’ll thank me later, girl!
Routine In Your Sexlife
If you want to keep him in a relationship with you alone, you had better be prepared to keep the fires burning in intimacy. When he becomes bored, he shuts off and would just rather not bother.
He’d rather go without sex than deal with the same old boring position, time, day, night, and location. So if you’re involved with a Gemini man or want to be, understand that he is high maintenance.
Aggressiveness In Bed
While some men enjoy overly aggressive behavior in the bedroom, this is a huge turn-off for a Gemini man. This is because he wants to take the lead in the bedroom and doesn’t allow himself to be dominated.
A Gemini man likes to watch pleasure in any way that he can. He’ll be up for just about any kinky type of game you want to play. You can do role-playing, wear costumes, or even wear masks. You just may shake up his confidence by displaying your dominance between the sheets.
Is Being Too Available A Turn Off For A Gemini Man?
In order to answer this question, I cannot emphasize enough that a Gemini man is unlike any other man. He is in touch with his mental side, and he is not very emotional.
Gemini men can occasionally need a lot of affection and attention, and other times they are a bit pragmatic and restrained.
You can expect him to change his mind a lot, and I know this could become really exhausting for you. One day he could be infatuated with you, and the next, this feeling starts to fade away, so you’ll never know where you stand with him.
If you are spending too much time with him or if you frequently text or call, note that he can slowly lose interest in you. This is why when a woman is too available, it could be burdensome for your Gemini man.
A Gemini man is independent and wants a woman who values her personal sense of freedom. He wants time apart and even wants you to have friends separate from each other. He won’t mind her unavailability, but he will mind her being needy or clingy.
This is why it is very important to really know and understand your Gemini man, and you need to know when it is the best time to give him some space and let him come to you.
Read next: How To Make A Gemini Man Obsessed With You
Your Gemini Man Will Beg To See You When You Do This…
Want to make your Gemini man go wild with steamy passion and crave your touch? Ready to infuse some spice into your love life and heat things up in the bedroom (or anywhere else)?
Want to get him absolutely addicted to you? Having him aching to see you again? And absolutely dying to hold you in his arms again?
If you happen to be a “good girl” who’s tempted to be just a TINY bit naughty, you need to check this out now <<
So if you are ready to drive your Gemini man wild with passion… Knowing that he will NEVER want to leave you… And never again doubt how much he adores you…
Go here now to see exactly how to turn on your Gemini man in ways you never even knew were possible.
xoxo, Anna
