Are you dating a Gemini man and curious to know what types of problems you may encounter? Here is a list of the most taxing problems that Gemini men are known to have with women when they are dating.
1. His Mood Swings Can Make You Dizzy
Gemini men are known for having dual personalities. It’s all too true that you can wake up to one man one day and then the very next day; you’ve got a different guy entirely.
His moods shift often and you never are really sure where his head is at in any given moment. You’ll never quite know what to expect or if he’ll be in a good mood or a nasty mood.
If you can learn to understand him well enough; you may be able to get comfortable with tell tale signs with him. His Moon sign will definitely dictate how extreme he may be as well.
For the women that are not comfortable not knowing what their man is thinking or what he wants; this could be a rough match. Patience and understanding is needed to make it work with this guy.
2. Acts Like a Big Kid
While at times this can seem harmless and endearing; there are times where it’s not exactly what you probably signed up for. What I mean by this is that Gemini men can act like children when they are angry.
This is a guy that can and will throw a temper tantrum. If you pissed him off in some way; he will react by saying nasty things to you, possibly throwing things, and kicking rocks.
He isn’t good at processing emotions and this is partially why this can happen. The good news is; he doesn’t get mad all that often. He’s laid back most of the time and so unless you push the wrong button; you may be alright.
If he’s hurt; he will give you the silent treatment with the arms crossed; just like a little kid. To avoid seeing these sides of him; just be mindful of what may set him off if you can possibly pull it off.
3. Master of Head Games
Unfortunately the Gemini is known for playing head games with ladies he gets involved with. It’s his way of getting in there, rooting around, and figuring you out as much as he can.
This teaches him how far he can take things with you. It also teaches him what you will allow or not allow. He wants to push the boundaries and see how far he can push you before you snap.
It’s not that he wants to see you angry (actually sometimes he does as it turns him on) but; he ultimately wants to see where your breaking point is. Why? It fascinates him.
Sadly this causes mixed signals with you and the Gemini man. This is what will make you feel confused and uncertain whether or not he is with you or if he’s possibly seeing others.
4. Flaky to Commitment
Gemini men are notorious for dragging relationships out. He isn’t one that likes to commit. He WILL but it takes him a good long while to get there. If he jumps into one too quickly, it typically ends in disaster.
He emotionally isn’t equipped for dealing with other people’s emotions and this makes it hard for him to relate to women. As such, he has to be very careful in who he chooses for a long term mate.
This man will take a very long time before he actually will commit. This frustrates many women who want to create stability and security with him. They don’t know how he feels or if he wants more.
These types of feelings are what he tries to avoid and this is when he gets hot and cold. He’ll come on heavy then back off and be very cold with quickness. He CAN commit but it takes a lot to get him to want it.
5. Needs Constant Stimulus
Gemini men get bored really easily. They have to have almost a constant stream of excitement in order to feel happy. When they get bored, they look for other ways to entertain themselves.
Sadly this is one of the things that Gemini men deal with when they cheat. They get bored with the person they are with and rather than fix the problem; they look elsewhere.
They aren’t the best at confrontation or dealing with try to fix problems with their partner. Instead they close themselves off and move on without letting their partner know.
If you’re dating a Gemini man or plan on it; you’ll need to work at keeping him stimulated intellectually. It’s not just about sex; it’s about keeping the relationship exciting and fresh feeling.
Once he becomes complacent; he’ll become a very unhappy person and thus reflected in his mood. The woman who does get a Gemini man to commit has her work cut out for her.
It IS possible to make it work with one but it will take much effort, commitment of time and energy, as well as always being creative to keep the spark lit between the two of you.
Knowing him is really half the battle. Once you’re able to fully know who he is’ you can better deal with what may come from being with this flighty man. He can be a bit of a flake too.
He changes his mind often and may change plans he has with you in order to do something else. This can either be with or without you. Either way; he doesn’t like to always stay the same.
If you’re ok with a man who you never know what mood he’s going to be in; you may actually make it. A Gemini woman will understand him probably better than anyone.
However; there are other signs that match up well. Click here to find out what his best matches are.
I hope this helps give you a heads up on what you may be getting yourself into with a Gemini man. He has wonderful qualities as well as negative. Focus on the strengths!
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
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