If you’re engaged to a Gemini man—or hope to be soon!—there are some things you probably have yet to learn about your guy. He can be confusing and complicated, but if you know what he’s like, it’ll be smooth sailing. And Astrology can give you that knowledge.
It’s on every woman’s mind when they’re engaged or headed for a ring: Will he be a good husband? Sometimes even a new wife may wonder the same thing.
Gemini men are smart, charming, fun to be around, social, and adaptable, and they love to talk—a lot. If you’re his partner, you’ve probably figured these things out so far.
He’s also independent, and he is typically very busy either working or starting personal projects. He’s always keeping busy because he hates to be bored.
If you are his fiancé or wife, he tries to show you his love as much as he can in his own ways. He will still have times where he will want his own space, though—and he needs you to respect that.
This isn’t something that just changes because you marry him. If you go into it thinking he’ll stay home more or require less “me” time, know that you cannot change him without him feeling he needs to.
Gemini men are spontaneous guys that also change their minds often. His wife needs to be open and go with the flow to move forward with him as her husband.
The Gemini man will be an outstanding and loving father to the children you may have in the future. He will want them cared for and taught how to keep themselves busy, and he’s an excellent role model in that.
Most Gemini men are free spirits that like to get out and about a lot. The homebody Geminis are an exception.
Always keep in mind that Gemini men are dual in nature, which means they can be very social one day and then very hermit-like another day. You never know what you’re going to get. Gemini husbands change their moods often, and their partners need to be adaptable to their behaviors.
He isn’t the possessive type, so you never have to worry about him having jealous rages over your male friends. He also has no issue with you going and spending time with your other friends or family–in fact, he encourages it.
You being happy and giving him his time will make him happy.
The Good (and Great!) Parts of Marrying a Gemini Man
Yes, there are pros and cons to marrying a Gemini man, just like any sign. But here are some of his highlights!
- He’s always fun to be around; you won’t ever be bored.
- He loves to travel and will go anywhere with you.
- He will put your needs and desires first.
- He loves having intellectual conversations.
- He loves to talk—and who better to talk to you than you?
- He has lots of interests, so you are bound to have plenty in common to enjoy together.
- He’s excellent at making you laugh and feel good.
The Not-So-Good Parts of Marrying a Gemini Man
Keep his outstanding qualities in mind and see if they don’t outweigh the negatives. In many cases, his cons can be overlooked or worked on. Don’t give in just because there are a few things about him that may not be inviting!
That being said, here are a few traits that may grate on your nerves:
- He’s tough to read much of the time.
- He can be moody.
- He doesn’t always say exactly what he means.
- He’s easily distracted.
- He can be fickle and changes his mind often.
- He’s inconsistent with some things.
- He can have a narcissistic streak.
- He’s not always reliable with plans or following through.
- He can be a bit of a know-it-all.
These are some very irritating cons to deal with—no doubt. However, you may find that his good outweighs his bad, and his love for you likely makes the small annoyances worth it. Not all Gemini men are exactly the same, either, of course.
Read next: Why Relationships With Gemini Men Fail And How To Prevent It
The Type of Woman Best Suited to Be a Gemini Man’s Wife
Typically the Gemini man will gravitate to women who are independent and don’t need to be taken care of. A gold digger isn’t his type. He doesn’t always make big bucks and would prefer not to have to carry his partner even if he does.
He wants a woman that can keep up with him and help him stay interested. He craves excitement and feeling alive. A partner who inspires this will make him fall head over heels—and stay that way.
A very sexual partner is something most Gemini men desire, as well.
He wants a woman who will love him, inspire him, make him laugh, and be there for him when he’s stressed out. She should have her own friends and her own life outside of him.
The woman that always wants to look beautiful is someone he is drawn to. She takes care of herself and always looks at least somewhat presentable when she’s out and about. She takes pride in her beauty.
The perfect match for him won’t give him a hard time when he wants time to himself or out with his friends—provided he doesn’t do it too often.
Gemini men are fun, big-hearted guys. They are caring, warm, and generous. They can also come off as cool, aloof, and narcissistic. Only you can decide if his merits eclipse his flaws.
It’s important to set boundaries and expectations, and to fully get to know him, before committing to a Gemini man. But if the two of you click, a Gemini man can make a phenomenal husband!
Are you thinking about taking the plunge with a Gemini man? Have any of his traits surprised you? I’d love to hear all about it! Share your story (or questions) in the anonymous comments section.
And if you’re wondering whether you and your Gemini are a good match, try my fun compatibility quiz here!
Wishing you all the luck of the universe!
Your friend and relationship astrologer,