How To Ask A Gemini Man Out (7 Easy Ways)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Are you intrigued by a mysterious Gemini guy but aren’t sure if he realizes you exist? Here're some tips on how to ask a Gemini man out so that you can finally get the ball rolling with him...

Dating is always interesting, but dating a Gemini man is definitely something else! Why are Geminis so attractive and how to ask a Gemini man out?

These guys really know how to make a woman hot and bothered under the collar with their witty ways! He is so special and exciting to be around. 

Not only are they super smart, but a Gemini man’s looks are rather sexy! They have a flair and a charm that is truly undeniable, and it is easy to understand why you would keep coming back for more. A Gemini man seems to have everything going for him!

Are you intrigued by a Gemini man but aren’t sure if he realizes you exist? The following are some helpful tricks that could help you not only get his attention but to learn how to ask a Gemini man out so that you can finally get the ball rolling with him.

Should I Ask A Gemini Man Out? (4 Undeniable Hints)

1. He Reaches Out To You Often

Gemini man is all about talking, texting and calling. He is a sweet-talker, knows what to say and always has a good timing. He is curious, likes long conversations and exchanges of information. 

When he frequently texts and calls then it should be quite clear that he is interested in you. Ask yourself, how often do the two of you speak?

If the answer to this is quite often then chances are pretty good that he is actually quite interested in you and that he would love to go out with you on a date. If the two of you communicate often then I don’t see a reason why you shouldn’t ask your Gemini out! Go for it!

2. He Keeps Up With You Mentally

Gemini man wants a woman who can dream along with him. If you are discussing with him what might be nice to do sometime in the future then it is a surefire sign he is interested in you.

Talking about dreams and aspirations really turns this man on. Not only will he want to share them with you because you match his taste, but he will also want you to talk about your own dreams and goals with him.

He’s a complex man who has a need for a woman who can mentally keep up with him. So, if you are not overly emotional, but cool, calm, and collected you will catch his eye and you can ask him out.

3. He Makes You Laugh

If his mission is to make you laugh, that means he is making an effort to hint you that he is interested. It is no secret that Gemini men possess a great sense of humor with a spark of sarcasm.

If you don’t act enthusiastic and allow him to make you smile, he’ll appreciate this if his eyes are entirely on you, but if you are a bit more relaxed and spontaneous, it would be a really good idea for you to ask him out so that the two of you can spend some one-on-one time together.

4. He Is Affectionate

A Gemini man is typically a touchy-feely guy who uses his hands to gesticulate while communicating., Don’t be surprised if he touches your arm or shoulder in the middle of the conversation. That means he is really into you but might be shy to ask you out.

However, when he spends time with you he may not be able to help himself and feels the need to get closer to you. He isn’t like this with everyone, so if you like him back you should definitely ask him out and see where things go with him!

You may also want to read: Will A Gemini Man Make The First Move? Find Out Here

7 Tips To Ask A Gemini Man Out

1. Act Quickly!

If you are really hot for a Gemini guy; you don’t want to waste any time. He may move on very quickly or he may not notice you thus finding someone else interesting enough to get together with.

The thing to remember with Gemini man is that if you like him; you’ve got to let him know as quickly as you can so you don’t lose out. He needs to know because he doesn’t wait around.

He’s one that moves rather quickly and will not sit to see if someone really likes him or not. Whether he’s expressed interest in you or doesn’t know you’re alive; let him know you dig him and want to get to know him.

As fast as you can; try to get him to go out for coffee or a drink. Tell him you’d like to talk to him a bit more and get to know him. He’ll be excited by your candor and will likely agree.

2. Be Spontaneous

Gemini man isn’t much for planning. If you want to win him over; you’ve got to call him up out of the blue or ask him out on the fly. Don’t plan it, just go for it. He’ll be happy you did.

If you work with him; bring him a coffee and ask him if he’d like to join you for lunch. You may find that he is intrigued by this and will say “sure why not” or something similarly casual sounding.

As long as he didn’t already sign up for something else; there is no real reason he won’t go. Even if he initially isn’t into you or has a girlfriend, he’ll still want to see what is going on.

Gemini man would only turn you down if he is married or is just really not attracted to you. In that case; you’d have to gracefully bow out and let it go. He’s a nice guy though so there is no chance of him being rude to you.

3. Take Risks

While taking a risk may not be who you typically are; this is what will win the Gemini guy over. Naturally, he has to be single and available. As long as that is in place then your chances are good.

Take a risk and walk right up to him saying “Hey there, I was wondering if you’d like to go have a drink with me after work”. He’ll be caught off guard and unless he truly has something else going on; he should agree.

He’ll be thrown off by your left field asking and yet he’ll be absolutely excited that you did it. He’s a risk taker himself with life and so he’ll appreciate a woman who has the ability to do the same.

Life is dull and boring when all you do is daydream about what you’d like to do. Go for it and show him that you’re willing to go all out with him. This may move things a bit quicker if he’s been sort of dragging.

4. Discussing Common Interests

Whether you do it before or during the date; ask your Gemini what he’s into in life and then share what you’re into. Hopefully when you do this; you’ll find some interests that you have in common.

Focus the conversation on what you have in common as it will help the two of you cultivate something even better. In fact; it may lead him to ask you out to go skydiving with him sometime; if that’s what you’re both into.

A Gemini man can fall in love rather quickly with a woman who has the ability to excite him and keep him stimulated in life. This is ultimately what he’s looking for in a relationship.

He wants a partner who gets him, who understands his need for occasional space to do his thing and has the same types of passion in life that he has. Do a great deal of talking and getting to know each other.

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5. Dress Sexy For Him

Whether you’re out on a date or you’re trying to get his attention; you need to get his eyes attention. Dress rather flirty. I wouldn’t dress trashy but dress to appeal to his senses as a man.

Wear light-colored clothing that clings to you but not too tightly. You want him to imagine what is under that dress or under that sexy blouse just revealing enough cleavage to make him fantasize.

He’s a very visual type of guy and a sexy woman who is flirting with him in a sexy outfit; he’ll be unable to resist. When you decide to ask your Gemini man out; dress the part so that he is fully paying attention to what you have to offer him.

6. Ask Him About His Travels

As much as Gemini hates to be emotionally burdened and tied down, he also often loves to travel extensively and expand his horizons with learning something new. Gemini man loves adventures and is very friendly. 

A social butterfly, he enjoys traveling, learning, and experiencing new things. He is often a restless, philosophical and energetic man.

Ask him about the top places he has traveled to. Share your own places that you love. Once he gets going, you’ll see him practically light up with joy. 

This will also trigger his other favorite topic—new experiences! It’s a double-win! Don’t forget to ask him about where he still wants to go. That should create some excitement for the future! 

7. Be Confident

A Gemini man is attracted to confidence and has no problem with you taking the lead and making the first move. This will make him realize that you are interested and will make him determined to reciprocate.

A Gemini man will give you enough space to ask him out, he will gladly appreciate it! He finds confident women attractive, those with keen intellects and agile minds. And most importantly, he wants his lover to be his friend.

How To Ask A Gemini Man Out Over Text

Most women dating a Gemini man probably know that he enjoys stimulating conversations. He is very intellectual; he thinks more than he feels—at least most of them do. Since the Gemini sign is about talking, calling, and texting, the Gemini Venus man usually communicates by phone, so texting is in his DNA.

Make no mistake; if you send him short texts, this will be uninspiring. He won’t be able to reciprocate with his quick-witted insights and elevating curiosity. Don’t be afraid to be talkative and ultra-chatty.

Try flirting with him over text. If he doesn’t pursue you once you flirt back and let him know you’re interested, he’s probably not available, but if he responds, then you have a good hunting ground!

Express your understanding and respect for his personal space. Ask him if he would like to join you, and choose a fun activity you know he would like. 

So give him time to respond. Avoid being too pushy or aggressive, as I am sure you know Gemini men appreciate a light approach. While it’s important to show your interest and make your intentions clear, avoid sounding needy when asking a Gemini man out over text.

Read nextWhat To Do When Gemini Man Ignores Your Text?

If Your Gemini Man Pulls Away, DON’T Do This…

I’ve heard from so many of my clients that their Gemini man is AMAZING when they are in person with him… So charming, sweet, funny, and really connected!

But he can tend to pull away when you’re not with him.

It’s a super frustrating situation for any woman. And if you are like my other clients who have been through this, you’re probably feeling REALLY confused.

“Why is he so hot and cold through text?”

“Why does he back off when we aren’t together?”

And most importantly…

“What can I DO about this?”

First, I want to share the things you definitely should NOT do in this situation.

  1. Don’t get clingy or needy and ask him if something is wrong or beg to see him
  2. Don’t force closure if you’ve had some conflict. Wait until you can talk in person about important issues. Text can EASILY lead to miscommunication.
  3. Don’t assume that there IS a problem. He could just be really busy.
  4. Don’t let fear drive your actions. Assume the best and not the worst.
  5. Don’t chase him. Chase your dreams and goals instead.

So what SHOULD you do instead?

  1. Take some time out to reflect on the situation and consider logical reasons for his actions.
  2. Let him reach out to you when he’s ready. Gemini men like to lead. You need to let him do that!
  3. Be supportive. If you haven’t heard from him in a week (or even a day if you text every single day no matter what), ask if he’s okay. And offer to be supportive if he’s going through a challenging time.
  4. Communicate what your needs are, but avoid any blame or shame.
  5. When your Gemini man comes back, welcome him lovingly with open arms. If you are angry, he’ll want to run.

Text can be challenging, and I don’t want you to feel alone in this.

I don’t want you to lie in bed unable to sleep because you are worried about why your Gemini man is pulling away.

And there is no need for you to do that. Especially when I can guide you on how to deeply connect with a Gemini man’s heart through text messages… 

Because when you know SPECIFICALLY what to text him based on his astrology, he WON’T be pulling away anymore. And you’ll never again have to worry about what to say to your lovely Gemini man through text anymore.

Click here to learn more.

Sending you love,

Your sister and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach x

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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