Gemini men probably have the worst rap in the Zodiac. They are usually described as fickle, indecisive, two-faced, and have the reputation to have a bit of a wandering eye. But is this really the case, or is there more to these sociable creatures?
Of course, there is! Gemini men are some of the most interesting men out there. They constantly have something going on or someplace to be. If you’re ever confused about a topic (any topic, really) you can always turn to your Gemini man because he’s quite literally a walking encyclopedia.
Gemini men are curious, inquisitive, and extremely intelligent. They want to know everything about everything. These men are masters of information, knowledge, and conversation. These chatterboxes love to communicate and share their ideas.
So, if you’re looking for a guy who doesn’t mind a bit of banter and likes to text back and forth, then look no further than this intriguing man! But, you might wonder, how exactly do you go about getting a Gemini man to commit to a serious relationship?
It seems like all they want to do is have fun and keep their options open – and they do! But trust me, there are many ways you can make a Gemini man want to leave his bachelor ways and get him to commit to you.
So, if you’re looking for some secret yet uber helpful tips on how to blossom your casual relationship into a full-fledged love affair, then look no further. This article will give you all the ways in which you can make him yours! Continue reading to find out more…
5 Ways To Blossom A Relationship With Gemini Man Into A Full-Fledged Love
1. Be An Interesting & Dynamic Person
A Gemini man’s biggest fear in life is his fear of boredom. His mind is super active and he needs constant stimulation to feel like he is living his purpose. This is a big point for him in his relationships.
Your Gemini guy wouldn’t stick around two seconds longer with a woman he didn’t feel he was mentally compatible with. His mind is brilliant and he needs someone who can keep up with him and who he can banter back and forth with.
If nothing is interesting about you, or you have nothing exciting to say, it is more than likely that your Gemini man will quickly lose interest and you can forget about your chances with him. It is so very important that you show him the diversity of your mind, and how much knowledge you actually have to share.
One of the best ways to keep a Gemini man wanting to come back for more is with your smarts and sense of fun. He likes to keep things lighthearted, and gets really excited when he meets someone who is witty, intelligent, and terribly funny.
So, if any of these qualities sound like you, you’re pretty much set to keep your Gemini happy enough to want to commit to you forever!
2. Always Be Open For Adventure
A Gemini man’s driving force in life is his sense of adventure and the necessity he has for fun and excitement. There is honestly nothing your Gemini guy wouldn’t try at least once. He needs a lot of variety in his life to keep himself stimulated.
Unfortunately, he often has the mentality that the grass is greener somewhere else and this is likely why he is always on the search for novelty and a new experience. He likes the thrill of feeling something different or the adrenaline of experiencing something for the first time.
If you really want to keep him happy and see you more than just a fling, then my advice would be to always be happy to go on adventures with him. Have an open mind and show him that you too live a life full of curiosity.
A Gemini man wants a partner in crime and someone he can share new experiences with. So, the more open you are to novelty, the better your chances are at keeping him happy and satisfied.
3. Keep Things Light And Easy
Your Gemini guy can be pretty fickle, especially when it comes to emotions. He isn’t very interested in diving deep and becoming too emotionally entwined with someone else. Emotional intensity scares him off more than anything else in the world.
He prefers his relationships to be more mentally charged, rather than emotionally charged. He can often feel a little lost when someone comes to him with their eyes filled with tears. Emotions are really confusing for him to digest.
He is just so darn logical and rational and feels totally overwhelmed by feelings. This is why he prefers his relationships to be light and easygoing. If you prefer something more serious and quite intense, a Gemini man is likely not the man for you.
He wants his partnerships to go with the flow and he doesn’t want to get stuck in any emotional muck. So, if you’re the type of gal who can take things easy and be a breath of fresh air, then this Gemini guy is just the right person for you!
4. Keep Relationship Communication Lines Open
Your Gemini guy is a social creature by nature. He adores people and loves to spend time with them. The more people he has in his life, the better. He loves to learn what makes people tick and figure out who people are and what they enjoy doing.
You can only imagine that this would make your Gemini man quite fond of conversation. He really enjoys it when he has a good rapport with someone and feels like he can gain new insights through talking to them.
So, if a Gemini guy likes talking to any old stranger, imagine how important conversation is for him in his romantic relationship with his partner. It is huge! He craves hearing from his woman throughout the day and is genuinely curious about what she got up to.
If you’re not fond of a good old chat, then having a Gemini partner is probably not the best thing for you. This guy wants to know everything about you and understand who you are as a person and what he can learn from being with you.
Communication is probably your Gemini man’s first priority when it comes to his wants and needs in his relationships. He has a lot to say and he equally wants to know what his partner’s opinion is on all topics.
He likes to get into a debate and see what he can learn from having conversations. He wants his opinions challenged and feels like he learned something new from each and every interaction he has with someone, but most of all the woman in his life.
So, make sure you have something interesting to say if you’re dating a Gemini man! He needs all the mental stimulation he can get.
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5. Be Supportive Of Him
You can probably only imagine how many thoughts and ideas run through a Gemini man’s mind on a daily basis. So much so that it can often lead to nervousness and anxiety when he ruminates and overthinks too much.
What he needs is someone who can support him and help him through moments of anxiety and feelings of being overwhelmed. A Gemini man needs someone who can reassure him and make him feel safe and contained when life feels like it is becoming a little bit much.
He tends to overanalyze and overthink every little thing that happens to him and it can really start to wear on him and his mental health. In those moments he needs you to be an anchor for him that feels calm and reassuring.
When your Gemini guy sees how wonderfully present and strong you can be in moments when he feels weak, he will sure to gain a lot of respect and love for you. He will come to realize that you aren’t someone who is going to disappear when things get tough, and this is an important lesson for him to learn because he will often take the first exit when the relationship gets tested.
Be there for him and support him in any way you know how, and you’ll see that he will come around and want to build something with you indefinitely.
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All the love and happiness in the world.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,