Hello, ladies! It is me, Anna! Gemini men are notorious, so many women want them, but, it is so difficult bagging a Gemini man as they definitely know how to keep you on your toes.
A Gemini man is fascinating to be around. He is curious, talkative, and always up for an adventure. There is never a dull moment with a Gemini man. From their dual nature to their love for intellectual conversations, Gemini men can be both exciting and challenging partners.
Let’s take a deep dive into the psyche of a Gemini man and all the fascinating aspects that make them who they are. Here are the most common questions answered about Gemini men:
Getting To Know Gemini Men: What Is A Gemini Man Really About?
Gemini men are typically known for their lively and adaptable personality. This man has an absolute adoration for communication, intellectual stimulation, and variety in his life.
He is often characterized by his dual nature, which can make him seem unpredictable or even paradoxical at times – he is energetic and restless, yet intellectual and curious about the world around him.
Furthermore, he is a quick thinker and a master of adaptability, able to navigate through various situations with ease. He often uses his wit and charm to navigate social settings and capture the attention of those around him.
A Gemini man is the social butterfly of the zodiac, always fluttering from one conversation to another, making connections and exploring new ideas wherever he goes. He loves a good debate and thrives on engaging in thought-provoking discussions.
He is often seen as fun-loving, and playful, and may at times display bold romantic gestures. Definitely he is a charmer and knows how to make a woman swoon with his charismatic words.
However, his thought-driven nature means that he may not fall in love easily or very often, as his decisions tend to be more influenced by his thoughts rather than his emotions.
What Makes A Gemini Man Chase A Woman?
A Gemini man is most attracted to a woman who stimulates his mind and can match his love for communication and intellectual conversations. Nothing makes him more excited than a woman who can add a spark to his lie with a good old chat.
If you can inject some excitement into his life, then you will easily get him hooked. He wants variety, no day must be the same as monotony tends to bore him. Don’t give him a routine, it is an absolute vibe killer for him.
He will chase a woman who is adventurous and knowledgeable, and able to engage in diverse and interesting discussions that can attract his interest in a fun and exciting way.
A sense of humor can help, as well as a lively demeanor. I would also suggest showing him your fun-loving side! The most important thing is that he feels excited and stimulated by you. It is the best way to capture his attention and affection.
Related: Do Gemini Men Like To Be Chased? 6 Ways To Win Him Over
How Does A Gemini Man Show His Love And His Jealousy?
A Gemini man is typically not a very emotionally affectionate person. It isn’t easy for him to connect with emotions and feelings because he is so mentally driven. His life is all about his intellect.
However, when a Gemini man is in love, he may show his affection through his actions and words. He will want to engage with you through stimulating conversations, sharing his ideas, and sometimes bold romantic gestures that can show his adventurous side.
As for jealousy, this is also not a trait typical of a Gemini man. His intellectual nature means that he is just not as overtly jealous as other men. However, when he does feel threatened, he might display a heightened interest in your activities or try to outshine his perceived rival. Usually with his charm or his wit.
Gemini men are more likely to express their love and jealousy through intellectual and communicative means rather than through intense emotions or possessiveness. If you are looking to make a Gemini jealous, you are going to struggle!
Are Gemini Men Controlling?
It isn’t common for Gemini men to be controlling. They are the type of guys who really value their own freedom and independence. He has no interest in controlling the life of another person.
Gemini men prefer to have their own autonomy and want their partners to have the same. Some unhealthy Gemini men might find some kind of kick out of emotional control or possessiveness, just as a test of your psychology, as these men can be quite manipulative.
However, in general, these guys are so adaptable and their social nature usually makes them more inclined toward a flexible and spontaneous approach to relationships.
He will respect your independence and freedom, as long as you allow him the same courtesy.
Are Gemini Men Selfish?
Gemini men do tend to have selfish tendencies at times. Because they are so intellectually driven I do think that sometimes they struggle to empathize as connecting to emotions can be quite difficult for them.
This can make them appear self-centered or focused on their own needs and desires. When it comes to relationships, a Gemini man may prioritize his own interests and passions, sometimes neglecting the emotional needs of his partner.
There is just so much in life that a Gemini man wants to do, and sometimes a romantic relationship can get in the way of this. I often hear from my clients that they complain about how selfish their Gemini partners are.
Perhaps if you reframe your perspective and see this as a commitment to his personal growth and exploration of life it might make it a little easier for you to deal with.
How Does A Gemini Man Test A Woman?
There are many ways a Gemini man will test you, as he is naturally curious and loves to explore different facets of a person’s character. It might be quite challenging at times to discern whether a Gemini man is intentionally testing you or simply satisfying his intellectual curiosity.
Like I mentioned before, there is a part of him that can be quite manipulative, and dare I say, sometimes even a little narcissistic. So in that way, it can be quite trying.
He might test your patience and resilience by engaging in playful banter or challenging your views and opinions. By doing so, he is trying to gauge your ability to hold an intellectual conversation and handle this side of his personality.
He wants to see how well you can hold your own in a debate or discussion, and if you can intellectually stimulate him. If you can engage him in intellectually stimulating conversations and hold your ground, he will see you as an equal and someone worth pursuing.
Ming games are usually quite common when you are dealing with a Gemini man. Sometimes you will not understand where you stand with him as he will act hot and cold, just to keep you guessing.
Will A Gemini Man Stalk You?
A Gemini man is unlikely to stalk someone unless he has some underlying psychological issues. Generally, Gemini men tend to be more focused on their own interests and exploring different aspects of life rather than fixating on one person to the point of obsession and stalking.
Some Gemini men do get a little anxious and nervous about losing someone they care about, which may lead them to keep tabs on their partner’s social media or reach out frequently
It can actually feel like he is a little bit obsessed as it tends to be quite intense. Once he has fixated on something it can become his sole focus for a period of time.
So I would say yes, a Gemini man will stalk you, but also really depends on the makeup of his whole chart and if he is being stimulated in other aspects of his life.
What Does It Mean When A Gemini Man Blocks You On Everything Without A Given Reason?
When a Gemini man blocks you on everything without a given reason, it can be quite baffling and frustrating. As I have mentioned countless times, Gemini men can sometimes act very unexpectedly. They do things totally off the cuff.
Blocking someone without a given reason could be due to a multitude of factors. It could be that the Gemini man is feeling overwhelmed or stressed and needs space.
Perhaps he feels that the relationship is moving too quickly and becoming more serious than he would like, and this is why he would just block you to cease communication.
It could also be a sign that the Gemini man is not interested in pursuing a relationship with you anymore and is trying to create distance. Regardless of the specific reason, it is important to respect his decision and give him the space he seems to be seeking.
Try and make peace with the fact that he has done this. The quicker you let go the easier it will be for you to move on from this.
You may also want to read: How To Tell If A Gemini Man Is Playing You?
What Makes A Gemini Man Become Quiet And Pull Away?
There are several reasons that can make a Gemini man become quiet and pull away. As you know, Gemini men are thought to be naturally communicative, so a shift to quietness can be concerning.
Withdrawal could mean that he is preoccupied with something else in his life or that he dealing with a personal matter. This pulling away can also show that he feels the need for space, or some time to think.
Other potential factors can include feeling overwhelmed by emotions, needing time to process his thoughts and feelings, or experiencing a change in his priorities and focus.
Of course, it can also simply mean that he is not interested in you any longer. Dissatisfaction or disinterest is usually the biggest reason for him to become quiet and pull away.
Read more about the reasons why a Gemini man is pulling away from you here.
Will A Gemini Man Come Back After He Told Me To Move On? What Should I Do To Get Him Back?
You can never really know with a Gemini man if he is going to come back after he has told you to move on. His moods are constantly changing, unfortunately, this is just a part of his dualistic nature.
One day he might tell you to move on and the next day he could change his mind and want you back. The best thing you can do is respect his wishes and give him the space he has asked for.
He tends to get put off by emotions a lot quicker than other signs, so the best thing for you to do is to show no emotion and remain strong. You kind of want to make it seem like you are moving on and living your best life without him. This will intrigue his curious nature and potentially make him reconsider his decision.
The best thing is just to focus on yourself and your own happiness. Personal growth, self-care, and surrounding yourself with supportive friends and family can really help you through this. Remember, every Gemini man is different and there is no one-size-fits-all answer.
Read next: Will A Gemini Man Come Back? 7 Ways To Get Him Back After A Breakup
If You Listen To Dating Coaches, You Can Lose Your Gemini Man Forever…
Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches.
They wanted to know if it would work with their Gemini man.
And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.
Why???
Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Gemini.
You see, Gemini men are VERY different than men of other signs.
And if you use standard dating advice with a Gemini, it can backfire.
He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.
I don’t want that to happen to you.
Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.
You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…
So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your finger…
And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.
These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.
So… for heaven’s sake…
DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.
Because your wonderful Gemini is NOT like other men… at ALL.
Click here and find out the specific things your Gemini man needs to hear to melt his heart.
Sending you love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
My gemini man and I broke up over 20 something odds years and he wants me to friend him on my Facebook why?
Iv been dating this Gemini guy. Was so funny, we got on great, great sex too. Then bamn he went cold on me ignored me, blocked me then came back apologising then was all over me again. Then this week his blocked me again. He says it’s down to ‘ stresses of life ‘ but I’m starting to get a bit sick of it so I decided to block him again!
Why are they so hot and cold I’m so confused everything was going great and it’s like his a different person it’s mad.
Hi Kathleen!
Gemini men are so confusing aren’t they? They are two different personalities blended into one which makes them blow one way then the next day blow another way. That’s a natural thing for them until they are totally 100% decided on something which can make for a very difficult relationship for their partner. I’m sorry you went though that. The only thing you can do when they do this is confront them and ask them what they want with you. Then you’ll know and can decide from there what to do.
Hi Jacqueline!
If he’s contacting you after all this time to friend request you on Facebook, he’s likely curious as to what you’re up to and if you’re single. You never know with the Gemini men. They sometimes think about ex’s in a fond way and sometimes want to see if there is any hope there again. I think it’s mere curiosity on his part though. I’d message him and ask him why he would want to add you. Then you’ll know for sure what his intention is. Unless it’s uncomfortable in which you may want to block him.
This paints us gemini men as crasy. The real problem is that Gemini loves deep and strong. Its very hard to detach from love feelings. So we need to get away from the person because we love them and its all in our head. So we have to have a stronger detach to truly get over them.
I second that. Truth be told though, I do go a little nuts if I get too attached and the break up is sudden BUT it’s not crazy like stalker crazy. It’s more like block her number, delete all of her pictures and destroy everything I have that reminds me of her. Yes, this has happened more than once.
Why would you want to get away from someone you love? Other than being they don’t love you. Lots of Gemini men seem to walk away from love because they think there may yet be something they miss out on elsewhere…
I’m going through this right now with my Gemini….. I love him so much and never know what to expect from him…… he just all of a sudden stop talking to me texting me but he claims to love me….. I love him and want to be with him I just need to understand him…. how do I get him back
Hi Penabutta!
Well if he’s doing this to you, you need to take a stand. He’s going to continue to treat you the way that you allow him to. Tell him exactly how you feel and what you want with him. Ask him what exactly his intention is so that you two can either get on the same page or move on from each other. He cannot get away with never giving you a clear answer. Demand it. Either he’ll walk away or he’ll actually tell you he loves you. You’re not going to get anywhere by just leaving it up to him to make you less confused. Good luck honey! You can do this!
Omg I totally get the crazy now! Thanks so much for posting this bc I definitely hang out with one of the dark ones. Seems like he only lies cheats and steals. Completely saw the crazy come out and that is truly scary. I’m a Taurus and I don’t need that type of person around me.
Hi Heather!
Thank you for writing in about what you’ve experienced. While you hit the jackpot of Gemini crazy, I don’t want you to resolve that all of them are this way. Many are very kind hearted and decisive. They’re misunderstood sometimes and while one may prove to be a total nutjob, not all will be like that. So please don’t close your heart to all Gemini men. Some may surprise you in a wonderful way!
not thrue ,
we gemini men are just uber dominant,
there is nothing more to it .
our love is real and when we ignore you or hurt you then it is your fault .
you fucked up one way or the other .
we love our women very hard core so do not mistake that for being rude or sarcastic or dark at times .
we feel best when we all are happy ..
it is only when one is testing us or call us a dumb ass ..
gemini ,s are smart and sly people especially when they have no other option then being smart or sly .
so , do not test us and the dark twin will not come out .
we love people , we forgive , we are not jealous , we even cook for you and in the bedroom we can be a pornstar or a romantic kisser .
all the negative shit about us says more about those people then it says about us .
the fact that we are dual can be very possitive and has nothing to do with being unreal or unreliable .
we are very real , and we tell you the truth even when it not sounds like it .
if you pick out a dress and it just look not as it suppose to be .. we tell you .
we are proud people and we like it when our women look great ..
sarcasm is often liked by women as long it is not there to put down others on a serious level..
the best players are sarcastic ..
so tell me .. why do players have the most beautifull women ..
thank you .
no woman wants a dry , simple, average fake serious man who sneeks to his little room upstairs to watch porn when you are out ..
we gemini are not like that , we wait for you .. we will surprise you when you come home .
we are good with women , and the reason for that is that we really love women .
we are women crazy .
not ment as as much as possible or
to have sex with or to kiss ..
no , we love the whole package of a woman . we really love to interact with them .
still surprise me how much hate there is told about us .
it is false .
give it a shot , give us some space ..
love real , and we will show you how we love our women.
if you read something bad about us written by a woman then she fucked up herself ladies ..
we are sensitive as %%%%.. for sensing bullshit and lies .. we feel negative moods or testing from miles away .
yes , then we do not speak for days ,
or we go sarcastic XL .
we like to debate but a real gemini is one of silence .
we never open up , even when we are married with you for 10 years .
mysterious ?? we ?? never !!
mysterious people do not excist.
mysterious people ” choose ” to be mysterious and therefor it is fake .
a good example is pisces , scorpio , capricorn , and cancer .
they have a manipulative manner / way to me mysterious .. they want to be like that so bad .
fake .
we just cannot open up because it is too much work with 2 souls .
we do not invest in that .
we think all day , 24 7
people in the gym work their body rhat much .. we our brain so do not blame us for being smart .
everything is in our head .
and it is there to stay.
meanwhile just enjoy life with us ok
bye .
Contradictions. Gemini are the most selfish, self absorbed signs I ever met. Yea yall can be cool at time but then go off over the pettiest shit then have the nerve to blame the other person for your lack of self control and tact. Yall could be good people if yall actually take the time to get out of ur own head and consider others over your self once and a while. You don’t get credit for the good side because even your good side is selfish as hell and self seeking. That’s what’s wrong with yall not all these women that yall trample over along the way.
Hi Aries Woman!
Thank you for writing. I’m sorry to hear that you’ve had such a horrible experience with a Gemini man or more than one. The truth is, they are not all the same. I’d hate to think you’d condemn a sign because of one or two bad seeds. Many are very different than others. The reason I say this is because each person has 12 signs of the zodiac in their chart which means that we’re all very different as humans. That also means that one Gemini will not represent all the rest of them. Bad seeds are just bad seeds no matter what their sign happens to be. Try to be open minded. You may meet one that blows your mind in a wonderful way!
Good answer even if it was kinda rude. But I liked it cuz I am a real Gemini too and I agree with 100% of your points, that makes me feel that Gemini people are alike 🙂
People will never understand our brain and this is bad for them and good for us. So for this reason explaining who you are will always sound selfish to them. They don’t understand that you are just an investigator that never fully trust a person and that you are always looking for the bad before you can see the good. They consider it negativity, when it’s a great way to read a person. We are usually right when we give our opinion about someone. Because we see what normal people do not see. They think we are jealous of that person or something. And we know what they think about us when we give an opinion but we let it go cuz that is probably what we really want them to think.
Yes we got different personalities, and we only show them the one we want them to see. We got a personality for every person. They call that fake lol. Because their simple mind cannot get why we do that.
They call you selfish and I understand why but they should understand that when you are tired of being the smartest, you get sick of being modest about it. So you just let it show. And then you enjoy seeing the simple minds calling you selfish because of your ”crazy” mind that´s usually right about almost everything.
They get jealous because they see us smile all the time but they do not know that we just hide our emotions and pains and sensitivity behind the mask of humor.
Women like us, but most of them cannot keep up with our rhythm so they f*ck up one way or another so they get smacked by our surprising behavior. And then they start to talk sh*t about us. Forgetting the beautiful days we had them have, and everything, they just remember the last smack on the face lol. Well don’t f*ck with a Gemini, cuz they already predicted your behavior, and the right answer is on always on the tip of their tongue.
When we are focused, nothing will stand on our way, it will be our two minds against yours, and odds are not on your favor.
Have a great day simple minds 🙂
Peace out brother
Hi Zack! Thanks for chiming in on Gemini man behavior. The duality can be useful in some cases and in some cases can be rather confusing for both the Gemini man himself and for others. There is so much more to learn about Gemini man and I certainly hope that my books are helping many ladies to find a way to make it work with the Gemini men that they love. In fact, if you have any interest, you might want to check it out yourself or refer any lady that would like clarity to check out “Gemini Man Secrets” over at.
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Good answer even and was kinda true. But I liked it cuz I am a real Gemini too and I agree with 100% of your points, that makes me feel that Gemini people are alike – shitty (and sometimes toxic) people ?
Adequate people will never understand our sick brain and this is bad for them and good for us – paranoiacs and schizoids. So for this reason explaining who you are will always sound selfish to them – which is a fact and the truth. They don’t understand that you are just a paranoid and insecure investigator that never fully trust a person or yourself and that you are always looking for the bad before you can see the good – not loving and trusting yourself should feel really shitty. Adequate people consider it negativity, when it’s a great way to read a person – and showing your ugly self as well. We are usually right when we give our opinion about someone – unless we are not right (most of the time its just a paranoiac ideas). Because we see what adequate people do not see – hallucinations, paranoidal visions, voices etc. They think we are jealous of that person or something. And we know what they think about us (yeah, empty shells of a person with an emotional capacity of a used condom, lol) when we give an opinion but we let it go cuz that is probably what we really want them to think – oh, good old manipulation and gaslighting.
Yes we got different personalities (get therapy), and we only show them the one we want them to see – because we are compulsive and obsessives liars to the point, we we ourselves do not understand what is reality. We got a personality for every person – yet, don’t you dare to call us fake, because we are not! They call that fake lol, while in fact it is a personality disorder. Because their simple mind cannot get why we do that – not everyone can understand the lack of logic behind the borderlines and narcissists.
They call you selfish and I understand why but they should understand that when you are tired of being the smartest (grand delusions!), you get sick of being modest about it – the ugly will always find a way to manifest itself. So you just let it show – yeah, why hide it?! And then you enjoy seeing the simple minds calling you selfish because of your ”crazy” mind that´s usually right about almost everything – and that is truly a definition of delusional borderline narcissistic @sshole.
They get jealous (SURE – everyone is, lol) because they see us smile (pathetic smirking on our miserable faces) all the time but they do not know that we just hide our emotions and pains and sensitivity behind the mask of humor – woe is me! They are at fault!
Women like us (barf), but most of them cannot keep up with our rhythm of craziness and mental disorders, so they f*ck up one way or another so they get smacked by our surprising behavior. And then they start to talk sh*t about us. Forgetting the beautiful days we had them have, and everything, they just remember the last smack on the face lol – yeah, we are low-life vindictive @ssholes and proud of it! Well don’t f*ck with a Gemini (that is true – stay clear from those), cuz they already predicted your behavior (written sick scenarios in their shitty heads), and the right answer is on always on the tip of their poisonous tongues.
When we are focused, nothing will stand on our way, it will be our two minds against yours (get help), and odds are not on your favor.
Have a great day simple minds ?
Peace out delusional brother
Hi helohelloo,
I understand your passion but I need to point out that I am an Astrologer and also a Gemini woman. I can tell you with absolute certainty that we are NOT all alike. This article was written because I’ve done the darker side for each sign. Everyone has a darker side. Everyone also has a beautiful side. While you may feel you identify with this article according to your rant, we Gemini are not all the same. We all have all 12 signs in our birth charts and located in different places along with the planetary aspects so you see, it’s impossible for everyone to be the same under one sun sign. I hope this makes sense.
First of all,
After all of the self defense you just did, how can you dare put down other signs. Such as me, a scorpio women who is cuffed my a Gemini man.
I would go on a rant to defend myself but there’s no point. And in defending myself I’m not going to put other signs down because that’s an unending cycle of bullshit.
All signs are beautiful in their own way!! Dont feel bad because us Scorpio’s have it worse. We are judged, including by yourself, in the worse way possible, but you don’t see us on here pointing fingers. Grow up!!
Hi Jassy! Each sign has traits but what many don’t realize is that every person has ALL signs in their birth charts which does indeed make us all somewhat unique yet similar at the same time. You’re right, condemning another sign just because of a few bad seeds isn’t a good way to go at things. Learning all you can about the person and the sign could help be something that leads to a better understanding. This is why I have written my books to help with this process. Check out “Gemini Man Secrets”.
I am sure than even you dont believe what you are saying!!!
Gemini is
Undependable,
Unreliable,
Liar,
Cheater,
Manipulator.
Most importantly however they are smart enough to understand the consiquences of the actions have been done of one.
THEY DONT AWARE OF THOSE BEHAVİOUR THAY THEY DOING Barely opposite.
They are f*ck*ng nuts.
Women pls see a gemini, asc gemini
RUN FAST RUN FAR….
Hi aiwy! As I’ve already mentioned to a couple of other people who have replied to the same person, all Geminis are NOT alike therefore cannot be typecast as the negative traits you’ve listed. Everyone on this planet has all 12 signs in their birth chart which means you also have Gemini located somewhere in your chart. As far as Gemini, their moon and the rising sign can alter who they are at their core and make them very different than what you think you know about them. On that note, Gemini is NOT bad overall. While there are some bad seeds, there are also bad seeds from ALL signs. That doesn’t mean that all signs are crap. Perhaps it would help you not typecast by reading my book “Gemini Man Secrets” to learn the good things about them.
Hi Masit!
Thank you for sharing from your own perspective as a Gemini man. However, you cannot speak for all Gemini. Not all are the same. It’s inevitable that you have a different moon sign or rising sign than many others which will make your personalities vary. That’s just how it is and it works that way for all signs. We all have all 12 signs in our charts which makes us all very unique. That being said, I’ve written plenty of other articles that have highlighted the charming side of Gemini as well. Again, I thank you for chiming in but no one should make any decisions without fully getting to know someone no matter what their sign is.
Hi Masit!
Thank you for sharing from your own perspective as a Gemini man. However, you cannot speak for all Gemini. Not all are the same. It’s inevitable that you have a different moon sign or rising sign than many others which will make your personalities vary. That’s just how it is and it works that way for all signs. We all have all 12 signs in our charts which makes us all very unique. That being said, I’ve written plenty of other articles that have highlighted the charming side of Gemini as well. Again, I thank you for chiming in but no one should make any decisions without fully getting to know someone no matter what their sign is.
I am in love with a Gemini man. But, I am a Gemini woman and I feel we are like identical little snowflakes…loving passionately, deeply yet with a certain superficiality. We are the same. I am a flirt, I like men but there is always only one man for me when I am in love. I would never be unfaithful. But I do wonder about him sometimes. Neither of us is entirely free and I wonder if that is exciting to him On the other hand I have been married to a Sagittarian and a Libran and never been loved as I am now. Don’t give Gemini men a bad rap. Men in general have the tendency to stray and be thoughtless. But this Gemini man is kind and thoughtful, always. WTS.
Hi Diana!
Thank you for your input. I’m glad to see that you’re able to find the wonderful qualities of a Gemini man. This article in particular is the darker side they may posses but they may not. It’s all up to who he is and what he’s like. Moon signs and Rising signs may differ which causes their personality to also differ. I hope you find happiness and resolve in your own personal situation. Blessings!
Scorpio woman here with a Gemini man. I’m in love with him just having a hard time completely trusting bc he is so secretive. It was like pulling teeth just to get him to intro me to his friends and it had been yrs! I think he had something going on with his friends live in sister but of course I cant prove it but I think she was the reason he didnt want me to meet them just yet. She is someone he was always complimenting online, so I am suspicious. Now everytime he goes over there I will wonder if she is there as well. Anyway I’m not giving up! The love is real even if some ppl think Scorpio is fake! Lol
Hi Shcorpia
Yes, Gemini men can be secretive but they’re typically to different degrees. Unless he’s giving you some other reasons to be suspicious of him then perhaps you should just trust that he’s being authentic even if he doesn’t want to reveal everything about himself to you up front. Gemini men like to keep some things to themselves because it helps them maintain their sense of independence. It’s not meant to hurt anyone or make them feel suspicious. When you do want to know things, ask him.
I have been dating a gemini and I am a virgo…he was so sweet kind and caring then he flipped a switch because he didnt get his way. I have honestly never seen someone intentionally hurt someone like that. Because I was not with him he sent me a picture of his a girlfriend in his bed and called me all kinds of nasty horrible things. It was a completely different person. I love him and didnt understand the behavior until now. He wants to try and work it out…but me being the virgo and I am very hurt and analyzing every scenario, because I am definitely pondering the thought of what he would have done to me had I been standing in front of him that night. He was very narcissistic, rude, abusive and told me things that were horrible. Not all are like this I dont suppose but I swear for that few hours he was possessed and I did not know him at all. Sad thing is I still love him and I know it’s not going to work out because you cant be terrified of your mate…
Hi Lisa!
No, not all Gemini men are alike. You’re right though, if you’re terrified of him then you definitely should be very careful of him. Gemini men aren’t normally violent or crazy but he may have some aspects in his chart or life experience that has made him very different than a normal Gemini should be. That being said, please be careful and look out for your own well being sweetheart.
I am married to a Gemini 20 plus years. We ran a business together very successful. At one point he fell out of love with me, I didn’t know. He began to blame everything that happened in the business on me. He let employees walk all over me. He let clients yell at me. He ran money through the business for his mistress, he has accused of ruining him after I found out about his affair. I was out of the business at this point. Retired due to health reasons. Which do not affect me sexually. He withdrew all types of intimacy about 2 years ago and has tired to alienate his family, friends and step children. I am attractive educated loyal many men in my community admire me. The whole community has seen us as the power couple. Behind my back for the 11 years he has been telling everybody that I am dying or that I am crazy, meanwhile I am working 10 hour a day. The affair started 11 years ago, she is an Aquarius he given tons of money over the years that I found out about. I am trying to save our marriage we are in counseling he has done nothing the counselor has asked him to do. He just wants to divorce me period but has not left the house. His bad side has gotten worse lots of aggressive behavior towards me. In the midst of this his new employer said he needed to talk to HR a complaint had been filed against him for sexual misconduct for other things now the affair. The next day they fired him. I am a Pisces a good one loyal not a liar not a quitter. So divorce is now on the back burner. He is the love of my life, do these guys ever pull their heads out of their ass. He says he will never touch me again sexually. He loves me but he is not in love. Now he is in big trouble with out a job meanwhile it’s still all my fault. Will he ever take responsibility.
If a Gemini yells at you or shows you how mad he is at you, it’s because he still cares. When he is silent about it, it’s because he’s decided you are not worth his time anymore.
When he gets mad, and doesn’t apologize, it’s because you messed up. And he rarely gets mad at someone if it is not really their fault.
So just meditate and see how u can fix that and start over. And he lets the dark twin out, it because his patience is over.
And it takes time and effort to bring the nice twin back to life.
Hi Patty!
I’m afraid that your particular Gemini is not to be trusted. If he’s already had an affair and was dirty to you while he did it then he’s made it pretty clear how he feels. I do not agree with Zack’s opinion,. You can only make it work if your guy WANTS it to work but by telling you that he will not touch you sexually and loves you but isn’t in love with you is a pretty loud statement. It means he’s not into you and trying to fix that will only cause you more pain and make him possibly have another affair. You may want to consider your options and figure out if you really think this guy is worth it. Love has to be a two way street and when it’s not, you’ve got to respect yourself and find a new life. He did and without you. You probably need to work on your own life path and find your own way. I wish you all the best!
My gemini man perused me, was kind, charming, passionate, attentive. very expressive but mostly during intimacy. Each time I began trusting him he would suddenly pull away, within 3 to 4 months. The cycle has happened 4 times over two years. He is secretive!. He tells me virtually nothing about his family, friends, job, or what he does during his free time. This makes me not trust him. What is he hiding.. I have tried everything to try to get him to talk to me about these subjects. If I was looking from the outside in I would say he is seeing other women cause there is no way he can go on so long as he does not seeing me and not having sex. There is such a connection and fun when we r together. He says he likes having me all to himself without having people interfere with us. He says he wishes he could see me more often but it never works out. The last thing he told me when I asked why cant we officially be together he said if I can always be the person that I am when I’m with you then we could be together. But he didn’t explain, wouldn’t explain what he meant. I know he has mood problems cause I saw he takes the natural Patric vitamins that stabilise mood swings. He looked at me and thought long and hard how to give me an answer and that’s all he could say. He does usually have a calm manner but he has sparked in anger when I tried to push him to communicate on the phone but then he always felt bad about it later and apologized. I want so much to believe in him as a good sensitive person who is just so conflicted inside and has no clear direction. I always tell him what great potential he has.. he has pushed me away again a week ago after another month of our relationship getting back together which was spectacular in our connection. He accepted to see me to talk about it and he spent the whole time hugging me and giving me compliments and how much he cared and thought I was special. So contradictory cause since then he refuses to see me but still answers my calls. He has pushed me to the edge and I can’t handle it anymore. He asked for some time space and I said fine have a good holiday and new year. I usually give hi. So much space . We never see each other more then once a week and sometimes less. He knows it means I am giving up and will not contact him again. I have decided to never give in to him again cause he is sooooo good at seducing me ! I hate him and love him and these feelings make me so eternally sad. I have no family where I live except my two kids, I wish I could have more with him cause he is unlike any man I ever met. But I know if he is not willing to commit then I deserve better. I pray god will watch over him cause I won’t be around anymore… I release you to the Univers beautiful gemini butterfly… off you go. Bless you always …
Hi Samantha!
Releasing him is a good way to go. If he truly loves you and he gets himself sorted out then he’ll be back but you’re right. You don’t deserve to live in torture and uncertainty when he’s blowing hot and cold. You deserve someone who is there for you and wants to have a life with you. Do you and do what you love to do in your life. You’ll find that things fall in line for you much better. Good luck honey!
Stop wasting your time. Why would you want to stay with someone who’s doing nothing to keep you? Imagine finding yourself again, and finding someone worthy of your love. Love yourself! Time is valuable, stop wasting it on someone who appears he could care less.
Hi ScorpioHEAT! Thank you for voicing your thoughts. I would like to say that Gemini men do have some redeeming qualities that can be warm and charming. They are and can be one of the most comfortable people to be around. Just because a man is having some issues in his life and puts love on hold doesn’t mean he doesn’t want the partner in question. Only the two people in the situation would truly know what is best for them. What is needed to figure out each individual Gemini man is by learning how the typical Gemini works. Learning how they operate and do things could change things as far as how a woman handles it. Check out “Gemini Man Secrets”.
I have a guy friend that is Gemini we been friends for 3 months now. when I first met him everything was fine he was taking me out and coming to see me. one day he told me I was aggressive and he don’t see no relationship with me. I don’t know if I came on him to strong or what. now it’s different he don’t hardly text me he stop calling will he come back and start this friendship over?
Hi Kim! Truly the best thing you can do is reach out and ask him that exact question. It might surprise you to know bu sometimes if you are very direct like this, they will actually give you an answer. It might not be what you want to hear but you have to be prepared to receive the answer when you ask him the question otherwise you’re going to hang in limbo wondering. Don’t torture yourself, ask him what you want to know then accept what he tells you whether it’s positive or telling you he’s not interested. You need the courtesy to know if you should hang in there or give up and move forward. Check out everything you can on Gemini man via my book “Gemini Man Secrets”.
Gemini men are all woman abusers period! They get off on beating on a woman it makes them feel like a man period! They are alcoholics, liars, cheaters, physical abusers, p**sies, fake chicken sh*t mf period! If you ladies meet one RUN RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! SERIOUSLY i dnt care what any1 says about them i speak 100% truths! They will never stand up to a man thats forsure they are very affraid of men! Real talk! They all need to die period!!!! They are worthless no good for nothing they use woman they always try to come up on woman bcuz there lazy asses wont get a real job period!!!!
Hi Gina! Ouch! I have to tell you that as an Astrologer, I can assure that this is far from the truth. I personally know and have known many Geminis that have a heart of gold and are not all abusers or liars. That being said, I think that you should know that each person has ALL signs in their chart which means you have Gemini in your chart. Be careful when you condemn a sign because you have a touch of that sign as well. The other thing is, someone’s moon and rising signs definitely alter who they are among other aspects. Perhaps you’d like to learn more about Gemini before condemning all of them. Check out my book “Gemini Man Secrets”. Don’t blow them all off because of a few bad seeds.
Me myself don’t believe Gemini men are all the same but yes they have similar traits as I hear and see. I think they could be good if they are taught how to treat you. Always beware though, men are liars and cheaters because it’s in their DNA unfortunately!!
Hi Sandra! Good for you. I’m so glad to hear that you understand that not all Gemini men are the same. That would be crazy to think that they are. Everyone has a bit of Gemini in them since we have all 12 signs in our birth charts. Bearing people is not a bad practice but there should always be optimism involved too. Be optimistically cautious would be the more appropriate term for it I think. Anyway, if you or anyone you know would like to learn more about Gemini men, I highly suggest my book “Gemini Man Secrets”.
Yeah, this is the EXACT same for gemini women. Leo man here, dated half a dozen gemini women. WORST PEOPLE EVER! They’re demanding, flighty and untrustworthy.
They don’t give a damn about you until you absolutely cut them out of your life then SURPRISE SURPRISE, they start popping back up again.
They’ll use that fake ass “Oh your girlfriend is really pretty” bullshit to try to ply some answers out of you.
NEVER AGAIN!
Been dating a Libra chick for 3 months now and she is head and shoulders above EVERY SINGLE GEMINI WOMAN I’ve ever met.
Hi James!
Thank you for chiming in regarding what you know in terms of Gemini women. There are some differences between them and their male counterparts due to a hormonal thing. However, they do share quite a few of the same traits. I must warn you that though you had a bad experience, you cannot chalk them all up to the be the same. There are many more factors that play a role such as moon sign, rising sign, and perhaps their Mars. Please don’t cut yourself off from all Gemini women. I am one and I can tell you that I’d never behave this way. My Taurus husband could tell you how loving, giving, and loyal I am. Keep that in mind!
Wow! This article was spot on! I felt as of you were talking about my experience with the Gemini man. I’ve never felt so crazy in my life! Never again.
Anna,
I have tried and tried and tried so many things with my Gemini man. He keeps pushing me further and further away. I only ask him little things and he gets completely upset to the point where he does not want to talk to me and hangs up. Things such as a favorite show of mine I asked him if he liked and he told me the show is annoying and then will not tell me why. It’s obviously tied to him in some way, and I know that I cannot make him tell me why, but being the naturally curious person I am, I dont understand why he gets like this. Please help. Thank you for your gemini secrets books btw. I hope to understand him more as time goes on.
A guy I was dating was a Gemini and I just admit I have never experienced anything like it. Sounds horrible but I honestly thought he had bipolar or something. I honestly believe now it’s just his personality and a Gemini thing. He really hurt me by being drunk & not serious about meeting up he completely changed I told him I don’t like this new person I decided to block him. After 3 months he came to be and apologized said he really liked me missed me and he had grown up. We decided we would meet up and see how things went then lock down happened and spun everything in the air. But all we did was text never any phone calls or FaceTime. Then I noticed nothing. I asked why he was so cold and he flipped at me for calling him out on his behavior said he was done & told me to move on. He then blocked me but kept sending me messages on Snapchat for 3 days saying how amazing I was, I chatted to him normally didn’t full on flirt with him & then he blocked me on Snapchat. It’s been now a week since Iv been completely blocked on everything now. Can’t reach out at all. Do you recon he will unblock me so we can talk properly? I am focusing on myself and my own health but would be interesting to see if we could have a grown up conversation at some point? Maybe when things in the world and he has calmed down?
I was married to a gemini man for 5 years and it was tough. He was all of these things that most of the women here are talking about, unreliable, selfish, flaky, but in the same time the most lovable man I have ever been with. No one in my whole life loved me like him and alas no one disrespected me like he did. So that’ s where this bizzare dual peersonality comes to play. He never believed a word from my mouth although he used to do his little investigation on every word that I said. Tjen he wpuld have to admit I was telling truth only to go back on that and say that I am a liar. So, they are difficult people, not to figure out, but to live with. After one of those epizodes I decided to leave him and then he became even more hostile and bitter. It ended by me blocking him totally. And guess what, he’ s hurt to the core. I think that we all have a fair share of good and bad traits and it’s mostly about how patient you are and how strong your love for that person really is. Still, I will always love him and wish him well but I would never ever take him back into my life.
I’ve been with my Gemini man for 18 months, I’m a Taurus woman and I have to say I’ve never felt soo loved by any other man in my life, I love him soo much.However being with a Gemini man will be like riding a rollercoaster, there will be highs and lows, which is inevitable.He is very loving, caring and protective, the sex is amazing, he’s not out for his own pleasure, and it’s extremely important to him to know that I’ve enjoyed moment of our love making. But he can flip the switch at the drop of a hat, which leaves you wondering what on earth just happened, what did I just miss??.Gemini man are intense, witty and moody they never like to loose an argument, but can be insensitive and say whatever is on their minds, and don’t care whether or not you like it.They are intellectual beings and love to debate any topic. You can learn a lot from a from a Gemini guy, they are deep thinkers and want to learn new things and varying opinions that gives him things to think about. Dating or being in a relationship with these men, if he’s into you,will be a fun, intense, emotional and at times confusing but never boring?x
It’s all about their moon !!!
My man’s gemini Scorpio moon
Need I say more……
I have dated a couple of gemini men in my life and 2 of them ended just before the alter.
I really don’t think Gemini man is aware of the damage they do to their significant other in a quest to find perfection in a partner. I have a very strong personality and so far no other star sign has made me bend over backwards like the Gemini man have and all the time it has been for their selfish desires.
I have to say as far as charm goes no other star sign beats them. I’m not saying other signs are not charming but Gemini men are good at presenting a certain picture of what you want and maintain it for a considerable long time, they can keep it until they are sure you’ve fallen for it. So if it takes you two years they will be charming for 2 years. I’m personally a 3 year person; after 3 years I fully trust and give away all my secrets. They then take that information and use it to manipulate me to get what they want. Let me illustrate… When I met my ex I was not a church goer… He knowing my background encouraged both of us to look for a church and picked one he thought was good. Unfortunately for him, the church he chose had strict rules, I guess he thought that’ll be a good way to keep me in check but he didn’t realize that they’re also strict about sex before marriage, which all Gemini struggle with (all men need sex but Gemini men NEED it). He started by planting doubt seeds about the church leaders in my mind, I didn’t badge. Then he quit church and at the same time moved in with me. Making it very difficult for me to leave him in the house on Sundays mornings…. I still did. Then he proposed marriage. Claiming the church leaders had forbidden him to propose that’s why he never did. All this made me start to believe he was right and they were wrong.
I regret this to this day because soon after I said yes the abuse started. First he bought a car and told me it was mine. Then soon after, because he knew how much I loved to drive he would use the car to manipulate me to do what he wants, if we fought he’ll take the car keys with him and blame me for it. He’ll monitor my every move. Then when that didn’t work he started physically pushing me and pinning me on walls to get me to do what he wants. And if that failed he’ll start smashing glasses or anything breakable on the wall… I’m very stubborn and confrontational so I’ll confront him about it. Then he’d smashed my phone. I eventually left him.
What I realized is that a Gemini man’s expectations are too high for any human being and in their quest for you to be perfect for them they’ll manipulate, abuse and hurt you anyway possible to get what they want… Gaslighting is their favorite thing to do… And because they think they’re so smart, they believe all bad actions in a relationship are the other person’s fault and should be awarded with equal bad actions and they don’t realize that sometimes all their significant other wants is for them to acknowledge that they have multiple personalities and also dealing with other things. Be more open about themselves instead of trying to bury the ugly side by lying and manipulation because sometimes opening up makes us all realize we are humans and perfection is never the goal. Just understanding is enough.
Instead, they have zero empathy and cannot relate with other people unless it’s beneficial to them.
I have forgiven my ex and I understand that we are all not perfect. The worst thing is trying to be perfect because another human being demands it from you when they themselves are not.
A few months after I met another Gemini man and within a few months he wanted to marry me. It goes without saying that I ended the relationship soon after that proposal. Gemini men seem to fall on me like flies and I seem to be attracted to them more, maybe it’s something I need to deal with because it’s a weakness they love about me.
I will never knowingly be involved with Gemini man again in my life. I don’t hate them, I just think the pain of dealing with them is way too much more than the joy of being with them.
Help? I started talking to a Gemini in September. He was immediately flirty and after several weeks, we started sort of sexting. We’ve had plans to meet and hang out twice (we’ve actually never met). The first time he had to cancel (but I didn’t hear from him for 4 days before we were supposed to hang out and I had to reach out to him) and the second time I just never heard from him. He’s told me several times that he likes me. We are both going through divorces, in different stages. He, at one point, asked me what I wanted from him. I told him that he was a guy that I wanted to get to know better. He responded with he’s not looking for an immediate long term relationship, but that doesn’t mean it can’t happen. Well, now it’s been a week and a half since I’ve heard from him and the last few times I’ve had to initiate first contact… what gives? Am I wasting my time? Should I run? Did he catch early feelings and freak out?
Amanda.
Run as fast as you can and don’t look back.
He is like the rest of them, thinks he can play games with your emotions.
Pester you with texts when he is bored late at night.
Promise you and all the other women everything because he can, draws you in
and then ignores you for weeks.
Don’t lower yourself ,he will respect you more if you ignore him.
There are plenty of decent , normal men out there. Find one, and kick the
loser into touch.
Hi Katie!
I’m sorry to hear you say that sweetheart. Not all Gemini men are the same to it’s really not a good idea to stereotype them. How you are to him is how he will respond. It has a lot to do with what you will and will not put up with. Don’t invest in him if he’s not giving you an investment. Communication is VERY important. You’re right, don’t lower yourself the he will respect you more. They also like to be the one doing the chasing so it’s a good idea to back off and let him come after you. There is a lot more you can learn by reading my books on Gemini Man Secrets.
Please girls listen to me closely. She will tell you as an astrologer they are not all the same, they are. I was married to one that is a good guy but he couldn’t help cheating. Then when i was separated i met another one. Swept me off my feet, bought presents, best sex i ever had, i fell deeply in love only to find out he was married, had multiple girls on the side, caught him readhanded with pics, and he would still deny it!!!! I’m telling you, stay away from this sign. They can be good guys like my ex who’s a great dad but they will still cheat and break your heart. Run AWAY!!!!!!!!!!! And Ana i appreciate you as a Gemini, girls and guys are different. I have so many gemini guy friends. They all cheat.
Hi Mk!
Ok so you’ve had more than one bad seed. Let me tell you why it’s impossible for them to all be the same. Each person on this earth has a birth chart. We all have all 12 zodiac signs in the chart. That also would mean you have Gemini in your chart and it affects your life in a certain way. Gemini men have a variety of personalities according to their Rising sign, Moon sign, Mars, and even Venus. So no, they are Not all exactly the same but can carry some of the same characteristics. Ruling out a sign because of a few bad seeds really makes you miss out on opportunities. It’s your choice but before you write them all off, you might want to check out what I said because it can change the core of who they are. I’d be interested to know where Gemini is in your chart. I bet it would be quite informative. 🙂
Hi Anna,
I have been talking to a Gemini Male, who I very much like and he knows this, for nearly three years. We mainly spoke over messaging or text. I have been incredibly persistent in talking to him, not taking no for answer, trying to appeal to his interests, and flirting. Within the last couple months now, he suggested an ‘arrangement’ where we would meet for erotic fun – no sex – but he clarified it would be purely selfish on his part and that nothing would be reciprocated with the understanding that he nor I would do anything with anyone else while he and I were ‘having fun’ and would end if we found someone else we may find interest in. He stated that a romantic relationship would never happen between us earlier in our meets. He keeps saying my persistence is my advantage. Within the last month, he has been paying attention to me in the erotic fun sense, which said he never would do but felt bad and felt like he should be giving me a little something in return. We are talking more deeply about topics lately where as before it was more superficial musings HIs mother passed away on September 17th, 2021, he was also very sick with a sinus infection, and he messaged me at 5 am asking me if I would go and get him a list of things so he could sleep and treat his illness. Of course I obliged and this was two days before his mother died and he told me that morning his mother was dying. I tried to be there for him through messaging and I even told him that I wasn’t sure how to communication with him at this time as he was unresponsive or incredibly mood, and that I understood. I was just with him very recently and he stated again that a relationship would not happen between us and he went further to say that he is not ready to be with anyone because he says he is just too selfish, that I won’t get over the wall he has up, and he was/is still VERY hurt by and messed up from a relationship he had 22 years ago with the mother of his twin girls, but he says it isn’t all that. [ His backstory, briefly: His childhood wasn’t the best as he had a bipolar father, his mother suffered from anxiety and panic attacks, and his sister is bipolar and has a personality disorder]. I believe he said more, but the wine I had is making my memory of that conversation a bit fuzzy. He also stated that he always went for the girls that had interest in him because they were the safe choice and no fear of rejection. He never got the chance to choose who he wanted to be with and make a relationship happen. Those aforementioned feelings came out after I asked him if he was shy or felt nervous around me and he stated not at all because he knew I liked him and there was no fear of rejection. I am not sure what to think. I know Gemini’s are dual minded, dual personalities, and dual everything, but I wonder – is he telling the truth when he says that nothing romantic will transpire between us? Will he ever change is every changing mind about us being romantically involved? He is a super wonderful human being, obviously due to his being a Gemini he has great qualities and shows them to me but again, I am unsure if I should keep being patient with him, have a unemotional rational conversation about where I stand, or do I back off? My intuition and my gut feelings says that I don’t buy into his saying a romantic relationship won’t ever happen between us. I do not have his time of birth but I do have his location of birth. DOB: 06/02/1972 and my DOB is 11/19/1979. I’d be happen to share further details in a more private medium. Thank you for listening. Any advice would be greatly appreciated very, very much. P.S. I did get your Gemini Secrets books and a lot of other Gemini materials you offered. I read them all.
Hi Amy!
Whether he may change his mind or not, all you have to go on is what he’s said and what his actions are. Gemini do change their minds quite often but you cannot rely on that. You have to rely on what you know. I think you probably should pull back because Gemini is one of those signs that can try to chase you if you stop talking. They don’t like to lose. Don’t give up on finding love. It may happen with him later or there may be someone else. Don’t close your heart off. Amy since you do have the books, you do get one free VIP consultation but you need to email me to get it. I’ll keep an eye out for your email.
This sounds exactly like my baby daddy lol. I’ll first say I’m a Sagittarius. We broke up when it was 5 months pregnant. He hasn’t been around but now our son is 5, and he’s insisting to get back in his life. He is 40, and I am 25 now. His girlfriend is close to his age, and he wants to be with me, or so he says. I fell for his smooth words before. I feel like Gemini can Def be narcissistic. But Gemini men are hot ughhhh. I think I’m being played here. No heart break like a Gemini man. I’m already feeling feelings again after just a couple weeks of talking.
Gemin’s are the worst for dating. I’d never date one again. Lies, cheaters, no morals or concern for the wellbeing of their partner, zero trust. They play games, pretent to love you, cant make up their mind and cheat secretly.
Have some integrity. Just awful.
I just wasted the last two years of my life with a Gemini man. In the beginning he was very jealous and controlling. He lied about so many things. Big things! We broke up so many times and he kept coming back saying we are meant to be together. Of course the sex was amazing because he was so toxic. He didn’t know how to have an argument. He either gave me silent treatment or called me names and yelled at me. I ended up marrying him and 3 weeks after I caught him in another lie and HE flipped his switch and became angry. He beat me up in a rage. Then he said it was my fault bc there are only two women in this world that make him that angry.. (me and his ex wife). I am so glad I divorced him and I pray he leaves me alone. I will NEVER date another Gemini as long as I live!
Girl, can I ask you some advice beyond this site. I had really bad time dealing with my ex gemini.
You have described my Gemini ex 100%. He can be very caring one minute and very rude the next. I don’t know how I dated him for so many years. We have great connection but also a toxic one. We broke up so many times and got back together. I was hoping he would change. I can’t do it anymore. If I meet another Gemini guy I will run!
Dear Mina,
I know exactly how you feel! Keep in mind that the Gemini man has two personalities. This can cause him to have any sort of mood at any given moment. He could be in a mood that is making him want to be alone or undisturbed.
He could be feeling overwhelmed by something as well. Whatever it is, he needs patience from you. If it has nothing to do with you, then it won’t be a big deal. He’ll tell you what’s going on.
If it does have to do with you, then that’s a different story – and you will have to wait until he actually is ready to discuss it with you. Either way, you have to basically sit on the back burner until he comes out of this mood.
If you are having a hard time dealing with this and if you are losing patience, perhaps being open to new experiences would be good for you. After all, toxic relationships make us push things to the next level and walking out is usually a good choice.
Best of luck to you!