If you’re dating a Gemini man and you’ve noticed a slump in the passion department, there are likely several questions running through your mind. Did I do something? How can I fix this? What would better engage my Gemini in the relationship?
As a long-time Relationship Astrologer, I’ve seen this occur time and time again. There is little more frustrating to a Gemini than a relationship gone stale, so I am sure that he’d appreciate you studying up on this! You’ve taken the first step in the right direction to firing your relationship with a Gemini man back up.
Are you ready to hear my five best ways to spice up your relationship with a Gemini man? If so, keep on reading to gain the insight that I have to offer.
5 Ways To Spice Up Your Love Life With A Gemini Man
1. Talk More About Romance And Sex
Gemini men are ruled by the speedster planet Mercury. Mercury rules everything talkative, speedy, and intelligent. It should come as no surprise to you that Gemini likes to chat, and we love them for it (most of the time).
Gemini’s process the world verbally and what they talk about is exactly what is on their minds, in most cases. This is why it’s important to make sure that you’re talking about the things you would like to see more of in your relationship. This is the best way to ensure that the Gemini gets the picture. Communication is key in every relationship – and this goes double for one with a Gemini!
The trick is, Gemini’s like to talk about things in theory. When it’s about real-life relationship things, well, it hits a little too close to home for the Gemini. So, my advice is to share your thoughts about sex and romance in general, and don’t make it just about him unless there’s no other choice. You’ll find that he’ll be more open to change when it’s a conclusion he comes to on his own.
2. Lighten Up
Gemini’s are extremely smart and they sometimes have a teacher vibe to them. They take an academic interest in many things but don’t often get too emotionally involved. They’re perfectly fine looking at and analyzing the car without actually driving it off the lot. This can be a source of frustration in a relationship, but there are ways to make it work to your advantage.
Gemini struggles to go deep and to self-analyze. They are too busy analyzing the rest of the world, after all. Every relationship needs to have deep talks to function, so while I am not suggesting that things NEVER should be serious, it’s also important that the Gemini gets plenty of time away from the intensity to decompress.
Gemini’s who feel free to flit around and mentally explore without a crushing burden of their relationship on them will stick around far longer. Gemini’s need to have a good ratio of deep and shallow. They thrive in the cerebral, and not so much in the emotional depths.
Your Gemini guy will feel engaged in a relationship where he can be himself. Being a generalist is simply where he feels most comfortable. Try to be understanding when he becomes burnt out from too much deep relationship talk. This will ensure he has the mental energy to get flirty and fun with you after the heart to hearts are over.
3. Don’t Let Sex Get Stale
Gemini is what is known as a mutable sign, meaning that he can pivot on a dime when it comes to any subject. He’s flexible and able to cooperate well with many types of people due to his ability to change his approach at any moment. This is also what keeps Gemini so easily bored!
Yes, it’s true, Gemini has an extremely short attention span. They flit from subject to subject like the wind changes direction. Stimulation needs to be constant and ever-changing to satisfy your Gemini lover. When it comes to sex, this is no different.
In order to satisfy a Gemini man, you’ll need to be very creative and adventurous in equal measure. Coming up with new things to do in the bedroom can be exhausting! I highly recommend a quantity new sex acts versus sticking with old standbys.
This is going to mean that sometimes sex isn’t mind-blowing, but that’s okay. It never is 100% of the time. And every once in a while, you’ll stumble upon a fun new act that really knocks your socks off!
4. Sexting Is A Must
Gemini is an air sign, meaning that they’re intelligent and social. It also means that deep bonds and true one to one connection is a struggle for them. Gemini’s and the other air signs tend to take people at face value without having much of an interest for being saddled with their baggage. It’s nothing personal, it’s just that they enjoy a certain amount of space between themselves and heavy emotions.
Gemini is a sexual being, but it can be really difficult to get up close and personal at times. The emotional burden of sex can feel like a lot to him. Most Gemini’s overcome this and do fine, but it doesn’t mean that they don’t like some lighter fare at times. Enter: Sexting.
Sexting must have been invented by a Gemini because it checks all the boxes for them! Words? Yep. Sexy times? Indeed. Being in his own space while still being social? Check, check!
I’d brush up on your flirty texting skills and be scandalous at the most inopportune times. Try sending him a nude while he’s at work or sending sexy voice clips while he’s driving. This is going to make him go insane in the best way possible and it’ll be a total tease!
5. Take An Interest In His Interests
Gemini men are far more cerebral than the average guy. They think a lot about a lot of things. I’ve heard many say that shutting their mind off is impossible. This is exactly how they gain such a wide array of interests. With nothing to occupy their mind they would go totally insane.
Gemini’s are most invested in a relationship when their thoughts are being taken into account. Their love language is definitely displayed best through mental connection. Being able to have a great conversation with another will totally endear them to that person.
To make sure that you’ve got lots to talk about, make sure that you’re relating to them as often as you can. They want to know that their thoughts and opinions have been heard. When you show them that you believe they are intelligent and that you’re intrigued by their interests the Gemini man will feel much more comfortable letting his guard down and letting you in.
Gemini men will also reciprocate this to you. They love learning new things so hearing what your opinions and thoughts are will certainly appeal to them. They’re always listening and absorbing what you say. They’re great talkers but they’re also wonderful listeners.
What do you think? Did any of these tips hit home? I’m dying to know how you want to incorporate them into your love life. If you have a plan for how you’ll spice up your love life then let me know in the comments below!
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Wishing you luck with your Gemini guy!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,