7 Things That Kill A Gemini Man’s Desire For You

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
What kills a Gemini man’s desire for you? What makes that flame of his die, makes him stop seeing you as his number-one person? Well, many things… after all, Gemini is a fickle sign whose desires and needs change every moment. How do you keep up? Here’s a few tips: 

What kills a Gemini man’s desire for you? What makes that flame of his die, makes him stop seeing you as his number-one person? Well, many things… after all, Gemini is a fickle sign whose desires and needs change every moment. How do you keep up? Here’s a few tips: 

Desire is fickle, and so is a Gemini man! He’s always changing, and loves a complex problem to figure out, or else he gets bored. Most of the time, killing his desire is not even your fault. No one can be that interesting, one hundred percent of the time! 

However, it can help to know a little more about his character and see what else kills his desire for you. It’s not just boredom, of course! Once you know, you can make a real effort to stay desirable for him, and gain his love and respect. 

Of course, you should never change who you are for a man. But, if there are certain little habits that are easy to tweak, why not try and adapt yourself a little bit? After all, that’s what relationship are all about – learning to be flexible and growing! 

So, without further ado, these are my top seven things that tend to kill a Gemini man’s desire for you (and what to do about it!): 

7 Things That Kill A Gemini Man’s Desire For You

1. Being Too Serious

Things That Kill A Gemini Man's Desire For You

Gemini is a sign that loves to keep things light and fresh, plus he adores laughing and making fun of you, life, and himself. You’re always in for a roast when it comes to dating a Gemini man! 

So, one of the quickest ways to kill his desire for you is when you are just too serious all the time. When every laugh turns into a heavy conversation, or when you can’t laugh at yourself. The truth is, ladies, you’ll gave to grow a very thick skin in order to deal with the Gemini man’s jokes! 

It also helps not to take yourself so seriously anyway! Life is too short to do anything but enjoy it, at least according to the Gemini man! Does that mean you can never be serious? Of course not. But just don’t let it be too much of a habit, as it does tend to bring him down and turn him off. 

2. Forcing Him To Commit Before He’s Ready

Gemini is a sign that’s well-known for their difficulty committing. However, that doesn’t mean he can’t commit – it just means that it takes some time for him to make up his mind and settle. 

So, if you interrupt that process and try to draw some sort of commitment from him too soon (let’s say in the first six months, for example), it’s likely that you’ll kill his desire for you. He won’t see you as fun and easy-breezy anymore, but as potentially desperate.  

It will be hard, having to wait for him, but at the same time, once he sees you are committed over time, he’s also much more likely to commit himself. And when he does, he makes a truly amazing partner! 

3. Too Much Routine & Not Enough Change 

Things That Kill Gemini Man's Desire

Are you the type of girl who likes to snuggle up every Friday night on the couch and order takeout? That’s okay – we all love our rituals and routines. However, if that’s your forever thing and you’re not keen on change, well, you’re probably going to have a bit of a problem! 

So, whatever you do, change your routine up if you want to keep the Gemini man around. Introduce new rituals regularly, try new foods, new restaurants, new friends. New places are also a major win! 

If you don’t, and there’s not enough variety, well, you may soon be waving goodbye to your Gemini fella. Don’t say I didn’t warn you! 

4. Not Being Complex Or Interesting

Here’s the thing with Gemini men – they love a woman who’s complicated, complex, and constantly fascinating. Yes, that may be a hard image to live up to, but at least you can take comfort in the fact that if you’re a bit on the challenging side, he’ll adore you and his desire will last forever! 

If you’re doubting your complexity, just try taking up a passion here and there which will make your life interesting. That’s more than enough to keep his desire going for you in the long run. And if you’re not that much of a mystery, don’t try too hard to change yourself

After all, he’s got to love you for who you really are, not who he wants you to be. Not all of us are basket cases, and it’s better than way, right? Right! Stability can be sexy, too, but just perhaps not to the typical Gemini man. 

5. If You Can’t Laugh Together

Laughing is a major turn-on for Gemini men. They are very playful types, fun-loving and almost quite youthful – like a teenager! They love watch stand-up comedy, as well as enjoy cracking jokes about everyone around them. 

Sometimes, those jokes can be a touch mocking or even sarcastic. There are some jokes that you may not be able to bring yourself to laugh at, but at the end of the day, most of the time, he will bring a smile to your face! 

It’s only when you stop laughing at his jokes or laughing at life, that his desire begins to wane. Maybe life has gotten quite serious, and it’s no one fault – but try and bring that lightness back in, if you can. Even if it’s just a meme a day! 

6. No Social Life

As an air sign, Gemini men are ultra-social. They love spending time with friends, at parties, for example. They are typically social butterflies, and are charming, chatty, and outgoing. 

If you’re more of a homebody, that’s okay, of course! However, it will be a bit of a challenge and may dampen his desire for you. He ideally would love you at his side, having fun and making new friends. 

So, if you want the Gemini man’s desire to last, try and be a little more social – it won’t kill you, right? 

Read next: Gemini Man Turn Ons: 5 Things He Really Loves in a Woman

7. Not Having Fun Anymore

Fun is one of the most important components of a relationship with a Gemini guy! If there’s no more fun anymore, he will get bored and lose a lot of that desire for you! 

Fun means going out, being special, laughing, playing tricks, having great conversations, trying new things, and treating life as a serious of adventures. 

Of course, this doesn’t mean that he can’t have anything serious happen – he can – but it needs to be as balanced as possible with the good stuff. Try and keep that in mind when you’re dating him! 

Does this all ring true for you? Have you ever dated a Gemini guy, or are you dating one right now? What have you found kills his desire for you – and what turns it all the way up? 

Your stories are always important to me, and I learn so much from you, my readers! Feel free to leave your comments in the comments box below! 

And now that you know they keys to keeping your Gemini man around and interested, why not find out if you two are the perfect match? Take my free compatibility quiz here!

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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6 thoughts on “7 Things That Kill A Gemini Man’s Desire For You

  1. Anna I love you so much,, thanks to you I have insight and am preparing for Gemini mans secret. Yes ts true he is hard to pin down, difficult to understand, hard to catch. He loves me alot n his love even pulled me but yet he is delaying to come together, he always talk to me in parables of marriage n the special one he is going to marry. He hides his feelings too. But when we talk on fone we really laugh together. Am a Capricorn woman. Ur friend Gladys.

    1. Hi Gladys!

      Bless you! I’m glad that you can make use of the insight. All you need do is what you’re doing already and with patience. Capricorn is one of the most patient sign I know. You’re a steady earth sign that gives flighty Gemini stability. This is an excellent match. If you’d like to learn more about him though, check out my books on Gemini Man Secrets!

  2. Hello and thanks for all your help. My Gemini man is the first Gemini I have ever been with and I am a scorpio. You left out 1 other big thing that turns them off. Jealously. I had an insecure moment and said sothing I shouldnt have. Now he is upset and not talking to me. Geezz

    1. Hi Debbie!

      My pleasure for the help darling. Oh boy… it’s always an experience with the first Gemini isn’t it? Jealousy definitely turns them off. They flirt a lot and they don’t like it when a partner doesn’t trust him. That’s basically what can possibly cause a rift. You’re going to have to tell him that you’re learning to trust fully and will work on your jealous tendencies. Scorpio is naturally untrusting so that’s difficult, I understand. Work on it though and it just may work! Check out my books on Gemini Man Secrets as it could help you much more than the articles!

  3. We have yet to meet in person, Anna, But he told me just this morning, he wants me there with him when he goes on tour soon. His management will come to pick me up in the plane and bring me to him! He also mentioned last night that he is pretty sure that he wants to spend forever with me, and then he asked what kind of gifts i liked. I told him I had never really thought of receiving gifts as just being with him would be gift enough for me. He insisted on buying me a gift, so I told him” okay, I do like red roses, if that is okay with you”. Now I am waiting to see if I will receive a big bouquet of red roses soon. The subject of Marriage came up too from him last night, but I didn’t get too excited just yet. I just said, “Honey, what will your folks say? and your fans?” He replied, “My fans are just my fans” whatever that is to imply…
    We will see what happens. I wanted to meet him on his Birthday which is coming right up on the 12th of June, but he is busy recording an album right now and says he doesn’t know if he will be finished in time, so we will have to see if things pan out.

    1. Hi Teresa!

      Oh that sounds wonderful sweetheart! That sounds like a beautiful adventure. I wish you all the very best with your Gemini guy. He sounds like he’s quite enamored with you or the idea of you. You’ll know if it’s right when you two meet up in person. It’s easy for him to get caught up in his excitement of the newness but in person will make or brake it. Be yourself always! If you would like to learn more about the mind of a Gemini man, check out Gemini Man Secrets.

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