The Gemini man is charming and funny, which likely led you to him this Summer. You might just be so enthralled by him that you wonder, how can I show him that staying together well past the end of Summer is the key to overall happiness in love? What do I have to do to make him see out bright future together?
I’m Anna Kovach, a longtime Relationship Astrologer who has seen Gemini men succeed in long term relationships with the right touch! I’ve noticed that there are a few techniques that seem to really perfect the Gemini man’s relationship potential.
I’m excited to share the knowledge that I have with you. Stay with me and keep reading for my four core tips for keeping a Gemini man interested into the colder months and beyond!
4 Ways To Turn A Summer Flirt With A Gemini Man Into A Strong Relationship
1. Keep Things Light
When you’re in a Summer flirt with a Gemini, he’s in his element! The Gemini man loves a relationship that skims the surface and keeps things feeling light and fluffy. This is why it’s so easy to love a Gemini as a Summer fling… he’s so insanely charming in this sort of relationship that it draws you in.
How can you make this feeling last for a long time? Keep this vibe going! Gemini will stick with someone who doesn’t put on the pressure. Gemini isn’t one for sticking around for the hard times… his mind will flit to something more interesting than the weight hanging over his head.
So don’t frame a long-term relationship as a weight to carry or a responsibility. Make the Gemini believe that the fun will never stop, even after a long time of being monogamous! You kind of have to pitch a long-term relationship to the Gemini like it’s going to be a fun, extended Summer camp with his lady love.
Of course, relationships have times of struggle, but don’t make this the focus if you’d like to entice a Gemini into a strong relationship. He’s going to be more enraptured by the idea of good times forever rather than a long-term responsibility!
2. Make Time For Chit Chat
Gemini’s are ruled by the planet Mercury, who had connections with Hermes, the Greek God of messages. If you know anything about him, you know he’s flying around, passing gossip and deets around to the other Gods… he’s always in the know and always wants to talk about it!
Gemini’s are much the same way. He is always learning and always gathering information from books, documentaries, other people, and so on. He has a lot of details and is highly motivated to share this information… he’s a pro at connecting others with information.
You should be a good conversationalist who takes interest in what your Gemini has to say if you’re looking to get serious with him. You’ll need to be good at listening and responding in order to keep the Gemini’s attention.
‘Shooting the breeze’ is an important part of relationships with a Gemini, you’ll find. He needs to be able to have casual conversation all day long, and if you can portray that you’re receptive to this concept he’ll be ecstatic. This is when he begins to realize that maybe a long-term relationship with you is possible!
3. Go With The Flow
Gemini men are the types to switch things up at the last minute. Think about the fact that Mercury (his ruling planet) is not only speedy, but highly changeable! I know you’ve heard of Mercury Retrograde, and that can happen three times a year – that’s More than any other planetary body in our sky.
Taking a cue from Mercury, we know that Gemini men are changeable. You have to show him that you can keep up with his changing moods, positions on subjects, and sometimes contradictory actions. Your Gemini man is the type to be anti-something one day and then pro-something the next.
You should show him that you won’t judge him or call him out on this, since it’s just his nature. He can see all sides of a subject so he tends to bounce around a lot.
Gemini men also make a lot of last-minute decisions. They’re the type to call you at 2am to go to a new late-night diner… 3 hours away. If you roll with this impulsive action then you’ll show the Gemini man that you accept him for all aspects and that you can roll with whatever is on his mind. This might just show him that a strong relationship that grows well past Summer’s end is the right move!
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4. Ask Questions
Gemini men know a little about a lot. They are a jack-of-all-trades type who soaks up new information like a dry sponge. The Gemini is one of the most intelligent signs of the Zodiac and it shows when he disseminates information.
Gemini wants people to be interested in all of this knowledge he’s acquired. He can feel pretty empty when no one wants to know what information he’s gathered up. In this case, the Gemini will just move along until they find someone who will appreciate what they have to say.
You can assist the Gemini man in feeling accepted by asking him questions about things he’s interested in before this happens. Notice what he spends his time on, the videos that he watches on YouTube, what he talks about on social media, etc. Then ask him questions about these things!
This is going to seduce the Gemini man in a big way and totally endear him to you because usually he is the one being interested in what everyone else has going on. Not enough people ask him what’s going on in his mind, as far as he sees it. You’ll show him that partnering up isn’t so bad when your partner is genuinely interested in what he thinks.
Have you been in a long-term relationship with a Gemini man? What were your techniques to empower him to stay with you? Let me know in the comments below!
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Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,
Anna Kovach
