Hello my dear, and welcome to the horoscope reading for your Gemini man for October. The year is racing to a climax, and you’ll be pleased to know that the transits for this particular week offer the scope for some intensity, passion, emotional connectivity, and there’s also a bit of good luck and spontaneity.
In fact, it is a rather stimulating month on a number of levels, and that’s always good for relationships because it means there’s a variety of energies that you can tap into in order to remold the relationship.
What’s important as well, is understanding the power basis of the relationship, tapping into the subtext, the context, the hidden motives and agendas that you and your partner have, and working with those in order to get a better result.
So often, I feel people fail in relationships because they keep on a surface, verbal level without understanding what’s really behind the facade, what’s behind the words, and what lies beneath. I feel this is a great time to uncover what lies beneath and then shift your overall perspective of the relationship to achieve relationship goals.
Here’s what the stars have in store for a Gemini Man this October…
New Moon in Libra – 2nd of October
This New Moon is conjunct Mercury, which is obviously the ruler of Gemini Man, and it’s also happening in his solar fifth house. This represents an excellent time for novelty, spontaneity, better communication, and also enjoyment.
It’s certainly a time when a spark can be reignited and a whole new intention can be set, especially about taking your lives off the boil. What you don’t want to do is create scenarios where you feel trapped and bogged down, or perhaps you’re doing a lot of people-pleasing or putting up with friends and family who are a little bit needy.
This is a great time to spend with people who enhance your life, who give you a laugh, and doing those activities that are inspiring. The message right now is to reboot, refresh, and make sure that the kind of activities you get involved in reinforce a positive vibe and give his ego a boost because, right now, he needs to feel like he’s winning. In your relationship, do things that will give you a win; perhaps delay things that are going to bring you down, if possible.
Jupiter Retrograde in Gemini – 9th of October
Jupiter is retrograde in his home sign of Gemini, and sometimes this can lead to a problem with perspective. There can be elements of his life that are running away like a steam train and other elements that are being totally neglected. So, the key with this particular retrograde is to understand how to balance things out in your life.
This can also be a time of excessive people-pleasing and even avoidance, so sometimes there needs to be a line drawn with certain people—friends, family members—where he’s devoting too much time.
On the other hand, this may also need to be a phase where things in your relationship have to be clarified. What can happen during this retrograde is certain ideas can manifest in his head and become hard to dislodge, so you have to tackle any misconceptions or any areas where the relationship is heading off in the wrong direction.
Mercury enters Scorpio – 14th of October
Now, this is an excellent time for him doing a little bit of hard work. That means that a Gemini man can be quite serious and focused right now. So, if you have felt that there’s anything—perhaps it’s something to do with bureaucracy or admin—that needs to be tackled, fixed, and got to grips with, this is a really good time to do it.
However, it’s also a fantastic time in your lives for purging, for getting rid of those things that detract from your relationship, and this often means freeing up time. This is an excellent time for a major declutter—get rid of toxic influences, whether they are activities, addictions, or friends.
Also, recognize any activities that have been a bit of a crutch but which you don’t need anymore. Crutches can be things like takeaway food, video games, and other things that are a crutch for the short term but, in the long term, are a no-no. So, identify issues that are crutches and ultimately destructive, and get rid of them.
Venus enters Sagittarius – 18th of October
Now, this reinforces the positive vibe in relationships that can be set up on the New Moon. So, for those of you who initiated new activities, created a lot of positivity, and began taking care of yourselves as a couple by looking after your emotional lives and rebooting affection, this can be an awesome time for love. This is quite a good time to arrange parties and get-togethers to celebrate a relationship milestone or just spoil yourselves.
Whatever you do, this is a time for creating harmony, being cooperative with each other, and reinforcing trust and appreciation. What a Gemini man wants to feel right now is that he is lovable, that you have a great deal of admiration for him, and that he is doing the right thing in your relationship. It’s easy to scold our partners when they get it wrong, but sometimes people need encouragement, so definitely more carrot and less stick.
Sun enters Scorpio – 23rd of October
This is an awesome time to reinforce good routines and health habits. Hopefully, during the early part of the month, you’ve done some purging, reorganizing, and addressing that work-life balance.
Now it’s time to take that forward even a step further by introducing positive new routines. Basic things are important, so right now, in love, get the basics right. Have an evening walk together, just away from the Wi-Fi and devices, out in the fresh air and enjoying the weather, no matter what it is.
Also, basics like good timekeeping and keeping promises are very important. I know Gemini is not always good on those things, but try and help him by drawing up lists and using any apps on the phone to help remind him of things that are important because all these things contribute to a relationship flowing easily.
Themes for a Gemini Man this October 2024…
This is a really productive and interesting week in terms of love and romance. There is certainly an opportunity for increased affection, getting on better, improving understanding, and fun, so date nights are definitely on the cards.
There’s also an element of understanding problems and mismanagement in terms of your relationship and the rest of your life, so you can address those imbalances.
It’s a good time for brand new relationships, but brand new relationships need to start with a strong focus and understanding of what you both need and require from the relationship. So, new relationships need those important conversations early on.
Magic Motto: “We balance passion with purpose and nurture the bond with understanding and trust.”
Magic Text: “Together, let’s create a love that inspires, supports, and grows stronger with every challenge and triumph.”
Do
The moon waxes from the 2nd to the 17th of the month and this two-week period is perfect for new activities, dating, relationship goals and starting any new projects. After the 17th, you have to capitalize on what you have now achieved, reflect and take a grounded, more than a dynamic response.
A good month for his career goals and new ventures. PR events and public speaking initiatives are favored. This is a helpful waxing phase for Gemini Men looking for work or starting their own business. This is an excellent time to promote himself or seek to impress authority. He may receive recognition.
Avoid
This isn’t a great waxing phase for money decisions or making investments. This is also not ideal for large, considered purchases or ploughing more money into his business.
In new relationships, it’s harder for him to be affectionate and intimate. This month you need to be cautious if you are internet dating with a Gemini man, try not to do anything brand new or take the relationship to the next level.
Try and keep things going, but don’t try any radical new approaches. This may not be the best month to open up communication about a surprising new topic with Taurus Guy as he doesn’t really like surprises right now.
October 2024 Horoscope for a Gemini Man (week by week)
Week 1: Energize his potential
Now, this week is unusual in that we have a grand water trine between Venus, Mars, and Saturn. So, what does that represent? Well, it always encompasses some luck, some creativity, and the possibility for romance, and particularly for Gemini Man, it’s all about making money.
This can be a lucky time in his career where he gets a lead, a break, or is introduced to someone who can help complement his skills or fulfill a role that will help him go to the next level. So, it’s very important for him to nurture connections with colleagues.
In terms of your relationship, he may have a need to talk shop or bounce ideas off you. He often suffers from a slight lack of confidence, and it’s important for you to show your belief in him.
What he really appreciates in a partner right now is someone who’s encouraging, supportive, and who sees his true potential and just gives him the energy to go to the next level.
Week 2: Impetus for great memories
This is still a week about good business sense, and networking is vital. So help him by attending some work socials or helping him arrange some networking events, particularly if you’re in a similar career as that can be really helpful, and a Gemini man always finds someone who’s interested in his business romantic and a turn-on.
He likes someone who is an idea-rich person, so don’t be afraid to put your penny’s worth in—this he really appreciates. Now, more importantly, the Sun in Gemini is trine Jupiter in Gemini, making this an awesome time for date nights and expansion, and a fantastic time for new relationships to really get off to a cracking start.
So, if you’re in a brand new relationship with a Gemini man, make sure that you’re expanding, doing fun things together, introducing him to your friends and hobbies, and ensuring that date nights are fairly upbeat and lively.
You don’t want to be pouring your heart out about your ex—that’s not a good start to a relationship. Have fun and create some good new memories and an impetus for positive change.
Week 3: Tear Away
Now, this can be a more tense and tricky week. Venus in Scorpio is opposite Uranus, and the Sun, which is at the end of Libra, is heading for a square with Pluto, which is still in Capricorn.
The key idea here is unfinished business—that’s why I said purging is important. What this encompasses is dealing with loose ends and making sure that certain things in your lives are finalized and put to bed.
Now, if you’re dating, this might be a good time for a pause or a pressure break so that you can maybe sort out things in your life, like your ex or your issues, and he can sort out things in his life.
It’s important to acknowledge external factors that have perhaps threatened to tear the relationship apart or to put a damper on the relationship. Only by dealing with those can the marriage or relationship thrive. You come together, you identify problems, and you nail them and blitz them.
Week 4: Patience and Particulars
This week, Venus is in Sagittarius, which is, of course, very constructive and productive in love, denoting an opportunity for greater romance and intimacy, but it’s also square to Saturn, which is in Pisces, and Mars in Cancer is trine Neptune in Pisces. So, there is a slight hint of doubt and directionlessness to a Gemini man.
Now, you know he’s indecisive, and you will experience that right now. Sometimes he can be a little bit vague, and you may question if the relationship is on track, particularly if you’ve just gotten to know him.
The whole key to this week is dealing with doubts by being compassionate and flexible. Try to understand where he’s at and communicate appropriately. This is certainly a time to avoid any aggression or looking for confrontation, so be constructive and try to approach things in a rational way, but allow time for him to respond because it’s not a time when results in relationships and efforts are an overnight thing.
Summary
Now, this is a month to enjoy, so go ahead with confidence, communicate with verve, inject positivity, be creative with solutions, and don’t forget your date nights and having fun.
However, you should also be purposeful because a lot of solid progress can be made to the foundations of the relationship if you’re paying attention and you understand the core threats and strengths of your relationship with a Gemini man.
Make your Gemini man OBSESSED…
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The one the leading man just CAN’T stop thinking about?
The sexy, affectionate protagonist would do anything for this woman…
He will go to extremes to get her attention and make her happy.
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And you are the filler character who is secretly in love with this gorgeous man…
But is unable to get his attention.
Why is that?
Because you don’t have that “wow factor” that the irresistible girl he’s in love with has.
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Sending you much love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
