Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Gemini man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Gemini man or improve your relationship with one in October 2020.
Attracting a Gemini Man in October 2020
1. Be a Social Butterfly
After an intense month of drama and uncertainty surrounding family and home, Gemini men are ready for a fun night of dancing and a lively night on the town.
From October 1 until October 22, the Sun will be prancing its way through socialite Libra. As an action-oriented air sign, Libra’s elite communication skills can win over any heart. Libra is known for its balance and fairness in astrology.
For the Gemini man, Libra Season brings an influx of phone calls, party invitations, and love interests. His charming and humorous nature will be the center of every woman’s attention.
During this transit, the Sun in Libra will illuminate the Gemini man’s fifth house of romance and pleasure. With the Sun in his fifth house, he will be more open to meeting someone new, especially if you like to have a good time!
Because Geminis typically have a lot of friends, Libra’s social nature awakens Gemini’s desire to mingle. So naturally, if you want to get his attention, you need to be more social and get to know his friends. It turns him on when women are not shy.
From October 22 until November 21, the Sun will leave outgoing Libra and enter mysterious Scorpio. During this period, the Sun will transit the Gemini man’s sixth house of work and health.
If you find that he is busier or less available emotionally, find healthy ways to communicate your frustration. In other words, do not throw oil on an open flame.
2. Handle Things at Home
Making sure that the people in his life are safe and protected is a top priority for the Gemini man, especially when it comes to the woman he loves.
From October 2 until October 27, Venus, the planet of relationships, will be transiting helpful Virgo, inspiring the Gemini man to be more hands-on and disciplined in love.
Because the fourth house rules the family and home, the Gemini man will be most attracted to a particularly domestic woman. He wants someone who likes to cook healthy meals, take walks in the park, and talk about subjects like philosophy, wellness, and financial management—anything that develops positive self-growth.
Because he is a natural conversationalist, the best way to attract a Gemini man in October is to take genuine interest in his vision of fatherhood, matrimony, and security as a whole.
Starting on October 27 when Venus enters flirtatious Libra, the focused energy you felt from the Gemini man may go flying right out the window.
Therefore, if you want to attract him, you need to handle things at home and make sure you establish a solid foundation. Talk about your boundaries, wants, and needs. Make sure you are on the same wavelength.
3. Stop Overthinking
As much as the Gemini man enjoys talking, he despises arguing.
This free-flowing mutable air sign believes life is lived in the little moments. He doesn’t believe you can force things; he believes you have to accept them as they come.
In October 2020, the Gemini man may have to put this philosophy to the test. On October 13, Mercury, the planet of thought and communication, will station retrograde in Scorpio.
Although retrograde has a profound influence on all Zodiac signs, Gemini feels the effects of Mercury’s retrograde the most.
This is because Mercury is the Gemini man’s planetary ruler. Mercury influences the Gemini man’s love for learning, socialization, and self-discovery. It is the reason these intellectual men are known for self-learning and free thought.
When Mercury stations retrograde in Scorpio, the Gemini man may ask for more space to reflect and spend time alone. Therefore, he is most attracted to a woman who is mentally stable and does not overthink.
If you are insecure and are always questioning his whereabouts, you will turn him off and push him away. If you feel like this may be happening for you, perhaps it’s time to let him come to you instead. Rather than forcing things, let them flow at their own pace. Don’t get stuck in your head or rush things along.
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4. Celebrate Him
Full Moons in astrology are always a time of celebration. And for the free-spirited Gemini man, the October 1-2 full moon in Aries is just what he needs to boost his mojo and reawaken his soul! He’s gone through a lot in the past six months.
The Aries full Moon will highlight his eleventh house of friendships and higher vision. As an astrologer, I’ve found that anytime there is a full Moon in your eleventh house, you will almost always be involved with some type of gathering.
Being that the Gemini man loves to party and the full Moon will occur while the Sun is in socialite Libra, this is an excellent time to surprise him with a token of appreciation. If you have his friends’ or family’s contact information or have been looking for a good time to introduce him to your own tribe, find ways to mingle and connect.
Overall, October 2020 offers a promising opportunity to find and build love with a Gemini man.
To attract a Gemini man in October 2020, I would suggest you focus on getting out of the house and taking him for a night on the town, handling things at home, stopping the negativity and useless overthinking, and celebrating him for the glorious man he is!
If you can do this, you are well on your way to attracting a loving Gemini man. I am sending you so much light on your journey!
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