Hello Sweethearts, I’m really excited to bring you this month’s prediction for Gemini Guy, particularly because it is going to be quite an unpredictable and exciting one. So let’s get cracking!
This guide is aimed at people who are either married to or dating Gemini Guy to help you understand his moves, his moods, his motivations and the themes which will be affecting your relationship this month, July 2023.
The New Moon happens on the 17th of the month in the Cancer, and it triggers a searching quality. He’s more likely to have vivid dreams, and these can often be precognitive or rather stimulating, but they can also show seeds of doubt in his mind.
Even if he’s generally happy, he could feel lonely and often, he can’t fully put his finger on what is wrong, but he has a sense that something needs his attention or is missing.
Encourage him to be positive and not to entertain doubts as while it’s good to be alert to his intuition, he shouldn’t allow negative feelings to prosper or that can lead to self-fulfilling prophecies.
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Mars enters Virgo on the 11th of July
This particular transit of Mars can exacerbate the restlessness he’s feeling. He is unlikely to want to stop at one place for long, it’s almost as if he has a sense of urgency, and he’s very keen not to miss out. His attention span is rather short right now, and so it’s not always easy to have a peaceful time when you’re around him.
You tend to feel that his energy is very high, and you will probably need to have some breaks apart from him, simply so that you can settle down and catch your breath because sometimes he’s quite like a fairground rolled into one person.
This is a month when it’s often necessary to deal with matters to do with family and home, however in the home environment, he tends to have quite a short fuse so he can be a little bit irritable and ill-tempered when he has to deal with property matters. He lacks patience in dealing with certain family members, so it may be easier for you to deal with decisions regarding your home life and your extended family. It’s not the best time to have relatives over to stay.
Mercury enters Leo on the 12th of July
This will be an invigorating transit for Gemini Guy as his ruler entering Leo brings on a very creative, confident phase for him and he is likely to be outgoing and quite vivacious. This is a time when he can also be quite an opinionated and talkative, as when he’s got an idea he tends to want to run with it, and he’s quite hot-headed. He doesn’t always ask for advice, as this is a time when he’s a lot more decisive, which can be good because often Gemini Guy can’t make up his mind.
At the same time, his options are rather wide as he is seeing the world as his oyster and sometimes he lands up with way too many balls to juggle. So this month suits him in a way, because there’s a lot of variety and he can be a Jack of all trades, but sometimes he can get a little bit ahead of himself. Thus, help him to understand when it’s time to stop.
This is a great time if you are dating him, because he is quite a romantic, but remember words come quite easy to him, so you’ve got to look in his eyes to understand where he’s really at emotionally because right now there’s a lot of talk and talk is sometimes cheap.
New Moon on the 17th July in Cancer
The New Moon definitely signifies a time for him to get a grip on financial and money matters. It’s a great time for redoing schedules, and having a mid-year rethink about your budgets and the goals you have in terms of what you need to buy it. Rethink your aspirations for the rest of the year in terms of money and your savings for holidays or other big purchases.
This is also a time when the level of trust and respect you have for each other becomes paramount and could be tested. So in relationships that are still young and haven’t really evolved yet, you may discover you’re not on the same page and it’s a struggle to improve understanding. This is like a holding period until you really begin to click and work each other out.
In terms of long-term relationships, it’s important to understand the patterns and triggers, because sometimes experience counts, and you can use your knowledge of what’s gone on in the relationship previously to inform you about the best way to proceed in love.
Venus is Retrograde from the 23rd of July
This impacts him in a few ways: firstly, in terms of new romance and dating, he can be very tricky to pin down, this is not a time when he wants to commit and sometimes he spreads herself a little bit thin emotionally. So yes, he does want to go out and he does want to have fun, but he’s not particularly attentive and he made even feel distant at times.
Secondly, you’re not really sure what he wants or needs from you and his insecurities can cause some defensive behavior.
This is also not the greatest time for beginning a romance with Gemini Guy, so after the 23rd, if you guys have been chatting online for example, maybe it’s not the best time to have your first date in person.
Alternatively, if you are married to a Gemini Guy, after the 23rd until Venus goes direct next month, is not ideal for date nights. Ideally, tread water and let things be, try not to plan anything, especially if it’s very sentimental or traditional.
Theme of the month : Gemini Guy is eager and generous this month. He’s also compassionate and can be romantic, but he’s also an unknown quantity whose moods are unpredictable. So expect a pick ‘n’ mix of experiences with Gemini Guy that are a little intriguing and sometimes misleading. Understand that he’s in flux and encourage him to be positive but don’t crowd him.
Magic Phrase: “We make a great team when you let me in.”
Magic Text: “A love your wild side.”
Do: The new moon phase extends from the 17th of July to the 30th of July this waxing phase is the perfect fortnight for new initiatives, setting plans, establishing goals, starting anything prospective and being proactive.
An excellent time for family events, entertaining and dinner parties. Catering, hospitality and family businesses are favored.
Avoid: On the 23rd Venus goes retrograde in Leo, this indicates that internet and cyber dating is not favored from this date. His negotiations and business discussions are protracted. This is not the best time for strenuous exercise, strict routines and confrontation. It’s not a great time for business trips. The waxing phase is not the best time for short-distance travel.
Applying for loans, remortgaging and more debt is not favored. This not a good period for new tax arrangements. Sex therapy is not favored.
Week One – People-pleasing Exhaustion
This can be a week of smoke and mirrors with Gemini Guy, he’s saying one thing but his heart may not be agreeing with his head. He’s in quite a sociable mood, but he’s also people-pleasing as he is extremely cautious of any conflict. Right now his mode is to go with the flow and seek harmony and cooperation with others, however sometimes this means that he’s not entirely sincere.
He can agree to go along with things even if he has reservations, as he always tends to think that these reservations will go away, but sometimes they cause nagging doubts which subconsciously affect his best intentions.
So right now, if he’s erratic or he lets you down, that’s not his intention, he probably had the best motives in mind, but he was lying to himself and therefore he couldn’t follow through. In other aspects, he’s actually suffering a lot more doubt inside than it may appear on the surface as often he appears quite adventurous and gung ho, but inside he can be experiencing some nervousness and this is why his words and his subsequence actions don’t always line up.
Week Two – Encourage him to take it easy
During this week Gemini Guy is experiencing more intense emotions than he normally would. Sometimes he is bothered by worry and anxiety. Now you know that Gemini Guy likes to work everything out in his head, but sometimes his mind goes round and round like a carousel and he doesn’t end up coming to any conclusions. So right now his analysis of situations is presenting more questions than answers, and this is really frustrating him. He can become a little bit paranoid this week, and this can lead to him being easily triggered or a little bit sensitive.
It’s ideal for him to have some quiet moments by himself to regain a sense of inner wisdom and understanding, but he’s more likely to seek distractions and in that, he can be quite obsessive. So it’s not always easy to understand what’s going on with him right now, but encourage him to relax, chill out and to understand that not everything has an immediate answer and that the passage of time is often the key to solving problems.
This is definitely a great time if he has any study or in-depth research and work to do because he can become highly focused and he is at his ultra-curious best.
Week Three – Career-focused
This week he is hardworking and very focused on his career, but he’s also eager to be thoughtful towards his family and to fulfill his commitments. He’s extremely thorough, and he’s also holding himself to account.
He may achieve leadership roles within his career or work and this is likely to be quite demanding. It’s a time when it’s important for you to give him a lot of encouragement, let him know you’re in his corner, but at the same time, remember that he can be a little bit secretive, so don’t be obtrusive just let him know that it’s all good and he can do what he needs to do. Sometimes the buck stops with you in terms of family affairs, simply because he is spread thin over quite a number of activities.
He’s pretty ambitious right now, and as I said he’s taking on a lot this month, so while he’s busy with his career, he’s also eager to take on things to do with home and family. So he may be pressing go on many new projects without really understanding what he’s letting himself in for.
Week Four – Contradictions Revealed
Now week four is an interesting mix, during this week he is again deeply emotional, so relationships where there is a strong bond in terms of you guys getting each other at an almost psychic and intuitive level, are strong. Spiritual relationships are greatly enhanced and it’ll be much easier for you guys to connect simply because you can read between the lines and you know him so well, you almost know him better than he knows himself.
However, if you’re still new to a relationship with the Gemini Guy, this week will be a steep learning curve because you’re going to get a full view of all the contradictions that come with going out like with a dual sign, like Gemini. He will be sweet and sour, salt and pepper, and he’s very changeable, but at the same time, there’s a certain vulnerability to him, which he doesn’t quite know how to handle.
Thus it’s important for you to show him love, to be protective and very affectionate. Console him where necessary, Gemini Guy shows a lot of bravado, he seems carefree, but in reality, he needs a lot of love and emotional care.
So this is quite a colorful week, Gemini Guy tends to be a lot more emotional and this brings a lot of intensity but also mystery to the relationship. It’s a time, in both new and older relationships, when he can be a little bit confusing, he’s carrying a lot in terms of anxiety and stress, but at the same time, he’s also wanting to live life to the full, in his inimitable style.
So his answer to having a lot on his plate is to dish himself up even more, and in this way, he can take on too much. He is ambitious, but he’s incredibly restless as well, which means he’s up for romance, for socializing and he’s also hard at work. In July, he really is burning the candle at both ends, which makes him quite exhausting to be with.
Wishing you love and luck with your Gemini Man,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,