How do you know a Gemini man has a crush on you? His flirtation signs have a nuance unique to his sign. If you don’t take the time to decode his behavior, you might be wasting your time.
If you’re like most women, you may misconstrue a Gemini’s love signals. Reading too much into innocent cues and missing crucial signs is common with confusing Geminis.
That’s where I come in.
In case we haven’t met, my name is Anna Kovach. As a relationship astrologer with over twenty years of experience, I can help you understand the foolproof signs a Gemini man is into you, even when he’s trying to hide it.
Here are some things I’ve learned over the years…
1. He texts incessantly
Geminis are the chatterboxes of the zodiac. When a man born under this sign texts you with flirty messages once in a while, it may not be a meaningful sign. But if he bombards you with texts, you’re in luck.
Incessant texting is one of the signs a Gemini guy is secretly wild about you. He may have a deeper crush than he lets on, but he won’t be able to resist texting you frequently- and initiating contact- when he’s interested in you.
If you find yourself on the verge of being annoyed because he texts you updates about random things, don’t show him you’re frustrated. This is one of the clear signs a Gemini man is falling for you.
2. He seeks your advice
One of the clearest physical signs a Gemini man likes you is also the most flattering. Men born under this sign are intellectual and eager to learn, yet they are also indecisive. When a Gemini man asks your advice and opinions, he’s showing you he values your knowledge.
This is perhaps the greatest compliment a Gemini man can give a woman. He might compliment a woman’s body when he flirts, but that is nothing compared to a Gemini guy asking you to impart wisdom. Learning and communication are a Gemini man’s love language.
If he turns to you as a confidant, take his trust to heart. A Gemini man needs time to reveal his feelings, but he shows his attraction by taking your suggestions seriously.
3. He brainstorms with you
One of the key signs a Gemini man has a crush on you is when he wants to get the creative juices flowing. When a Gemini man brainstorms with you, it’s a sign he’s attracted.
He might seem flighty, but this is normal for Gemini men. Their inconsistency and distracted nature can make them seem inattentive. Yet, Gemini men only want to play off your creative energy if they feel an emotional connection.
4. He spends time alone with you
Signs a Gemini man just wants to be friends might confuse you. You may think he’s really into you when he always invites you out with friends. But a Gemini man who only hangs out with you in a group isn’t hiding a crush- he’s not romantically attracted yet.
A Gemini man with a secret crush wants to be alone with you any chance he gets.
5. He shares creative ideas with you
A Gemini man who makes eye contact when speaking is showing you a potent sign that he’s wild about you. He may not pour his heart out, but he communicates through body language.
When he shares creative ideas with you, his eyes light up. You’ll see the spark of passion when a Gemini man is into you.
6. He teases you
Gemini men are charming, and their flirty nature can be confusing. You may wonder, is he like this with all women? If he’s teasing you, the answer is, ‘no.’ A Gemini man who teases you is indicating he has feelings for you.
He may playfully seduce you and use his snarky and irreverent sense of humor to make you smile. If your Gemini guy is teasing you, he is harboring a secret crush and trying hard to hide it- which means he wants you badly!
A Gemini man sexually attracted to you doesn’t hold back. But seduction alone isn’t a sign he has a crush. Gemini guys can separate their emotional desires from their lusty passions. If he teases you and draws out the courtship, he’s interested in you.
7. He introduces you to his friends
Gemini men thrive on social energy. They are outgoing and love being part of a crowd. If a Gemini man introduces you to all his friends, he has long term plans for you.
This is a step he only takes if he secretly likes you. He wants to make sure you get along with his friends because he plans on making you a part of his life for the long run.
Make a winning first impression, a Gemini man won’t choose a love interes over his pals.
8. He wants to share his skills with you
Gemini men have so much love to give. They also have knowledge and skills they hope will impress you. When a Gemini man secretly likes you, he is eager to impart his skills. He may teach you to code or make videos. He wants you to learn the numerous languages he speaks.
He is eager to be your mentor and teacher when he has a crush. A Gemini man who is invested in helping you learn is showing you how much he values you.
One of the tell-tale signs a Gemini man likes you through text is when he sends you articles and how-to videos. A Gemini man will try to educate you when he’s serious about the relationship.
How many signs can you count that confirm your Gemini man is serious about you? I’d love to hear what you think.
Don’t forget, Gemini men can be confusing. They often show mixed signals, but you’re now armed with the knowledge you need- and knowledge is power with a Gemini.
So many of my clients have asked me:
“How do I keep a Gemini man interested once I know he likes me?”
“How do I flirt back without coming on too strong?”
The truth is, attraction is only the beginning.
If you want to keep a Gemini man hooked—mentally, emotionally, and physically—you need to speak his language.
That’s exactly what I help you do in my guide, Magic Phrases.
It’s full of playful, irresistible things to say that spark his curiosity and make him crave more of you.
If you’re ready to move from casual interest to real connection, this is your secret weapon.
With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
