Will a Gemini man come back after ghosting you? Does ‘No Contact’ even work on Gemini, or will he just give up? If you are eager to get your Gemini guy back after a break up, carefully applying a No Contact rule might be the trick you need.
Is it really worth it to follow a No Contact rule with a Gemini man?
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The answer may surprise you. Even after a breakup, it’s not too late to get a Gemini man back if you ignore him strategically.
I’m Anna Kovach, and as a Relationship Astrologer with decades of experience, I have learned a few things about how to get a Gemini man back. I’ve helped intelligent, successful women like you to strengthen- and even save- their bond with a Gemini man.
1. Gemini’s Need a Reset
One of the most important reasons to follow a No Contact rule with a Gemini man is because he needs a reset. Men born under this sign can get caught up in routines and feel dissatisfied. But they don’t always know how to articulate what they need in a relationship.
Sometimes, a Gemini guy just needs a chance to get away so he can start over and rethink his priorities. If you avoid contacting him and give him space to overcome stress and overwhelming feelings, your Gemini guy will be refreshed and ready to come back.
2. He Becomes Bored Easily
Gemini men are fast thinkers who need intellectual stimulation. They become bored quickly and struggle with routines. If you want to encourage a Gemini man to come back after a breakup, bear in mind he needs a change of scenery and break from you.
Though that may be hard to hear, following a No Contact rule can be just what he needs to kick start his passion.
Giving Gemini men a break can change the course of your relationship. You can get a Gemini guy back after a relationship goes south if you are willing to be patient and avoid reaching out to him. It doesn’t take long for a Gemini man to miss you if you avoid him.
3. He Needs Time to Miss You
How long does it take for a Gemini man to miss you? He doesn’t need weeks, and can have a change of heart in a matter of days if you don’t reach out to him no matter how tempting.
Even if a Gemini guy is really into you, he may lose interest if you are together too frequently. Gemini men occasionally need space and if they don’t get it, they may panic and ghost you. If you try to get him to explain himself, or reconnect, he may write you off as too eager.
Give him space by not only staying away physically, but avoiding communication until he reaches out to you- and he will.
4. He Needs Space at First
A Gemini man may need space when he first breaks up with you. He might say he still wants to be friends, but then acts surprised when you continue contacting him. But if you give him time, he will realize how boring life is without you.
Will a Gemini man stalk you? He will watch your social media and keep an eye on you from a distance, but only if you give him plenty of breathing room. Gemini men shut down if you are too persistent.
5. Give Him Time to be Curious About You
As an intellectual air sign, Gemini men need space to become curious about you after you go quiet. If you are too revealing, Gemini feels he has nothing to learn from you.
You’ll see signs a Gemini man wants you back if you invest in learning and creative projects rather than chasing a Gemini guy after a breakup. Leave him alone at first, focus on your unique interests rather than trying to impress him and he won’t be able to ignore you.
6. Make Him Work for Your Attention
If a Gemini man seems to lose interest, he won’t stay distant forever. Geminis are indecisive. They can’t help rethinking their choices. If you can give him time to reconsider a breakup, he will eventually come back.
How long does it take a Gemini man to miss you? If you can avoid reaching out to him, he’ll eventually come back to you. A Gemini man returns to you when he has had a few days or even a week to remember all the things he loved about you.
When he starts to come around, don’t let your guard down. Make him work for your attention. Don’t give in too easily.
7. He Will Eventually Want You Back
Will a Gemini man reach out if they miss you? You can expect him to change his mind and come back after you leave him alone. A Gemini guy will eventually rethink a breakup, but only if he has time alone. He will forget why he was unhappy with you and remember the fun you had together, but you must resist the urge to try to convince him.
When he can no longer turn to you for jokes, humor, and fun, a Gemini man will try to get you back.
You may wonder, does No Contact work on a Gemini man? But if you have nothing to lose, going silent can motivate him to reconnect with you.
If your Gemini guy has gone silent, or if he says he just wants to be friends, use a No Contact rule to prompt him to rethink his decision. He needs time away from you to realize how much he misses you.
Don’t text him first, don’t call, and don’t try to see him. When he finally contacts you, respond slowly.
And when you’ve given this tactic a try, let me know how it goes. I want to hear from you.
Have you gone no contact with your Gemini man before?
Was he hot and cold, or did he come back with twice the charm?
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With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
hi,
I am unfortunately inlove with a gemini man the second time around. To unbelievably the same man. We were babies when I first fell in love with him, no intimacy as we were then young , or maybe i should say i was a bit naive in my 20s. He was 18, when we first got encounters but could not deny that he was the one who first got hold of my heart and soul? He was inconsistent then, he was warm and cold, ghost you and etc. But somehow, i knew deep inside me then that the feelings were mutual but doubted it because of his actions. i thought for 2 decades that he actually just did not love me enough.
2011, He sent me a message saying he was very sorry and if i was still single, he was suggesting we get back together, but i was already engaged to get married to a man I thought the opposite of him. i never had to deal with emitional turbulence. Plus i maybe under pressure of starting a family which in the end did not materialised for many reasons.
Then last year, almost end of Sept, He got in touched again. He was requesting to be added on facebook and that he was sorry again for the things he has done in the past. I assessed myself whether i trully forgiven him and the answer was yes because i thought, it has been a kong time ago, and now we are older. i also thought he may have his own family now but turned out that he was still single.
To cut the story short, unexpectedly, i fell for him double, i mean my emtions were unbelievable. I felts he was the same. I am sure he wasnt expecting it too. We had a great 3 months of good flow of conversations. The effect was i was just like getting to myself again after a long time of feeling dormant. I had a surge of energy and ready to face the world again. This lead me to ask my husband for a divorce. This decision was made based on whther i will be with Romeo or not. This gemini did not know what was actually happening with my marriage because i felt it was not proper to share my marital problems with him at that time. But after sometime, i felt that he was distancing himself. It doesnt help that we are not physically seeing each other or even he says he is feeling nervous to talk to me over the phone. we manged to communicate via txt on messenger. Although, he would always reply but not as quick as he did. Eventually, i was left feeling confused and felt like in a roller coaster ride again. He was like behaving like he was when were babies.
I blocked him from febraury to beginning of June this year as I thought i couldnt be putting up with such inconsistency again but deep inside me, i was thinking of him everyday. So i could not hold myself and texted him on his birthday 4rth of June. He responded and he said thank you and that he is happy now.. eventually i got swallowed in the same cycle again.. his walls are getting more frequent but he does respond eventually butbit was not as interactive as he did. one foot in out foor out. Although he was motivating me on my goals but i thought maybe he was not really into commitment or present. I am guessing he wasnt maybe sure. We have not met in person this time. He moved to the US in December, and im in the UK.
one important thing to mention is, he is not well physically, he has a heart problem which requires heart surgery and he is still not sure whether he will go through it or not. It is serious and could cause his life. But medically speaking, it will cause his life whether he will have his surgery or not. It is a choice that he needs to make though. Despite, this i still wanted to be a part of his life, how much ever is left. But i felt he is confuse and undecided about how he can navigate his love life with all his health and maybe respinsibilities.
Something trieggered me the other day whilst we were txting and so i thought i had enough of this uncertainty worst the emotiinal roller coaster it brings me everyday. i dont deserve such treatment. I decided to let go. so i sent a rather long message addressing what we were talking about. i was angry on my txt but i told him that we maybe are choosing different paths and has chosen ways that would protect us. That i wanted closeness and that he wanted space. i wished him well and i hoped that he will find what he is looking for.
This time is difficult for me, sometimes im feeling strong and grounded and sometimes i missed and him and wonder if he is doing well. i dont also dont want to burden him if he was finding that our connection was becoming a burden rather than a source of strength.
I hope i will survive this and i hope no contact is the right path for both of us.
i am an aquarius, born january 27,1978.